Show I me lb i 4 1 BETTY i Letters and questions for this department should be addressed I Ito I II I to Miss Betty Blair BIair Hearts Heart's Haven Salt Lake Telegram Write only I I l' l I on on on ens side of the paper It is necessary to append your name nam and andI address I address but these are held in confidence and will not be bo published 9 Dear Dear- Miss Blair Because this is is Equality's week with the pots and pans I feel that I must needs come to the rescue to Everyone surely has a right Tight his or her own opinion Im I'm not going to even hint that Old Fashioned Fash Fash- l n zd d Mother would be more moro in jn her element lement to return to the ast where apparently wives wives do not disgrace themselves by working Yes I want to have a son or daughter perhaps several if our circum circum fances ances warrant it Was who there ever even a woman t long to deck herself in fine array y Do you suppose we would save our money bank it t and invest It H if we didn't look forward to a future with children 1 Equality's Mother Mother- does believe as we do and andy y yet t oddly enough there he stands very much alive splashing shing in m the kitchen sink Id I'd like to make it clear that I 1 Ido Ido do not contribute to my husbands husband's support We b budget on a EO 50 basis not a 60 40 with 60 with me the 60 Yes Ves we patronize a laundry Yes Ves the jan janitor tor builds the fi fe e e and handles the ashes My great great- Grandfather followed a a. a hand plow hand plow and wore blisters on his soles and grew bumps in in his back My uncle r ruins runs ns a 8 tractor plow and his only disfigurement is is the soot on on his nose Yes I J buy my clothes readymade ready ready- made rade and always have That does r not no mean I cannot sew but my Jime ime nets me more than I could S possibly save by sewing at home the My Now about drinking children will probably see liquor in ina ina in ina a small amount in their home Id I'd be willing to stand them up beside any ny persons person's children who had been warned against the cup that cheers all their lives and wager that they would be less likely to want to satisfy an an insatiable c curiosity by the testing of such bev beverage rage Is it not the UNKNOWN that intrigues us Now 0 O. Fe Ee M M. M have you classi classified fied fled me as hopeless hopel s or imposible ible sibe aibe S EQUALITY'S WIFE We take It ou and nd er t to ride fe Instead of ot permitting per Per- life ride you ou as the saying goes goes ye e wish you all the luck in the wot lit wOl-lit Id and shouldn't t bethe bethe be bo bothe the tiniest bit If IC twenty twenty- Jve je e years year's or or e ev even n n years from row now a It large of pt t the peo peo- pie pie- are attempting U f allow you iran fari Th h pu QU caa n aiMa Ac Wc Wc were ser As you vou YO l. there Is little to be he g gained anel ned in ti JI pg to go back so O youre you're pl re n. n forward most most- motel eIRl will wilt think I P Oure one step ahead a he though h they wont ont it It in quite that but I I l ay ay e way I j here 5 luck uc f 1 r Oe Dear Der r Miss Blair 1 I disagree with Another Mother of Three who says If it is is in in the cards it will be or words to that effect One can stack cards i l I think her letter lette more firmly es establishes es es- the fact that birth th control ils h necess necessary let desirable desirable desir desir- 15 ry or us say able ble for a year or or two after the of folks who are unfitted to Ito assume the financial obligations n s. s I Also we have passed that dangerous danger danger- ous first year EQUALITY Dear Miss Miss' Blair I dont don't usually mix mix up in m arguments arguments ments such as those going going on ion in m in Hearts Heart's Haven at present but when I read the letter written written written-by by EQUALITY EQUAL EQUAL- ITY I just couldn't resist Equality explained that he and his wife were wele both working and were carrying out the 50 plan pan even to housework He Ho also stresses the fact that he is H a H HE Eman Now I may be wron l I t my t y idea of a man he-man is is one m marries a girl to support and pr instead of permitting be he work In my op opinion onOn 4 aWis the ne cause aus of so man many rd ys The ri-e so-called so h nan he-nan mar 1 t toY ay will not marry a girl h has has' a good steady position tJ ct r to after tI their marria e. e if V ch men he-men as iJ support their wives wives as s sh I there would not b SQ sq people in n thi thip- thip town l I tn k wi with h very f e exceptions efi it i ab absolutely b.- b. un c. c aE ff if married women to o wor worl Olf K 1 i t 1 K Dear WOI mp c. c 1 tt Sl S We Ve w were wro re eTY ery nUCh ost your our letter that that your you si sis sis- tel tei and her husband will w ill be able to make up to each other for what has hag gone before but I tha that It would not be quito quite the right thing to print the story as you gave it to me Let them work things out together and dont don't worry about them It will not be nearly nearl so difficult dir dif as it would have been be n und under circumstances sa say ten years ago go You are light in YOUr com comment comment corn com ment that the love of a husband should not be turned b b by fi lends friends say tay a Dear Miss Blair I I am not riot a resident of your city or your your state but I am a constant reader of The Telegram Hearts Heart's Haven being to me food for thought So many times marriage means sacrifice especially to the poor I want you to understand me thoroughly thor thoro When I say poor I mean the tho working class that cannot af afford afford afford af- af ford all of the luxuries If the husband h would let his sweetheart be his lis wife and hi his wife his Ins sweetheart sweetheart sweetheart sweet sweet- heart all through the years also if the wife would do likewise there would not be so much matrimonial difficulty So many marriages s are on Either the husband expects the wife to do all of the loving apel bear all of the sacrifice or it is is the wife that looks for the husband to provid provide provide pro pro- vide vid her with the luxuries do all of th the loving and suffer all lI il of of th the he heartaches while she se is traveling along on the flowery beds of ease Right here I will say let each cash do what they can Sacrifice together together- dress together I mean in buying clothes and sharing the to together to- to gether Of course courseS it just cant can't be done when it comes to telling married people how to live Experience is is the best teacher Sometimes we pay dearly but such a lesson Now for I the flapper as s the slang goes I dont don't blame women women for wearing the short clothes Wo know we are not j judged by clothes alone Ou Our Oun associates asso asso- elates clates and our daily dally walks are what coun count Now who is to blame when the tho theother theother other woman steps out with hubby or when steps out with the theother theother theother other man I say both Sometimes I it is is the womans woman's fault at home sometimes the husbands If both would agree to give each an equal break I don't dont think donl think th the e would be much stepping on either side be because because be be- cause wouldn't want to go out with another fellow and run upon hubby around with some good looking flapper Neither would hubby Now to cl close se lets let's hope in in 1927 each married couple will live for each other and lets let's hope all the flappers get steady single beaux and each fellow get himself a single sweetheart and gee geel I 1927 will be worth living in ml I am a a. a married marr woman t r did not realize everything until after I and my first husband were divorced Now am happily married and am am practicing what I preach I mean no harm to either the wife or husband husband husband hus hus- band but wish that everyone could make home homo a place of peace and li happiness ap p i ness ONE WHO KNOWS Dear Miss Blair lair For some iome some time I have been wanting wanting wanting want want- ing to subscribe for two magazines magazines maga maga magazines namely Farm Mechanics and Industrial Psychology Would you please tell me the cost of subscription tion per year for each and where I could subscribe for them MINER Bingham I Farm Tarm ar l Mechanics is 50 50 cents per year car or 10 cents per pel copy and is pub published shed at 1827 Pi Prairie aide a avenue venue Chicago Ill Industrial Psychology is 5 s per pel year Jear and is published at Hamilton N N. Y Y WrIte direct to the publishers in care of the circulation circulation circulation cir cir- departments or send In your your- your subscriptions through your our lo local local local lo- lo i cal Dear Miss Blair Will you please give m me the address address address ad ad- dress of Mr Alexander the fortune fortuneteller fortuneteller fortuneteller teller in in California BABE Address him In care of the Pantages Pantages Pantages Pan- Pan theatre Los Angeles Cal Ca Babe It Is just possible that Youcan you youcan youcan can get one of ot his books booles at a local book store or nov novelty no elty shop and the the-se books booles contain coupons that tha t tell you ou ho how hov v to reach him and other othel information in information in- in formation about fees etc ete Dear Dear Miss Blair Blair- I am entertaining at a a Scotch party on Rob rt Burns' Burns birthday Can you give me some suggestions on favors games and refreshments all in in Scotch style This is is for my club of girl friends and I especially want to give some clever inexpensive inexpensive inexpensive sive favors Do you think that I could borrow borrowa a book from the Salt L I e public library on the life of R Robert bert Burns Our library is is closed and I want to I get some information about this poet Thanking you JANICE I t j Surely SUle You vou can borrow bonow a a. book boo from flom the public lI library rury if you have ha havea haea a a library card caid d 01 or can CUll g gt get t one with the signature of a local taxpayer I Address s the mail niall order older department i I of the library and you you'll J It get g-et all the tle theIn I I In Information forma You ou 1011 might s send nd f for J a a I book ook of games at the same time tine I One of Edna G Gelster lster's s series especiallY especially espe espe- claIl The Tho Fun Jun J wp solve all tho those e problems I I You lou m may y to make makeup up up a num- num tier bei el of guessing games using Burns Burns' poems or 01 j if you just make the background Scotch you rou can c'an draw from flom history and romance Including Shakespeare and Sir Val Walter tel Scott e etc Use titles quotations extracts I I from play or poem such as Mac both beth j The Lady of at the thc Lake Rob Hoh RobRoy RobRoy Roy etc I If Jr you jou will get the January number number num num- j ber bel of the Womans Woman's Home Mome Com Com- CornI I you will get all sorts soils of recIpes and suggestions in connection I Ulan tion with Scotch cooking x and tills this particular article even Includes a picture of or Bobbie Bobble Burns so you be able to miss it This gives you ou everything in detail so lets let's save ave space Just one more comment don dont don't t neglect to serve eive oatmeal In one form or 01 another so that you youcan youcan youcan can live Ii up Ui to old Dr Johnsons Johnson's dictionary definition of ot cats Oats cats Oats a grain which in England we feed to our horses in Scotland they feed to their men The Scotch reaction being something like this w why hy w we e have such fine men In Scotland Scotland Scot Scot- land and such fine horses In jn SCOt SCOt-j England En En- gland As to favors write favors write to one of the local novelty stores for foi some of these thes tiny glass watch charms 01 or gO good d luck emblems They have some In the form of tiny Scotch terriers that are very clever Or give each guest a a. small box bo of butterscotch butterscotch but but- or get some framed poems of Bu Burns Bun ns' ns 01 or give each a picture of the famous poet Dear Miss Blair We are heartbroken Our two- two old month pet puppy has been lost or has strayed away He is is black and white whit with a ring of white around his neck and a white tip on his tail He answers to the name of Tip Well We'll be only too glad to reward anyone who returns him to us Our Ou home is 2787 South State street MRS W. W We Ve surely hone hoie your our pet is soon saari found and returned ed Dear Miss Blair Once before I entered your corner and though it was was a foolish question and a lot of trouble for you to locate I finally got an answer I I wish I could show you the letter letterI l I got after all my efforts It sure was waa funny to me at least Once more I have a question to ask as foolish as the other one In Inthe Inthe Inthe the show called Footloose there is is a young fellow In it but they failed to give his name Now I would like to know who he is and something about him him his his age na nationality nationality na na- etc ste He takes the part of Jacqueline Logans Logan's brother while Louise Fazenda is describing how Jacqueline lost her supposed hus hus- band He Js' Js just shown for a short time He He has dark hair and was rather good looking FOOLISH Wed We'd lIke Hike to see that letter It sounds interesting Were We're not sure that we have traced down the right man man for you F- F F. F hut but If ir he isn't the one the other othel one took too minora minor q a part to have any publicity printed along with his bit hit Wag Vas your mail man named Henry It so he 16 Is Arthur Hoy t Mr 11 no Hoyt t was born at Georgetown Colo Cob where his father was employed em cm- as a mining expert The Hoyt family came over from EnI England England En En- gland to Massachusetts with Governor Coy Gov I Winthrop in 1620 Does that tha t tI I give you his hiJ nationality Hoyt's CI first st stage appearance arance Was tb t i Viola Allen in In In the Palace of the King ICing and he has been in pictures for ten years jear ears These last two items are what make me suspect sour our young fellow may not be he |