Show Good Wooing Needs Plenty of 01 Courage And AndReal Real Candour CINCINNATI It takes a lot tot o of courage to conduct a real courtship more more courage than many young people realize more than many display dis dis- pIa play nor flay E E. Dickerson executive secretary of the Cincinnati social hygiene society satiety declares It U takes courage because you ou must be yourself at the risk of not pleasing the one you want most to please Dickerson says ar Dickerson continues You must let that one know w your TOur ideas Ideals taste taale habits likes and dislikes as a. the they really are re even though he be or she he may not be impressed or may mar even come to know your weak weak- nesses The point is I. that you may be beable beable beable able to pretend and cover un UD for a while maybe during the co courtship but you cannot do so always or late you must come to be known as lIS you are And if what you are is not acceptable ac it is better f far r better beUer that it should be found out before marriage mar than afterwards Afterward it may mean only disillusionment and miserable unhappiness According to Dickerson there is no 10 such thing as love at first sight and falling In love He lie says sas that the first implies that one can be Instantly instantly instantly in In- seized by love and the other that love Is an accident Neither Is scientific he says lays Love in Dickerson's Dicker Dicker- sons son's language is neither an accident accident acci acci- dent nor nor a mysterious visitation His Ills conclusion is that there is no safe substitute for the test of time Ume In courtship No one can rush Into marriage ael safely relying upon some sudden feeling |