Show la n UJ j AMY MYA ADAMS AMS Fa Faeta eta etar r A THANKSGIVING PRAYER Dear eu Amy Im I'm having my family over for for dinner Through they run the gamut of almost every religious faith My husband children and andI andI I have havo always made it a practice to say a prayer before our Thanksgiving dinner and we would like to include t a prayer before we enjoy this one also I have searched through our prayer books and cannot find find en 1111 appropriate one to say that Would not offend anyone's religIon Can Call you suggest one Grateful Dear Grateful You are a gracious intelligent woman here lIere Is an appropriate prayer acceptable to all tell tell- religions gions For what we are about to tG receive Lord make mako us truly thankfuL Amen S i Dear Amy Is It proper for n a wIdow to 11 wear eaf her wedding rIng If not when or how soon after her hus hus- husband's bands band's death should hould she remove the ring Also am I correct in saying a widow should be ad ad- ad addressed dressed Mrs James Doe Doc Md and not sirs Mary Doe Doc I would elate reading your reply in tile the paper I am in my late GOs GO's and not looking for a man Mrs G S I Dear Mrs l G C S It Is proper for a widow to wear her ring for as long as she sheI I desires However should the time ever come when she desires deserts ue company of 01 the opposite sex the ring should be removed You are correct corred In assuming a Widow Is addressed as Mrs rs James Doe a a e eDear Dear Amy I have been going steady with toy boyfriend for 2 months now Just recently he started talking about getting married I next September I love him a lot and I want to marr marry him tool too Ill I'll be 16 in March hell he'll be JS 18 in January I haven't spoken to my parents yet et but I will eventually Ill I'll be graduating in 2 years and I could finish I my last year after Im I'm I t married Is there thero any reason why I shouldn't get married Mixed Up Dear Mixed Up I Off land hand I can think of about 20 reasons why you OU shouldn't There are very few lew lit If any auy young people your age who are ready to take the bIg step It If you ou were ready for marriage you ou wouldn't ask me for reasons why you shouldn't S a e eDear Dear Amy When my husband and I are invited to a friends friend's home for lor dinner I always find myself in inthe the same predicament I would like liko very much for fol you ou to settle this and put my mind at ease After dinner dinnel do you think a woman guest should offer to help the hostess do the dishes and clean up the kitchen When I 1 invite people to my home for dinner I wouldn't think of let lett ting them do my dishes or clean cleanup cleanup up and frankly when I am in out I dont don't feel like doing it either I have to tl do enough of them in my own house If you the thc hostess lets you It you dont don't offer olTer they talk about you Do you ou feel like doing dishes when youre you're invited out for dinner Do Or Not To Do Dear Do There are many pros and cons conson conson on this subject but Im I'm going to agree with you Under these dr clr where you dont don't ex cx peel ped your guests to do your dirty work I dont don't think you have to feel leel obligated to do theirs their's e Dear Amy Ive I've been going with n a real loal wonderful guy for about six months lie lIc said hod hed get my en en- en engagement ring In December and we wc would be bc married sometime after Christmas Since the time he proposed hes he's never said anything more about it Im I'm too tOI bashful to bring up the subject Could you tell me what to do Too Bashful Dear Bashful The Bashful Bride went oat with the horse and buggy Pur Pur- Pursue su sue thIs topIc further and find out If there Is a ring of 01 truth trails In what HE BE proposes S e a Address all letters to AMY ADAMS IS e c NEWSPAPER For a personal reply enclose I a tamped stamped ed envelope |