Show II MISS MIS S DEB answers questions stin wt 1 about bold Junior Mss J l etiquette tle grooming h r and interests I w j i 1 Q My dates and I have no trouble with conversation until that wat agonizing good night scene t at the door I could die as I shift from one loot foot to the other and stammer n guess Ill I'll be seeing you for the millionth time How can I 1 develt a graceful exit technique A By planning ahead lust just as you ou did in getting ready for forthe forthe the date Locate your keys ex ex- ex express press your feeling about the good time you had make the small talk on the way to the thedoor thedoor door let him unlock and andopen open the door for you Dont Don't linger lin Say your final wonderful time goo good Jour night and allow your smile to float bark bak briefly as TOU ou disappear behind the clos leg ng door If IE you work it right ht he may be disappointed but not offended I IQ Q This is my first big holi day season and the list of parties is almost endless I 1 Iam am terrified that I Imay may commit some o social oJ error and not even e eo know oci it Are were there any definite party going tubes rules I could learn for lor insurance A There probably are as many rules as there are parties but here are three tips which provide a general rule of thumb Always try to be help ful cooperative about any spec spec- special special ial party plans and a happy conversationalist If youre you're not good goodat at small talk be an en- en en c listeners listener De Be as thoughtful about the family amily and their home as you would want people to be about your own Express your thanks for a good time an and Jour leave promptly when the party is over These guide posts should make you the most popular guest of the season Q Older people eople make me self conscious I 1 always feel they are critical of me because of all the talk alk about wild teen teen- teenagers agers Should I 1 just avoid them whenever possible A The sooner you learn to todeal todeal deal casually and respectfully with older adults the better They will be coming into your life more and more as you go 10 away to school or out into the job market Begin Bebin by relaxing and being ss as natural as possible Remember adults like to be put at their ease too Just as you dont don't like to be considered a wild teenager adults dont don't like to be thought of 01 as has beens or critical old fuddy fuddy- Try to listen for lor the likenesses between you instead of the differences For more answers to 10 your tm on J dating ting etiquette and anel beauty beauly writ write for th the free booklet Ar Are You fn Th The Keow Send Your name and ad address adress ress 10 tar Mill Deb Box IP Kimberly Clark Cor Corp Nah Wis It It |