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Show 2 t I I ! Discipline problems few COX ELDER JOURNAL. Brigham City, Utah Thurzdoy, Pacwmber 23, 1976 j When parents, children have fun. . . I) Editorially Speaking (i a Who is the real Santa? We like this answer f We hope you read a special feature Christmas time, then Santa Claus, really, is you! We've never heard it expressed in a sweeter way. It seems we do get bogged down at times in preoccupation with the material pursuits of Christmas. It can become more a time of financial stress and worry than a devotion to principles taught by Jesus Christ and remembrance of his birth. Those who criticize the yuletide season because of this ought also to be aware that it is a attitude, one having relation to the sacred nature of the event we celebrate. Nothing we do or say can diminish the purpose or importance of that birth in Bethlehem nearly 2,000 years ago. But we can lift overselves up spiritually, radiating the goodness that was ; intended with the Saviors earthly life and lessons and in this way magnify his mission. Yes, how we view Santa Claus or any other aspect of Christmas is, within each of us, a reflection of our dedication to the Gospel of Jesus Christ, Mr. Pike has expressed this well. And for it, we thank him, and to him and all of you extend our wishes for a merry Christmas of love, warmth and sharing. story appearing in the Dec. 19 Box Elder News entitled You ask me, children: Who is the real Santa? It was authored by Earl A. Pike, Mound, Minn., especially for reading to the children at his church last Christmas. It proved so popular that be decided to give it wider distribution and that's how it came to appear in the Brigham City newspaper. Those who equate Santa Claus with the commercial aspects of the yuletide' season could find some comfort in Mr. Pikes account. His answer to the question about who is the real Santa Claus reads like this : Well, I think that the answer to that is everyone who gives to others, who shares freely, who, like Saint Nicholas did, offers of himself to make people happier, or better, or self-impos- safer. Santa Claus is every person who has helped make your life richer, not alone by agift of toys; but by the gift of love, of understanding, or caring. Your father and mother, brothers and sisters, your teachers, your minister they all give you someof themselves; and, therefore, thing each one of them is a Santa Claus. And when you give to those you know, give freely and with that special kind of warmth we feel at by Dr. Daryl J. McCarty Executive Secretary Utah Education Association Its a shocking experience to hear somebody tell you that he really didnt like his father. But in these days of outspokenness, these comments are sometimes heard. , And the tragedy of the situation is that the person who says such things may be telling the truth. Its a reflection of a. great gap in the education we receive. Where in the world do adults go to learn how to be parents? Some parents read Dr. Spock. Others get hints from ladies magazines. More adults watch instructive TV shows. Many go in desperation to the friend next door for advice. The PTA initiates lessons In parenting. Some classes in community schools, colleges and high schools are taught. Yet that delicate, complicated relationship between parent and child too often seems to meet with disaster. I like what one writer has to say about the subject. Its this: It is easy to play with the baby or the toddler. But in so many homes we find that before long the children are playing together and the parents go about their own business. The breach widens to the point where adults are on one side, correcting, admonishing, fighting with the children; and on the other side, the young ones are united together against their parents. Also, many parents are so busy trying to provide the best for their children that they spend little time with them. Children badly need to learn participation with adults. A regular play hour can help establish family harmony better than anything else. All kinds of games and projects can be developed which everyone can enjoy. This helps to develop a feeling of group solidarity which is essential for the equality it promotes and for the harmonious atmosphere it creates. When parents and children have fun together, few serious problems of discipline arise. So my wish for you this Christmas is many hours in the best school anywhere for learning to be a parent your own home with your own children. ed Recreation complex: Value worth the cost? come the city had to borrow $225,000 and default on a tax anticipation note? I think it is about time people quit thinking up ways to spend money we dont have, and working towards saving money so we will have. I suggest if we vote on a hard issue, we sign it Then those that vote yes, and those that dont vote can pay for it Those that vote no will not have their taxes raised. I wonder how many of Janes 600 signatures would vote yes it if was done their way? j t V Last week when a $2,250,0$ bond- - ry issue was proposed to recreation complex for Brigham City, Mayor. Harold B. Felt said its ttte desire of the city officials to respond to the public will. He was saying that if a majority of Brigham City citizens want such a facility and are willing to pay for it, then the city dads are all for it, too. home $52.74 more annually on his ' propa tax Those who are yet to be convinced that a recreation complex is even needed in Brigham City, were sure the figures are harder to force down dose of castor than on than casual interest in such a proposal. It would involve a great deal of money where this commun- School Talk By Leslie Laird District Psychologist In every classroom there are students with problems emotional, social or . educational problems that seriously interfere with school and personal life. These youngsters may find it hard to study. . . They may have difficulty getting along With teachers or classmates. They maybe our of sorts with their constantly famdee. They may do work considerably befow their ability leveL If they receive no they are in danger of becoming the and ineffective adults of tomorrow. Many may become seriously hand!-cco- d emotionally or socially. Youngsters are considered to be poorly if their behavior interferes with foaming, their personal growth and derailment, or the lews of others. A may ezpress his maladjustment jreictar 4 Shlrlay Rlchardsoa, j Classlflods Wi fa Bos Eldar Now, ( published t) la lov Elder Couaty. Subscription rata $14.00 par year phobia In advaaca In connection with, Elder New, (pubiltfad the outside los Elder County. A word about swimming pool In , In If no provision, ..no allowance is made for change by peaceful means, it will come anyway and with violence. Herbert Hoover , AVtW anna Dikiis I rT iJCf OUverDoa, TT r- 32$ West Fourth North, Brigham City Words of praise butions must be signed and also bear the writers adress and telephone number. It is suggested that letters not exceed 250 words in length. American Viewpoints decides not to call a special election this spring, as requested, supporters will secure enough signatures to have it placed on next Novembers municipal ballot. Hence, it seems almost a certainty that voters will have an opportunity to decide the proposals fate. One more thing. Mayor Felt cited the need for local citizens to correctly understand the proposal as its been presented. Certainly, well subscribe to that. If you choose to oppose the complex, please dont base that opposition on a distortion of the facts. Likewise, those who tend to favor the project should be aware of the financial commitment involved. nTnn The editor invites and welcomes letters for publication in these columns. However, contri- tatty Claybatigh, Clrculatloa Arlaad TIagay, Nawspapar Svpr.' Vaa Claybaugh, IHoto-lras- s Svpr. H. E. Aadartoa, Commarclal Mating Svpr. Svbscrlptloa rata SI0.00 par vaar la advaaca In eoaaactloa I letters to the Editor... JOURNAL' ELDER CharlM 'Tuff" Chybaugh Publlshar Sanaral Managar raca T. Kayas, Maaagtag Editor Mika lorry, Sports Editor Sarah Vatas. Soclatv Editor WE SUSPECT IF THE council THE QUESTION now becomes 20-ye- ar M .J, will. ity is concerned. But the undertaking also would provide the city with a facility long needed here. . k 9 mn Other citizens whose activities and those of their family include swimming, gymnastics, tennis, handball, weight lifting and other forms of indoor exercise and games we suspect lean more favorably toward the proposed facility. Citizens can help by expressing themselves to city officials. Mayor Harold B. Felt said as much when he stated his desire to reflect the public Jones was . A WMkhr MWipipf Mtabtblwd h Thvndn by fa IfW, pvblbtwd lox ltd ar Ntm-tama- l, It ImHi Hn Wtt. Irighwit CHy, Uttb, MS Stcend CUm postagt ptM at fa peat office, 14 South Rnt Wat Irlgfam City. Utah, MU. oil. right. Citizens should have more one of determining whether the value received is worth the investment involved. Were sure this will generate strong feelings on both sides. In case you missed the figures in an earlier news story, Roger Handy, city director of administrative services, said a $2,250,000 bond issue period would repaid over a mill 8.79 an levy increase. require Thats a sizeable jump, indeed. In actual dollars, according to Handy, it would cost file owner of a $30,000 r old-fashion- ed matter. We hope Councilman V BOX . Councilman Wayne Jones suggested that when facts and figures were made known , there would be no shortage of public opinion on the . , Editor: I would like to say a word about Jane Sargeants swimming pool . It is too bad her kids have to go out of town to swim . Why should I have to be taxed so they wont have to. She says it will only raise taxes $52. This isnt very much. But if people only get about $1,000 a year to live on, $52 to throw away for nothing is a lot About only $52 raise. When the county upgraded taxes it was supposed to only be 6 percent. Mine went up 35 percent. That means five times as much. This year the city raised property taxes. My taxes should have gone up $7. They went up $22, three times as much. At this rate $52 would raise to about $200. Some $52.00 raise! If the taxes was all that raised, it wouldnt be bad. So you think Dale Baron, Pete Knudsen, Mr. Jones or anybody else in business would take their tax increase out of profits they make now? No way. If their cost of doing business due to taxes or anything else goes up, their cost of merchandise or services go up. So all at once the $52 raise snowballs into $52 plus whatever the taxes go up on any business or service in the city. If we are going to subsidize one person's swimming or golf or anything else, which I dont take a part in, then I think we should also, subsidize something I enjoy doing. So if I am going to be taxed for swimming then lets tax everybody and buy a fleet of motor homes (I love to travel). You say this is foolish? Well if I help pay for Janes swimming, why shouldnt she help pay for something I like to do. It is reported the city could be bonded for $2.2 million. How Editor: My compliments go to the Box Elder band and chorus for their fine Christmas concert this past Monday evening. Choral Director Wes Bowen aptly demonstrated his arranging ability with an excellent rendition of Silent Night. Id like to have a copy of it if possible. A word to the post office a bouquet to those hard fellows. Complaints are often heard of the slow service. We had two Christmas packages come from Michigan, taking only one day longer than a letter from the same source, and the letters came in their normal delivery time. Thanks for a job well done. . Choose this day. ' Rev. John Romanosky, . 631 South First East . . Editor: Recently my husband and I attended a movie recommended to us as great. It nearly turned my stomach, it was so violent. We go to very few movies these days. Many other of your readers probably feel the same. May I recommend to this whole town, with enthusiastic endorsement, the Palace Theater! It is a joy, an uplift, to see their productions. Sometimes it isnt all that professional, but the enthusiasm overshadows that. If a person watches the growth of the kids from year to ' year, thats a joy, too. This particular event playing now, Happy Holidays, is delightful. It goes from laughter to solemn, meaningful drama. It puts one completely in the spirit of Christmas. To paraphrase: Choose this day what entertainment you would have, as for me and my family, we will go the the Palace Theater! l i Sincerely, JoAnne Smith, Brigham City . t every classroom are students with problems that even these in a number of ways. He may: Agressively interfere in the lives of others by fighting, behaving in an unrestrained fashion, or defying rules and regulations. Restrain himself to the point of losing his individuality or his impact on the group. Run a low-grapsychological fever which keeps him chronically unhappy. normal symptoms do not develop into anything more severe and long-lastin- g. Some students, however, have problems of sympathy will not cure. And it is important to recognize this sufficiently early in a youngsters life so that remedial steps can be taken. that time and a teaspoon de Careful observation and evaluation can help to decide whether a students problem or more is The areas of concern to us are those that fall within the category of the educational maladjusted: These are the potential dropout, the slowleamer and the underachiever. Any youngster who falls within one of these groups presents problems, to the school, to the community and to themselves. Often they get little encouragement from their families to stay in school. Frequently, too, they are the ones who deep-seate- Almost every boy or girl at some time or other has an off day, or perhaps several off days. He may be angry at a classmate or disappointed at not getting something he wanted. All youngsters face some problems as they grow and devejop, but these are temporary difficulties that are usually solved if the youngsters feel basically secure and receive sympathetic treatment Of course, we need to make sure -- d. have been considered failures at conven- tional school tasks. Many of them, however, are capable of mastering school subjects.. For the most part, these young people who drop out of school are not adequately prepared to plan a future, to compete in the labor market, or, in general, to join the adult world. However, if the potential dropout can be identified before he actually leaves school, be often can be given the assistance, and security he acceptance, turning-o- n needs to continue his education. This early identification is most important because, once a student has left school, it is almost impossible to get him to return to the classroom. ' People in business and industry, as well as education, are concerned about this problem. The nation faces a great loss in trained manpower in the next decades unless something can be done to keep more students in school. it is However, an important must essential to give names to different types of behavior, abilities or whatever defects are observed, but extreme care should be taken to see that these names are not applied as permanent labels to youngsters identified. The use of designations is valuable only, if it stimulates and encourages help for the student. We ask God why He sends travail. Why bind a child To life so scant? . Petitions filed. He does not grant, Why parents hurt. 3 Nor let them find Ways to avert e A troubled mind? The answer comes, 3 It is up to all of us to help sustain potential problems in programs whereby the student can become a productive citizen in whatever chosen field. We need to indicate genuine care and concern for to their welfare; keeping them tuned-i- n the task. WHY? Times depths it plumbs, Laws man must know, Mans groping mind But laws A child came by And sense it makes, Cause and effect If we expect To end such woe. Is slow to learn, hell find, And with body frail; But long it takes; minds peace earn. E.T.M. |