Show IlY AMY ADAMS n AFTER A DA DAY Y GO DUTCH Dear Amy An old male friend of mine from Holland will b be America shortly and I 1 like to show shoY him some of the sights of New NewYork NewYork York I dont don't know what his finan- finan financial cial circumstances are and I dont don't want to embarrass him when it comes time to pick up the check Who pays for what how baw and when wheal Miss USA Dear Miss USA No he h by- by n da day after that go Dear Amy I have been married only a short time and I have found myself my self in love with another man I Ilove Ilove love my husband very much too That's the funny part of It I dont don't want our marriage to end up in ina ina a divorce but this othEr guy keeps bothering me while my husband is out of town on one of his busi busi- business nets ness trips I told him to leave me alone but he wont won't do it I even evenso evenso so much as told him that if he doesn't stop bothering me I 1 would tell my husband l I haven't stepped out on my husband once and fur fur- furthermore I dont don't ever intend to nut But this guy says ays that he will tell my husband that I have ever since we were married Im I'm so confused I dont don't really know what to do about it One Too Many Dear One You sure arel Ii If youve you've never stepped out on your husband did this In guy step man bothers a woman she calls the police pollet but If she would rather have bave him than her ber husband she he calls a lawyer Dear Amy I read your column all the time in our local paper and I enjoy It very much At least you ou say what you th think and no b backing king o out t about it Just keep up the good work Now have a problem what do you OU think of a husband who puts his children before his wife Do you you think Its It's right I dont don't Please No Name Dear No Name Its Us wrong or of course but maybe rae he children look sweeter to him fake lIte Il a look m In the mirror If you dont don't ont like Uke what YOU see probably neither does doel Ite be Null said Dear Amy In our neighborhood there Is a 11 woman with live five illegitimate chU chil- chil children dren Their lather father Is married to Lo another woman and these chil dress dren even brag that thaI their parents arent aren't married As if that isn't bad enough this woman and her children speak the filthiest words you ever eard One neighbor even had this worn wom an arrested for assault and hat bal hattery tery another for slander I cowl goon ml short we have ell aU invested so much In our homes bomes we cannot afford to move We have bave tried to Ignore this family but they only get wore when they believe you are fright ened and dont don't answer Our chit chil dren cant can't go to school the store or even to church without these children calling them filthy names and wanting to fight Do you have any suggestions Disgusted Neighbors Dear Neighbors I 1 dot dol The Tho behavior of the chil siren dren rests squarely on the shoal ders of the mother Since she prefers t It Ignore them contact the Juvenile authorities You would actually be doing the chit chil dren a service A leace Bond Is also necessary In order to mails matil lain the peace and decency of the neighborhood Discuss this action with your local Police Chirr Chief Dear Amy I have been going steady for three months I would like you to tell me If fighting Is a good sign We are always having tights lights over ver every little thing but we rea really II love each other Ginny Dear Ginny Its It's a sign teat you two disagree on too many things you should agree upon Try seeing eye eye 40 as often orten as you see lip to PERSONAL TO The Reader From Farmer City Take the insurance man by the back or of his collar and hen heave ve hint him out hereafter make your own policies Please address all letters I to AMY ADAMS o c TillS Ng AliEn For a personal reply enclose n II stamped self addressed envelope |