Show WOMAN LOVES BUT HER LOVE IS SOMETIMES MISPLACED OR WASTED alla tells telli hinr alio llio of Cicat lun ale alc to lo no the ideal scot beart docs c not AIU ainoo a wic avire cop gsg k by american press beela bo eLa tion llon all 9 V av A K R CYNICAL frenchman has I 1 gysi said the woman whoa wo lovo love is only dangerous ding I 1 erous but the livoi woman rail who loves ra 13 is terrible to which a neater greater cynic added she never loica this was waa more witty than true for every woman loves has loved or c expects to love soine nian nail man ainu his has a horror of being loved with it mercenary motive so great it i this horror today that it to morbid expectancy nine young men cat of ten speak or of ft a bif wife fe as a possession only to be purchased hascil put dut if man had never been niggardly woman would never have bave become mercenary and mercenary women are few men aro arc far more stereotyped in mind than llian women therefore their ideas regarding tho grand passion are mo mora moo o uniform while almost every woman likes a dramatic clement iu in a mans inina lovo love for her t alio lie normal man hat a dread of the dr dramatically diat icalla disposed woman especially in the role of a wife this is the reason wo we lind so ra many phlegmatic who kho are wives in intensity if worries a man unless it is kept well under check and the tragic lie linds finds insupportable in daily life le les lehs s than woman by nature ard and with ae lew 4 idealism yet somewhere in his hig heart very every man hides i a dream of that earthly I 1 trinity father mother and child in which lie imagines himself the chief elein element ent sooner or later to greater or less degree every man passes through h the ro gintic phase unfortunately for woman ins his idea of a sweet heart is essentially different from froin his requirements for a wife later in life the average young bachelor is attracted by the girl whom other men ad mil u he likes to carry off the belle of ini the rinsed nin heason hOtis sed abl before yeh the eyes of rivals rival lie ile is amused a by her e r ca prices flattered liy by her jealous exactions exaL tio md and grateful for tho the least expression of her for him iio is lavish with compliments and praise but sentiment in man the average man inin springs wholly from unappeased appetites the coveted but woman can manifest hei love for him in almost any manner and it will ill bo agreeable and pleasing g whether the ahe is id coy shrinking coquet tish or playful demonstrate demon strati re or reserved his imagination will surround her with every charm charin A mans imagination is tho the flower of his passions when those pi lim are calmed c almed the flower fades once let la luni possess posse is the object of his debiro debird and his ideas become entirely hanged changed L ile ho grows critical and dis c i itilia iti iia and truly masculine in his ideas of how bow be wishes to bo loved we all know the story of tho the man mail who vrho compared liis his to a 1 liace race alter after a i railroad train nud and his married life to the calm call possess possession don of a seat scat with tho morning paper papera at hand thaDd lIen iio no laager shouted and cited but lie enjoy ed what he had won none the less for that it wilt was a i very quick nick willed hubband huband who thought of this little simile to ux ex CU cusa jo his luck lack of but there a re very e y f few v wives v v e w who u n are to satisfied to bo be considered in the light of a railway c compartment 0 t zi pa i t w c z i t fo for r t alio lio soul of the tha wife has all a I 1 the romantic feelings which the of the sweetheart held it is only the exceptional I 1 man god bless him and increase increate him who can feel fed sentiment and romance after a possession is in an established f fact unhappily for both texes bexes sentiment is lust as a part of woman s nature after she surrenders herself delfas as before A well timed compliment at a tender caress griven given unasked ed would avei t many a case if husbands were wiser wirer after marriage a man likes cesto to be loved practically all tile tho affection and demonstrations of love possible cannot render hint him happy it if liis ilia dinner is riot not well cooked and if his home is disorderly grant him the back i aund of comfort and lie will bo be contented to accept the loyo loye as a 1 matter of course grant a woman all tho the comfort life may inay offer yet slie she is riot happy without v the background of expressed love whan men end women both learn to legalize this inborn difference in eacel to others natures aud and to respect it marriage will cease to bo be a failure in ili this tais I 1 think women are ready to make their pirt part of the concession more chuoi fully alian are the men women who loathe housework house and who possess tic no natural al taste for it become excellent housekeepers bouse keepers rs and careful thrift thrifty managers because they realize tile alie importance of these matters in relation to the husbands comfort but how few men cultivate sentiment although knon knowing ing it so dear to the wife man is forever talking eloquently of womans comans sensitive refined nature which unaite unfits her tor for public careers yet vet this very sensitiveness lie crucifies in private life by ignoring her need of a dif different heart diet than the one which lie he requires require S wives throng the cooking schools hoping to make their husbands happier phereby why not stait a school of bf sen ti cit cecin im strands should be coached in paying payi n 7 graceful compliments find and showing delicate attentions so iso dear to their wives A man inan likes to be loved cheerfully A morbid passion bores him inexpressibly no in matter titter how hov loyal it may inny be ho he likes tact rather than inopportune tune expression of affection ile iio likes liaci to III loved in private but to bo be treated with lenity in public nearly all women ac 0 o uttered flattered ind anil pleased it if tin the mat I 1 they adore exhibits his hia loie loe before the whole woisil if lio lie defies a i convention for their sip si l p the aliey feel it is is a tribute to their liporto v orlia anil and charm I 1 lia 0 found alm to lie be truo true of the most and correct women cut but I 1 have yet to bec tho the man who is 19 riot not nn n enit ariu to haviel lii ivin the wornall woman lio lie loves pro the tha leaa comment in public ho S hacins to f feel eel that something is lost to him it the public observes lisa lis happ happiness hiess however howey cir legitimate and commendable tho th 0 woman N ho is demonstrative when lio lie wants to read aud and who contradicts c him before people an hour later does docs not not know how now to inake a inan happy ile ho is better bit isfried ij fiLd to have her show deference to ins his opinions and suppress her demonstrations if lie iw were obliged to chuao A man likes a to show her love in occult ways to agree aprice with wilh him in his most cherished hed opinions opinion 4 to follow his counsel and to ask liis his advice ho he will not question her love if she does this but a woman needs to ba told in words how dear she is no matter what other proofs a man laai may give yet tow few men livo live who do not appreciate a little well timed expression of love and every man I 1 ii mido made happier and stronger by praise and appreciation of the lie woman nearest to liis iiii heart the ma mai nn needs s sympathy and is made better by it though lie he may not confess it alio tendency of tho age is to give all tho the sympathy to tho the tendency of woman is to demanti sympathy ent cut riot not until woman sympathizes path izes man mail in liis his battle battla with the world and himself and riot not until man sympathizes with woman in her son soul 1 hunger will the ho attain to its best it is a queer fact that while are without doubt the most lovable objects in alio tho world yet on man is lavished the greatest and most enduring pa A great many women go through lifo life without ever having been loved by any aay man I 1 doubt if any man ever reached old ago ao 0 without having been adored by some soma woman ELLA Win ELEK |