Show OY AMY ADAMS RIDING MORE THAN A HORSE Dear Amy I always wanted to take up horseback riding so recently I went tOo to a local stable and took lessons My Instructor says Im I'm coming along tine finEl but my hus hus- husband band objects One day he be says its it's dangerous the next day he says It costs too much Jt It was then I reminded him about his golf goll and tennis You see we weDO weDO DO have havo the tho money I One Une Sunday J I took him to the stables and made him watch me lie He complained of an awful head head- headache ache and went home Bob the gave me a lift home Now my husband says J I ride well and should continue but I I feel this Isn't really what he heI I meant to say can I make him talk NovIce Dear Novice Dont Don't try to analyze what your husband says and what he means Because If you keep tiding riding him you YOI will have a moro more an an- an annoying problem to shut hi him I I e e eDear I IDear Dear Amy I share my apartment with a woman who Is very inquisitive about my mall affairs mall visitors telephone calls etc Recently a aman aman man called to see me on confidential business For the tho sake ot of privacy I spoke to him in inthe inthe the hall and was later criticized for It Under the circumstances what else could I do Dear Nosy people must be treated with rudeness They know no other language Your frIends business or social should be wet wel come In your home even though It entails telling your roommate j I to exit If she doesn't like It find I yourself a more congenial person I to share your our apartment ce Dear Amy Were We're newlyweds that have 1 been een married for three months iMy IMy wife wre Is very Immature and sun still Insists on taking her pet cat tobed with her This drives me crazy because I cant can't stand cats and furthermore ha sleeps be- be tween the two of us Every time I complain about it it she gives rne the Honey Dearie Deane routine and the three of us tie go 10 to bed Need I say more What am I I supposed to do Pet Pet-cd Pet ed and Dear Feted Are you kidding Youre You're sup sup- supposed posed to put the cat out with the empty milk bottles battles A MAN IAN I doesn't let Jet a cat get his goat loat or his roost either r e e e eDear Dear Amy My husband and I are quite friendly with a certain couple I have had them for dinner at atour atour our house occasionally and they have bave invited us to their home also When they are aro at our house I really go ga all out and servo serve steak or turkey with all the trim but when we go 0 there they serve us hot dogs or ham burgers I often think they really dont don't want us over otherwise they would serve a little nicer Should I accept their next in or not Dear Mrs i m It If you yon and your husband enjoy their company accept their invitation Friendship isn't based mi who true serves the most expensive meal Take n a lessen front from your friend She has Ilu learned the art of entertaining inexpensively and I see nothing wrong In her Iler choice or of food for foran foran an Informal get together e e e eDear Dear Amy We have friends wh who are stuck up One of them teases her ber hair and thinks its it's very gor gor- gorgeous But it really isn't She thinks she's beautiful But she really isn't She Sho also alsa cheats at ball and every other game we play But she says she doesn't blow can we tell her to act and look like we do AB I Dear A B Just tell teU her lier But I doubt that your well meaning efforts will ill do any good A girl who I and says she needs more of a jolt JoU than you can give lve her to deflate her ego e e e Address all letters letter to AMY ADAMS o e do TiUS rIUS NEWSPAPER For a personal reply enclose a stamped self addressed envelope |