Show ri married marni e d ShoN showing vind sympathy Is felicity y true secret I 1 uy N OLID IFIELD 3 MAN who wins a womans comans heart and marries her will have T arty dilli difficulty culty in keeping her love through weal or woe if only he loves her and does docs not forget to tell her so not once for all but over and over again lit lid largely consists of compensations sat ions and not tho least of these is that while a roan man may choose and a woman must wait to be chosen women love to be loved and tender rim aud and sympathy rarely fail to win their love and to retain it when once won the trite saying that trifles make up the sum suin of human life is espee especially jally true ot women men make one of their grea greatest fest mistakes in neglecting tire little things the loving word tho the small attentions attention which ore are to a womans comans heart what dew is to the flower tien a woman loves a man she is ia like the hero in Mar montels fairy tale nud and looks at him through rose colored glasses no imagination of poet liaa has such idealizing power as the affection of a devoted wife her love like the midas touch turns all to gold ordinary virtue swells into moral heroism dull respectability is ia exalted into sublime conscientiousness common everyday every day cleverness is accounted as transcendent genius am As somebody lias fias said wives have a way of believing ang that the only limit to their husbands ability is their own desire that they have in them a potentiality of intellect and could become eminent authors statesmen or anything else that they liked it must be confessed however that not a few admit their husbands inability to make money but usually this inability is for good and sufficient reason which is ample excuse if excuse be needed even when the judgment is is clearer the fond affection remains and is ever ready to find tin an excuse for a weakness justification for a fault A loving wife allows nobody to blame her husband there is small reason to doubt that most wives wires who are eating out their hearts with the fear that jack or edwin does not love them as lie he used to 0 o do ari are borrowing need needless leso trouble foolish of them oh yes but then it is just as bad to be scared to death as to be killed outright business is the american comans womans chief usually her only rival and the husband who has no time to pet his wife generally is working hard to make money for forcier lier a anil and nil the babies Busi business noss comes first as we all know is a first class commercial maxim but the wisdom of it scarcely is comforting to tile tho wife who feels herself d and neglected who so far as her real self is concerned is as lonely and compani companionless gilless as aa though she were cast on a desert island the lack of sympathy shown by men to then their wives is at the file root of much marital unhappiness yet the average hardworking hard working man does doea hot bot perhaps cannot comprehend this alas that so eo few of us N understand that the life is more than the meat tile the body more than the raiment raimen tl 1 |