Show fl fI In II BY AMY ADAMS I IDAD'S IDAD'S DADS DAD'S ANGRY AT HIMSELF el 01 JI Dear Amy I need someone's c advice My fI father smokes IO a lot He wants to quit but he hc cant He lie doesn't believe be- be lic c in commercial products advertised to help ono one stop If It he hc didn't smoke so much it would me mc I. I to live a long iong life lie just gets angry when I bring it up What should I do Worried Dear Worried Your our father may seem scent angry with when you joti broach breach the thc Subject of smoking but lie he really lie He is angry with himself because c he lie lacks Jacks the will Kill power passer to quit Perhaps If it you jou OU have Ia e literature mailed to on the thc hazards of ot smoking lie he will ill decide to kick the habit all by himself Contact Con tact your our local chapter of The Thc American Cancer Society The Heart and the Public Health Sort ice Washington ne n.e. The Hie local lecal hospitals also have ha group therapy sessions to help smokers quit but those II who ho are booked must be motivated ted to seek these groups out See that dad Is bombarded II with reading material and hope llope for lor the best S Dear Amy I am ant 16 10 years ears old and Im I'm going out with a II 24 year old divorced man He has one ono child b by his ex lie wants ants this child when wo we get married This man loves me very ry much and I love him hint but butI I 1 do not want this child because 1 If I had hal children of my own eun I would love them more moio than his That would not bo be fair to his child What should I Y do Should I Igo Igo Igo go ahead and marry starry this man mun in 2 years or should I insist that he let the baby stay with his ex ex- wile Desperate Dear Desperate No single girl should consider marriage to a II man who has lIas a achild child hi from a II previous lous marriage if she doesn't want to make that child feel loved love II and welcome Nor do 10 I think that cither elther one of you jou ou could be happy together If you ou lu Insist that his bis child live lve with his wife exotic since that is not What hat the childs child's father wants S Dear Amy 4 This Is a horrible problem that needs attention fast Im I'm 16 18 and anda a 1 junior in high school No matter mat ter what anyone says cays I l kno know JIm l J lIm Im I'm In love love with ith a boy hoy who is a lIt sophomore at lit our local college Mv My Iy problem is that lie ito wanta sex sexi I dont don't date him II thou him heading to some dark rOIl road f to park pack Well ell Im I'm virtuous and that is something rare in our ourtown ourtown ourtown town for a girl of 16 but Ive I've really considered giving in tOl tot tai L him M MI aI e a eI I really realty like him Mm and I feel If it that's what hat it takes to get him himi then that's what Ill I'll do As I Isaid said e Ive I've considered this but Ill I'll be bo going to college I hato to start something like this so young 0 o oI I wont won't do anything until T fco Io o hear front from you 4 h A. A In Love o Dear In Love Lo Its It's not enough car tor a II 16 IC year car jearold old girl to what know she likes and what hat she dislikes More Im lm J she has to temper hers herI her decisions s with I a II great deal o ol J common s sense You have ha Indicated to me that 1 t you jou ou ere are not notI I using common senses sense's In your jour our decision It Is not Important that jouget yon jou get the hey boy at any cost s because a Yu whether t you jou give I up your jour sir lr dolly or not it will Ill make no nolO difference to the boy In simply because he doc does not care carD about you in the true sense of the word And nd holding on en to him by giving hint him a few rew moments or sexual pleasure will net you jou ab i nothing noticing What's more v you jou will como come out of your jour expert ence II with him II with It less lers s to offer the lice man you jou will marry and amI hate yourself fort for what hat you jou ou have done Ione Further 1 after aCter Ills his conquest with you jou Is Is' user over he lie will Ill drop you ou and go goli on en to the lice next girl When a II boy hey really loves a II girl t r rand tand and a girl refuses reCus's to participate I In sex it doesn't make him love her less In actuality lie ice loves loses anti and respects her more 0 ul t I hope you jou 00 will sill make a II Iso decision tl cl S a ti Ih Address Address all 1111 letters to AMY ADAMS IS o c TillS THIS NEWSPAPER a ci For Tor a personal reply enclose a H- H stamped sell addressed addressed envelope |