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Show r-- o .x, CONF1DENT1ALLY , , dent- - of obe Today's Thought , By MART MARKER W41. Pep without purpose is piffle. - Anil 404 r, ty-- ' DESERET YOURS ,Young People Should Be Pollen,. With 'Odd Bellavior' of Parents ; - r, b, t t ,. t , ' k , ' , , , ' , . Dera Mary Marker: Mn. A. X. has a real problem one with her- - mother-in-lawhich, to roe seems hcarcely possible of solution by having her husband firmly tell his mother that she must not "insuit" the neighbor's children. or that she must be more considerate of his wite's position and feelings, as the mistress of her home. As one becomes older, one be- comes "set" in one's ways and part of this setness, with a mother, is resentment of millcism; even (or especially) from her son. Rather than attempt to temporize, I feel that the complete solution would be to have the mother-in-labecome a real w of the fine rest homes for elderly people in and around Salt Lake. Here the older people enjoy the association of people their own age. The irritation from children is absent, the criticism of the wile will not be possible, effect will be and the over-al- l satisfaction to all concerned. 'Glad to Serve' Dear Glad Ts Serve: Your suggestion might prove a satisfactory solution, though expense might be a consideration. However, if the mother has some personal,or- - old-ag- e income, and would rent her house, and the son could supplement that, these awns together might keep "Grandma" where sheand her family as well would be happier. The son might repair and paint his mother's home so that it would bring in more rent. SEEKS CONTENTMENT However. I know of one well to-d- elderly lady who went o take NEWS,' Salt Seatern1er-3-0- City,, Utah, ,Sunday Morning, wanted is very hard on the hu. man personalitY), , If people through their Hves, have nursed their disappointments, rather than the happy experiences, then the frustrations of age call forth th frustrations of the past years to come along and commiserate with 'them. They step out of out at memory like Lballet and often put on a very queer and pathetic performance, full of bitterness and witit an underlying background of 'personal failure. Often it is to cover these heart-hungeand feelings of personal failure or of being put upon that old people, become querulous and petulant and "insulting." , Nevertheless. no mother should try' to take over the reins In her daughter-in-law- 's home, nor insult the grandchildren's friends, so that they avoid those children and give them complexes that will injure them all their lives. If there cannot be change. then a separation is im, solo-dance- 1951::-- S : TOMORROW YOU'LL WEAR , from rest-hom-e tip nursing home, one after another, in several states, but was never content to remain in any of them. Often, though, such a home d3es work out very well. Many of them are operated by people who understand the old . and as you suggest, many ofthe causes for old peoples bad behavior in their children's homes are absent in these domiciles which Ire planned and operated with the needs and tastes of elderly people in mind. and where they often find congenial companionship. EXERCISE PATIENCE Younger people should have as much patience as possible with age because growing old brings many difficulties. There are inevitable frustrations, due to physical decline, to loss of itattic or position, to a lessening of their importance to other perative. people (not being needed or I double handbags that give you a hshion for your money. They are in smart flat envelope styles and softer pouch types with bracelet handles. sometimes two fabrics such as moire and satin lend further interest. and metallie triminingx add a sparkling touth , to those for s. gala occasions. tvto-in-o- thst-Sa- Y uP the color of silver to add a new kind of glitter to those after five bouts. , You'll find silver beads to wear with silk jersey silver shortie gloves. or you rnay to the accent topaz jewelry a set of evening sects- -, rich new browns and grays in prefer tortes tearning a jewelled, sliver fall costumes. You'll find belt to a silver fabric tag. matched sets of earrings. neck kid laces, pins and bracelets in a variety of different sizes and cuts. .1 I Choose Simple Suit For First Attempt ' ) - rs novelty woolknit sweater A favorite trick of the smart done in a lacy knit and with sleeves. deep dolman Beading sewer is to choose a simple pattern but an interesting tab-Th- is --t- , he ve' Bride-May-Ha- combination generally results in a professional-look- htg Costume that often fools friends into thinking you toditt not have possibly made that toot This is a good plan to follow if you are thinking of a hew winter suit.' It is an excellent one ' for the beginner. Drees Short The informal wedding can be as pretty as a bride desires, for she, may choose one of the shorter dresses with flatterthit neckline and little sleeves. Most of these have the sew fuller skirt that is so appropriate for a wedding costume. M. AL , See The Beautiful Handiwork Made IP . ow You And Your Friends to 0004 .316 Exhibited At, t. ' g, NILA JEAN BROWN wed in Temple , MISS ROOT now Mn. Apowoo News Wedding Tells Utah Nuptial Events O. OREMAnnouncement is made by Mr. and Mrs. Delbert B. Brown of Provo of the marriage of their daughter, Nile Jean. and Theodore R. Miller, son of Mr. and Mrs. William C. 'kWh 71 too 41'4 Miller The couple exchanged wedding vor, Sept. 2I, in the Salt Lake Temple. Elder Harold B. Lee of the Council of the Twelve performed the nuptials. A wedding breakfast at the Temple Square Hotel following the ceremony was given by parents of the bridegroom. ha the evening hours a reception was held at the Joseph Smith Memorial Building, with Mr. and Mrs. Brown acting as hosts. The blonde bride wore a traditional white ntin gown fashictned with an inset yoke, topped with a high round collar. A pearl crown held bet illusion veil of bridal lion. The bouquet was of pink roses centered with a white , , orchid. Mrs. Richard Lamoreaux,' sister- of the bride, was maid of honor: while bridesmaids Were Miss Viva Brown and Miss Marna Muhlestein. Little Sandra Hunsaker was Gower girl. - Allen Hair stood as best man. Ushers were Russell and Roger Miller and Richard Lamoreaux. Following the hoheymoon, the couple are now at home at Christeele Acres, Orem. 8 Root-Apow- H!i' - ik ' , :-- - , crocheting and nvdlework have brought the results of their crafts to ZCNII to exhibit from October &Africa' shown o: KITSCort Yarn; ut SOCK KIT Sugsr-Spu- n nylon'yOm b Eight cdor Aorobitssikwis 1 - , Fksh.vs. ..143 here. You too tan make them for yourselffor all your woo l 1 - ZCMI ART NEEDLEWORK Second Floor Plitt NESDLICKATT PICTITIII KITS Shop ZCM1 Monday Evening Until 9:00 p.m: Store Opens 12 Noon. ; 7, :.7: Contein ' hond embroidered gills edt;ouettei, 'embroidery Lt3 - OTSTIlt CLOTHn LIKEN! In lunthesn or dinner sizes, stomp. Nose- , tor easy embroidery.. god ", 7.t3 2.C3 . , I , , AfrettAN--ttrit- hh RAINBOW knit-tin- e worsted, toady to kok No booing. Drown hoot center. 50 skeins teetered. 330 per disks Ir AFGHAN STRAWIttlitt KIT-4- or koliting or csochotiotx Pore wool ofghott rims In blooded loom 12 pkgs. Peetaired449 pat affive NYLON-- DIMITY Reedy stomped tor beautiful beaidery tm solid isd, own, t 3.11..4 laof biu, 1AS 7 - ' t ..zft 1 - fat roytolv end sweaters. socks - ! 1 - OA I Finn Fitts ittLOW pilaw quickly, PUFF Okts rayon in decorator rr- , Itrr. hock& 1.29 ta LS3 SS r2,3 , . weens..0$0008 YARN 1, Flehhow ( ' Bo- 4.83 &SO se ' I .q S I., 7 4' L S - i S .0111.14,0011PSOR 1 news, telling MISS of the engagement of Miss Barbara Anderson and Ladd J. Black is made known by the bide-elec- ts al parents. s ,, I ANDEBSON-7Betroth- - g , - rrytcm thru 6. Some really exquisite works are I. r1 lock yorn, end toe. Wonder-be- d 3 ply eli rtinforced 01.0 - ti? SOCK KIT AILOYLE Contains, needs. ,That's true economy, He has fulfilled a mission in Mexico. At the - GLOVI See also, the many kits for making the several useful, and attractive , - present time. He- is stationed at Camp Roberts, Calif., yiitti , yri end sock PLAID The future bridigioiim.fiis attended the Brigham Young the Artily. WOMEN'S tains mercerized cotton worn kn. Polo ported cepedEkl, reotty-c- de-ke- el on dipplay and ZC311 cordially invitesyou to come in to see them. - University. two . Utah 'women who'have lent their skill to the arts of knitting, exiihmittery, a - Use Flehlv',, nti t OAK CITYMr.: and Mrs. LeRoy Anderson announce the engagement their daughter, Barbara, sto Ladd J. Black, son of Mr. Ind Stn.-Jun- e Black, of Delta. of Dixie Junior a is Miss Anderson College. graduate She has ,recently returned from fulfilling a mission in Caldonla oodeded eft ; oo Barbaro Anderson . 4 NAND KNIT KITS sweeter ent is made of the recent marriage of Miss Lea Root to Anton Apowoo. Bishop C. Gilbert Ellingsford of Whiterocks Ward, performed the ceremony which took place at the home of Mr. and Mrs. James Harvey. Tile bride is a daughtier of Mr. and Mri. Mazle Root. Parents of the bridegroom are MY. and Mrs. Dan Apowoo. A reteption followed the rites at the Whiterocks Ward litneetinghouse. for the The bride chose a gown et pale yellow taffeta nuptials and reception. Her fingertip veil was secured by a ruffled cap of net and lace, tiimmed with flowers. She donned ir matching 'corsage., 11'he couple are now st home in Whiterocks. ' - . ROOSENTELT--Announcem- 4 -- NslottpoiNt. cavort for poor Mok chain. noodle. too-stoo- k. benchoo,' cyshions 1.$9 es 5.113 APRON. TOWEL. HOLDER Stornood kits for each of 'obey. Sanforised. colorfast fabrics. Holden Arose "' Towels. Pt. 3t 133 1SS vo4rmodot,4, , 010041T"14$11 void 'fornotat DMC cameo isvvetted from Franco ie crodlot beautsFul dod.es etc. 23 yet lel RUGStnwe mernei end you e4eri , by, Making them yourself. HOOKED ost Illbe floor- - obeeriergs ' 23e tql 1-3- DOLL WARDROBE od for'' easy embroidery. -- Oxhide dress, cox maws, booties, etc. :1 3 1 e, , 49,0.6 4., ...e IR |
