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Show Pajit 14 IVMl Y 1(1 RM IX 1111 (sw W HuiirhcllvraUUvm. SuihUs Juw .U, .VHC Celebrations Wife left to find her own source of income The childwn Maxine ADVICt. CCLt' 1 income is my rt 15. have asked Edgar how he expects me to pay for my own things, and he says I should have planned better and it's "too bad 1 didn't have more foresight." Now he wants to sell our house and move, and I have no say in the matter. My mother-in-lawho handles Edgar's money, tells me nothing. I know some of his income goes toward her support, while I have to scrimp and save for myself and my children. She has convinced Edgar that I have secret money I'm hiding from him. I am at my wits' end trying to figure out what to do. Edgar will not discuss the situation and refuses to change our new arrangement. Please help me, Ann. I am Desperate in Dei Moines, Iowa I Dear Desperate: Edgar will not allow you to have any of his income and is planning to sell the house? Something smells rotten to me. See a lawyer immedi- ately, and find out how to protect yourself and 'our children if Edgar eaves you and takes all his assets with him. You should also start lookor ing for a part-tim- e e even job. Your children are old enough not to need baby sitters. full-tim- must have a frank discussion with Edgar. Tell him the situation is intolerable. Ask him to go with you to a marriage counselor. If he refuses, go without him. There are plenty of low-coYou services available. Look in the phone book, or check the Alliance for Children and Families at www.alliancel.org for a referral. And get movst Banxgartner le 4 & 6 . They have termi'LOS mis- sions to Quoson Cityv Philip- pines and Santo loning Hast, lVminicn Hepublic, A private family celebration was held in their honor. 50th Anniversary Lee Ann Landers the pain she caused. I did not near from her for 13 years and never understood ' how she could be so cruel. On April 2, read your column about Keconcilia- - s tion Day and decided to try to mend some fences. I knew where'she was living and called her on the phone. When I held out the olive branch, she practically bit my hand. She threatened to call the police if I contacted her again. She said I was part of her "secret past life." Her own mother knew she was a stripper, so why is she hiding from me? I hope she reads this because I'd really like to understand why she was so aloof to an old friend. Any ideas, Ann? Depressed in New Jersey. & Maxlnt Etamgartner 50th wedding anniversary intense than her 2:00-4:0- : Zufclt,50lh Oren and Georgia Zufolt will bo celebrating their Redford, Kukahlko Dear Ann Landers: potluck bridge group that met once a month, After playing bridge, the talking started and often ran late. One evening, our hostess went to the window and announced: "Looks like a storm is brewing. If I were company, I'd head for home immediately." We did. Jim and Christine Red-for- d of Provo announce the marriage of their daughter Kristin Cameron to Jason David Kukahlko, son of Qlenn and Mary Kukahlko : j i long, envelope and a check or money order for of Orem, June 22, 2002 In the Salt Lake Temple, A garden reception was held in their honor that evening at the Iledford residence. The Bride Is a graduate of Timpvlew High School. She attended HYU where she was a cheerleader and cougarette. She is graduating in Elementary Education and will be teaching at Canyon Crest Elementary. The Groom Is a graduate of Orem High School, He served In the Houston, Texas, Spanish speaking mission, He Is currently attending HYU on a football scholarship and Is majoring in business, like to honor them at an open house on Wed, June 26th from p.m. at their home, 258 N. 800 K Orem, They would like to Invite nil family and friends to come to the celebration, Please no gifts, your friendship is Low-dow- Dear Ann Landers: ago, P dated Thirteen years an aspiring actress named "Suzanne." She was a topless dancer at a bar, and I fell in love with her. She dumped me without an explanation or apology for McClcllan, Bctts W f, LlaMarle McClellan and llyan Hetta were married on June 21 In the San Ulego LDS 'IVmple, A reception will he held to honor the couple on' June 21) from 7 D p,m, at the 7th Wards church, 400 North HOO East, All IVIends Spanish and family an Invited, iff ; :.: lk, are pleased to announce the marriage of their daughter, Deborah Mul CMng to Trevor Chad Gillman, son of Julie Ault Gillman and Chad and Jennifer Gillman June on Thursday 2002, 271 h, reception will he held their honor that evening In the Hose Garden at Thanksgiving hilnt, hohl, If we have missed you In all our excitement, please A I In f Scow, Gillman Anthony and Juel feel free to come. Heow - ft k I 'o v r 6-- 8 Cowley, 50ih William H. and Marilyn cs An J I I fJUf jfflOtr, tlu, .vfl M at; asl.( Vila ... .. . . "Wl" their gift. I $5,00 (this includes postage and handling) to: clo Ann Landers, P.O. Box 11562, Chicago, III. 6061 (In Canada, send $6.00.) To find out more about Ann Landers and read her past columns, visit the Creators Syndicate Web page at Cold reception fm. r would great-grandchildr- busine- ss-site mally years and retired the Sprlngvllle City from ing their 60th wedding anniversary, Their 4 children, Mark and Cynthia, Blair and Lisa, Dale and Annette, Karen and Ed I'nyne, 18 grandchildren, and 2 12 t'i'T Mi' What'i the truth about pot, cocaine, LSD, PCP, crack, speed and downerst 'The Lowdown on Dope infor- 0 lege and HYU, anil Nina attended HYU Art worked for forThorn Construction II, Cowley will be celebrat- Stu in Florida Dear Stu: A beautiful "solution." I wish I had thought of it. mation on drugs. Send a (). Arthur Held and Nina Held will celebrate 50 years of marriage on June 25, 2002. Art and Nina were 11 Mo-bil- feel- You have printed several letters about how to got rid of guests who stay too long. I hope you will print mine, Years ago, we had a Holm, Steve Zufelt and Scott (Terri) Zufelt. They have eight grandchildren. They will be honored with an open house on Saturday, Juhe 25), 2002 from p.m. at 222 N e 1200 W (Village Green Home Park), Own, UT. All friends and relative are invited. No gifts please, warm wishes and heartfelt congratulations are all they desire, . ings for you. She is ashamed of her past and prefers to keep her distance from those who "knew her when." You gave it your best shot. Now leave it alone. Saying good night Rcld, 50th June 28, 2002. They are the parents of 8 married in the Mantl TemTeresa (Kyle) children; ple. Art attended Snow Col- Dear Depressed! I sua- feelings for Sect yourwere more hat ing! Water IVpartmeut. Nina worked tor Utah County and serve! 2(5 years as the Utah County Heoonlor, Art and Nina are the parent of Terry (Maureen Keid of Springville, Ktm ell r Koberts, Montana, and Hill of Wendy tOavid haw five Sprlngvilk They and four grandchildren great gratnlchilditMi, In honor of this special oTasion, their family will host an open house to congratulate Art and Nina and to thank them for. their many years of hard work, sacrifice, am! example, The open house will be held June 25 from tl H p,m, at the I .DS Canyon Koad Clntreh lis'Mted at 1WW K. Catyon Hd. In Springville, All IVIends and family are Invited to attend, The family requests no gilts please, & are weddiig anniversary of their & Maxine mm parents, married w June 27, Ttgether they raised 8 children and were Rwter imrenta to several lamanlte children. They have 12 grandchildren 1 check, and I need that for my daughters, who are now 13 and child-suppo- .;.;:. I.oe pissed to announce the ftOUv Dear Ann Landers: "Edgar" and have been 'married four years. We children both have teen-ag- e from previous marriage.. Last fall, Edgar closed our joint checking account and had his paycheck sent directly to an, accountant who paid our bills. The accountant quit after two months, so now Edgar has his paycheck sent to his mother. 1 have no access to any of his income. 1 quit my job in order to stay home and raise my children, yet Edgar expects me to pay for my own clothes and incidentals. My only tvf .. n, mr? 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