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ETESUSB by UL as lev as U5 6, Wrili lor FIEE itl 14I CatalM i loat ar RfAOtN MFOCAL A Maraage's Shm RwamuMdH for lefts ippradmaMy 40 w oMar o do sot km asttfnatlm m dbwi el the m. m4 a km a roadtaf or Mains far. Wa Ml la commarc ucaisfcily. Est 1939 GufoMora . Taomoajjii ynn Mt-cutt- y inttr-stat- JUnks Spectacle Ct.T 537 S. Dearborn 4tat as a marriage counselor to more than 6,000 touple I've discovered that these troubles are most likely to crd up during three specific periods I caD them marriage dangerous years. These periods are: the first five years c marriage, 15 years after the wedding, and then after abod SO years of marriage. The first. five years are the most difficult ones. Hones mooners, disembarking from Cloud Nine, find themselves i a practical world and are bound to be disillusioned. Thoef who accept the disillusionment have a good chance of build ing tneir marriage into a warm, enaunng reiauonami Those who do not may end up as unhappy divorce statistic Marriage partners have to make many adjustments. Firs they must not try to make each other over. The disapprovs that is implicit in such action produces friction and frid tion produces what is probably the most serious and cool mon marriage problem: a lack of communication. Those wounded by criticism, implied or vocal, tend to fa into a habit of not talking beyond conversational necessities A marriage parched by this sort of shallow communicatio is likely to wither or, at best survive only in a skeletal form also can plague a new marriage. I remember on "What! case in which the wife blamed her mother-in-laever I do, it's wrong. She objects because I don't get up fix Bill's breakfast-- at 6 am!" I could sympathise with her complaint yet I have dis covered that many men resent their wives not getting u to prepare breakfast lor tne family. 1 know 6 ajn. is verl early. But it is early for the husband, too. He doesn't reneg his responsibility to his job. His wife shouldn't renege he responsibility to him and their children. As I told this young wife: Hen thrive on reminders their wives' affection. It would please your husband mor than you realise, I think, if you would carry a glass of juice W him perhaps while he's shaving. And I'm sure he woul be cheered by the good smell of coffee perking." "But I'm up during the night with the baby," she wailed , "You can always go back to bed after your husband leaves." I told her. "Soon your baby will sleep through tbi In-la-ws igation. Mail your name and , riiNCE marriage is a human relationship, it i O rarely without problems. he Duet fws CWcago 8, H. - . DaegeroMS Years Florida M MM W tpllfj MrCMM flit night And if 4M This noted counselor m am m Canl FIot Wfc. I MM llwiiw. ftmmmhM12 MM mtm ! Mr U1 mQ mm, wriaDi. tells couples how to ina, survive the three periods when they are most likely to break up TOOTHACHE Dont Mftar atony. In aacondt fai rtttat mat Hats with Spoofrroloaoo formula putt it to wor ln-Untly to stop throbbing; XaKMrX tootftacha pain, ao Mia doc-trocommond It fori ween?) OftA-JE- 'ora-jo- l' fN J q -- MMatcawaratft Mtfiaart mum By REBECCA LISWOOD, MD. Executive $ MILLIONS Of DOLLARS mM to losf wNm Mtft yttf, MW I m 1 wmh tm y a la jaMot wrtta. aaayrloM. aatf aaN yoar aaaj. uai at aaamwBni aicpMia ' XM aaataaM. BJUtSTV P I, W HiWy-- na, CatH. hi C. llimil$$ll$$lf$$$ Director of the Marrioge Counseling. of Greater Now York Iw a $ Service with Adele Whitely Fletcher S 13 Family Wnkly, April t, lMt habit late-sleepi- This wife had other complaints. Her mother-in-lashe said, still wanted to be first with her son: This might be so, I agreed.' But I went on to tell her that an elderlv mother-in-lawas not likely to change and, therefore, if was up to the daughter-in-lato solve the problem by deJ veloping a sense of humor and a sympathetic understanding It doesn't matter who is right when the harmony of a mar riage is at stake. ThM arty years in a marriage present so many pit fall&r A wife with a strong maternal instinct, for instance has to watch that she does not become too absorbed in hei babies. Husbands need the reassurance of attention. Those who don't get it may find it elsewhere. A husband and wife are insensitive ta the full meaninr of marriage if they believe they can continue to enjoy th same freedom and extravagances they knew when single. I am now counseling a couple who have separated. She; married her first husband to escape a quarreling motheij and father who never gave her a feeling of being loved! When her first husband, by whom she had a son, failed id offer a sense of security, she divorced him. Her second husband, who came to me for counseling, ad-- l mitted that be had shown his wife little consideration. "I think I resented having been caught," he told me, "Any way, I kept right on bowling two nights a week, and, on Sat (Continued on pao If w M rak,kM you don't correct your youH always resent having to get up early." w w |