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Show I Guarantee to Send The ft ---"' t YOtU EVER MAD-' y mtle ., liy Kleanore ICedwin and (udrnti Alcock Eleanore Redwin is a counsefing psychologist who has collabc rated 1 r you're , you'll seofT at the idea that at one time or another your marriage will reach the point where your pnljrthought will be, "I can't stand that man any longer. I want a divorce!" Yet, as you give in to the comfort of tears there is one ironic fact you cannot see: Die very trait which attracted, you most to your husband is probably the one that's causing all the trouble! See if this isn't so by testing yourself against some other wives. Take Harriet, for instance. Her moment came after a stormy fight with Arthur over how much money she spent "You don't know how to shop! " he finally told her. -"This time I'm, going to show you how. Come on!" Then he rushed her out of the house and down to As he grabbed a cart and pushed it, down an aisle, she saw people glancing curU ously at them. 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But afterwards, she found us love-teas-bli- nd 11 tut W :t it 7 large, protective family, Celia care fully tended path until she met Paul. He simply took her by the hand and led her on frOm there. She thought he was wonderful. reaIf Harriet could have But you can"guess what lized it, Arthur was no difhappened after marriage. Paul ferent than when he had managed everything. Their courted her. There had been home, which should have -- been Celia's" domairrr" ness in the way he had careunder his rule. their He invited budgeted every fully company for date. But to Harriet his cauweeks ahead without her ap- tiousness meant security. proval. She couldn't even With Arthur she would never shop for the children's clothes be in want, she thought hapwithout his overriding her Harriet had had selections. Taking their cue pily. from their father, the chilspots. "Arthur was a victim of dren, toor became bossy and too. He ) spots, tyrannical. did want to give Harriet .se-- : As Celia matured, she becurity. But he was just an gan to resent this constant he afraid--ordinary guy, and so oppression. Finally, one day might get sick or fajl in when plans for remodeling some way that he became, the" kitchen were being diswas It hard not cussed and Paul started telloverthrifty. to see how Harriet's ing her exactlyhow it should which once he be ways, done, she suddenly rebelled. "Listen here," she adored, now frightened him into constant nagging. said, "I'm the,one who works in this kitchen, and I'm going Perhaps your husband is obvious-signs-of-penurio- Kum Wtntvrt draft n mwm wiut M Dow. - Mil , Com ox.-- ; r 1 ed deeper-text- ured, not 30 or " .' the-groc- ery. . . . fine size weighs 46 lbs., ' 7 7 i. 70 1 -- in. re-dy- like most wives, particularly theyounger ones, mm mN VA il v r herself wishing he'd concentrate on getting ahead and living life the way she wanted it. to have it done exactly the way I want it!" opportunity to develop her own personality so she could do things for herself, or assert herself when necessary. Now she was willing, even eager, to take on adult responsibilities. As a result, she and Paul were able to get their marriage into balance. resentment Her stored-u- p now spilled over so that she fought Paul on every point in guestion. 27 ,Y6u may say know exactly how she feels.' But do you know how 7 Paul feels? Compromise Is required To Celia's "surprise, Paul o. had been storing up Thats the .way it should be His business ra4. in any healthy marriage. Ev- grown so that he no longerZ rseTy couple has to. make adhad the time to supervise justments and compramises. "More than that, both husband Yet if he asked Celia to do and wife must be willing to the simplest-thing- , make real changes in themshe aru ays answered helplessly, "I don't selves, as Paul and Celia did. know how." Perhaps, like Joan, you're Paul had thought he wanta discouraged wife who found ed a puppet for a wife, but inT herself typing at an oifice marriage he found his re- - desk in order to help meet sponsibilities were too overexpenses, instead of tending a haby in a house of her own whelming unless Celia became a real helpmate. Fortuas she'd dreamed. Joan had been attracted to Foster benately, the struggle between hem ended happily. cause' he .was the intellectual Hard as it was. for Paulrhe-relinquishe- type with whom she'd soared sorne of his auinto the world of poetry and stirfound and to his. culture. "Only his salary didn't thority that there were other, amount to much, she discovprise ways than his for doing ered after marriage, and he wasn't seriously interested in things. Both he and Celia began to realize tliat because getting alTead, either. she had been overprotected He was more interested in her' by family, she had had no just enjoying the 5 , resent-mentsvto- : - day-by-d- ay . r |