Show BY AMY ADAMS IAMS A CLEAR CASE OF BEING SPOILED dear amy my sister 14 so spoiled polled that it 11 a awful w ful she has hag everything a girl could 0 uld dream of nice clothes cluth her own bedroom and the car a low few times a week when the Is home all she he does doe la is look in the he mirror she has hai the biggest bedroom all to herself while my older brother has hai a real small room my mother dad other brother and myself share the other room once she yelled shut up at my mother and my mother slapped her on the arm my sister liter started hitting her and shouted that the he wouldn t come home after school ochoa and yet she sh got the ear car what am I 1 supposed luppo eed to do dot L LL L dear A L L I 1 wh while I 1 I 1 y beur our parent at are saleeb at t the wheel your Is b breaking brea klaf all the rules role why the they don I 1 get la in the drivers abd abad lay down the law Is beyond me until they do you will all 31 bees v to ufler suffer the best belt thing for you to t do is not to follow la in her dear amy lately I 1 have been seeing a lot of a boy whom I 1 met while at the shore I 1 in not sure lure I 1 na in love with him because one year ago age I 1 was engaged to someone el else whom I 1 till still love Every tim time a I 1 see ice both of at them I 1 just juit simply limply go out of at my mind what should I 1 do about being in love with two guys guy at the same lime undecided dear undecided if you cant make up P your year mind between number one boy and number two wo boy rod and yourself boar kalt a number three boyl dear amy I 1 m nn an elderly woman and have been taking care of my aged mother for the post past 22 years when 1 I was a child m my y father passed away and mum mom struggled and raised my two sisters and me all alone now after all these years I 1 and I 1 dont have the strength and energy to take car care of her as I 1 d like to and it a a problem making ends meet with the small amount I 1 receive from social security I 1 have asked a my younger sisters to take morn mom and have even offered some of my pension to help out they have refused nae me rold cold amy am what Is there left for me m to do dear to T squalid si fa familiar millar parke A mother can take cars care of e all her oki alldren ldson but au all ur she children obadee oa 09 take tk oars car of 0 as mother are many one fine nursing aiming homes home tr for the aged aga that abal would welcome your mother and their trained medical atan would give her the th oars car and st tilen she ah needs your year misters could be b made mad to t brugle struggle tru gle a little as a mom one ince did to make mahe we the financial load lighter for at dear amy I 1 have a little girl who rely really Is I 1 a problem she to la 18 month old and wont tat eat anything except trained strained baby food I 1 have tried giving her chopped baby food kmat but the he gags and chokes on it she won t eat cookie crackers cracken toast or anything like that and she he never tries to feed herself I 1 thought if I 1 lett left her alone with a dish of food she ahe would oat eat instead she he throw threw it at on an the floor and nd screamed mod for me to come and ad feed her trained wd food has hai most of her teeth but know enough to chow chew nor does doe ghe he drink from a cup shell go fo all day without anything to drink unless it 11 come from a bottle the child walk and refue to stand bland when I 1 dross her I 1 must lay her down like a now new bom barn infant it I 1 dont she ih coams and throws throw herself ott on the floor door Shan Soan king bosn t help I 1 give her all the atto attention nilon and love iwo I 1 know how Is there s ome thing wrong with her U I 1 she bhe mentally retarded or Is if it fitial ut something she he will outgrow ow confused mother dear mother whether this hi to li a temper un or r something methling serlie erlo u s 17 wrong is ie for a pediatrician b baby a by doctor to e decide it if you cant afford one contact your local hospital and make an aa at as the ol catale lible bilker we way y have her checked thoroughly hoc 0 0 personal Pera Fers onal to e jenny wat tami about the boys bey in the ula trade good company pleases sAd all letters letten ilot ci amy adams co this newspaper Newey aper fr for a personal pere eoal reply enclose an AH addressed addre ced camped tamped envelope enire eav lepe elope |