| Show n I t I u t tf 0 f O I 1 F r F w wt t It BETTY t Letters and questions for this department should be addressed to Miss Betty Blair Hearts Heart's Haven Salt Lake Telegram Write only on one side of the paper It is is necessary to append your name and address but these are held in confidence and will not be published De Dear Miss Blair Please can you help me Ive I've been going with rith a fellow for almost a year and truly Miss Blair I think the world of him Though my family doesn't want me to care for anyone for a while yet they highly approve of him as a man But Miss Blair hes he's so well liked by everyone that it if is very hard haq to keep him for myself When I were we're together we never have any serious quarrels but when he isn't in town Im I'm asked to go places with other fellows and of course I go All my friends are there I When he ha comes back he never criticises me but he pays a great deal of attention to other girls and andt t takes kes them to different places though he never takes any other girl more than once Miss Blair I know that his really isn't any of my affair because nothing serious serious ser ser- ious has been settled between us but it hurts so much much gee gee I would not think of going with anyone else if I knew that he would be there I Im I'm m rather young and Ive I've tried i hard to forget him but I just cant His work takes fakes him away a great d deal al and I go to dances and parties with other fellows fellows I really like lika in a hail hearty way but I cant can't be contented with them I dont don't want them to touch me I realize that I cant can't expect you to tell me whether he cares but Miss Blair I must must have have him so please cant can't you advise me some way And dont don't think it Is just a kiddish affair beca because se Ive I've just finished high school last year and he is a college graduate and is holding a wonderful position Id I'd be the happiest hap little girl in the world if I were sure that I could have him Thank you Miss Blair LONESOME AND BLUE As Ae far as we wo can tell L. L and B. B everything Is In your favor and androu you rou have no reason for worrying sp so much You have the right attitude attitude attitude atti atti- tude and he seems seems' to care more rou than all the other otner girls so hy 1 are you trying to look forward to to disappointment ou know its it's utterly Impossible t. t Jake the person you love and lock him or her up In a tower room where no one else will know how at attractive attractive attractive at- at he or she the is and so they cant can't t try to take your prize away from you ou Life isn't like that If you Iou can cant can't t hold your own against others In the world out In the open I f t w where each has the same chance then Ahen then you ou might Just as well make r jup P your our mind that you'll have to be bed ber d i rp reconcile concile to fate and let It go at c that f 1 Your r our best chance of success success' Is s I i the most of ot your yourself elf In 1 every every respect so that this young man inan will find you ou the most entert entert entertaining enter enter- I t h t inina the most attractive person IQ e knows and one who can be i t- t c. c pal as well as a sweetheart If It I k e e ls js a coll college e graduate cant can't you 3 f 1 ke e an extension course or 01 two the university so that you will growing mentally all the time ou are not to be serious for a aye ayears a ye years rs yet jet and you shouldn't be k aware ou are under twenty you have I jj opportunity for adl ad- ad l ement m nt along long any number of nes that will make this young man Pl pi u ud d of you and will make him wt it to spend more and more time jime in and these these 1 lin your company company and all things will just be enhanced by br comparison with some of ot the other girls that he takes out occasionally Remember theres there's a lot of truth In Inthe inthe inthe the quotation made e cr every so of often often often- ten ten- The more I 1 see of the other other- girls the better I like Ilke you YOU you-YOU YOU make It work out that way Il It does does' with you In connection with the o other er fellows so why not with him You are both very wise to go about with other friends This need in nowise lessen your fondness for Cor each other but should cement your friendship all an the stronger within the next few Cew years Then too when you ou Oli do decide that you yoush sh should uld bel belong ng to each other you'll oun be sure of ot It t because you'll have tried out other friendships and found that they are merely casual In comparison Its It's a foolish girl Indeed who wo marries the first and only man who offers himself the and same is tue true of ot the boy boy- That doesn't t mean ean that should love one have innumerable dalt'S but it does mean that one should get acquainted with different different differ differ- I ent types and Individuals so that congeniality may be tested out A girl makes a very grave mistake to to limit her friendships while she is growing up and on Into her ties What will she know about people and Ideas it if her judgment Is based upon one other PromIscuity Promiscuity Promiscuity Promis PromIs- cannot be condemned too se severely severely severely se- se verely but your our st statements prove that you ou have a splendid attitude and if you continue without letting petty jealousy spoil your good times and friendship you ou should win out in m the end Dear HULDA Is this the address that you are asking ing for for Mrs Lillie 68 63 Wood avenue avenue- avenue It was given gIen tome to tome tome me this morning so we we hope you get In touch with your friend again Dear Miss Blair 4 I I certainly enjoy your interest interesting interesting ing corner and have gained many valuable hints from it I noticed I your answer to one of the readers concerning the J Jewett automobile contest and just wondered if it were possible for you to tell me something about another contest conducted by bythe the S S- S R R- R company in August Do you think that they would announce that in inthe inthe inthe the papers and if they have have you seen anything of it iH The winners were to be notified on or about November 1 I forgot to say that it was a tire naming contest Miss Blair can you give the poem Jest Fore Christmas that is is if space wil will permit And will you please tell me where I can obtain a copy of James Whitcomb Rileys Riley's poems and the price of same sanle Heres Here's hoping J J. J C. C Utah We are happy that you ou have found Hearts Heart's f Haven of interest and nd use In practically all cases where such contests have been carried on a mailing list of those who competed competed competed com com- Is compiled by the com company any and an announcement Is is' is mailed to all of them as soon as the the winners winners winners win win- ners have been selected Where thousands of people from all over the country have ha entered It is not always ahva's possible to clear up the answers answers answers ans ans- and make a decision by the date mentioned but as soon as the winners have been chosen further publicity is given gi and you will be informed most certainly it if you are fortunate enough to have been a winner You can get a copy of Child ChUd Rhymes for 50 at any of ot the book stores and other Collections collections collections col col- Col- Col of his poems average about abou the same There Is no book in stock which includes all his poems If It you wish to get these rhymes through the mall mail department of the public library you may do so If it you fill out a card and pay the expense of mailing to and from rom the library We Ve would be only to happy happy happy hap hap- py to print the poem you asked for but If we did SQ sp once wed we'd have to todo todo todo do the same thing for everyone who asI asked ed and there'd be more than a poem a day If you cant can't get this book through the library or decide that you dont don't wish to purchase the book let us know lenow and well we'll see if eve we ve cant can't manage some jome other wa way Dear Miss Blair I come again and I thank you for previous answers to me and for the good I receive from your corner every day J J JI I desire advice concerning I thank you for an answer as early as convenient You are always welcome F. F but this time were we're not printing your letter laher and were we're refraining In self- self defense and in your defense because because be be- cause caus representatives from every company in the country would be calling us and bothering you The company you mentioned has such a athing athing athing thing as you outlined and we agree that that Is the the only kind worthwhile worth worthwhile worthwhile while for such an an individual You should investigate all types In that company and it might be well to see about on one or two of the others The main thing to keep in mind is that the mutual companies are the ones' ones from which you are likely to derive the most benefit If you get In touch with any of them they'll be only too glad to send a man mallo out ti w to toe e explain plain all aU the aspects of the thing and the advantage of their individual individual ual company Dear Miss Blair When pressing a satin crepe dress should it be pressed on the right or wrong side of the material and should I use a damp cloth where it is very wrinkled I have a new dress of this material and haven't haven t pressed it yet so thought you'd of offer offer offer of- of fer a few suggestions suggestions- PUZZLED Wrong side Puzzled so that as much mch of f the sheen of the material as possible Is kept Dont Don't use a hot iron as heat makes satin lose its lustre and It soon looks shabby Watch Vatch out for spots If you try using a damp cloth I believe Id I'd not try that at least until It has been cleaned once Hanging the dress ina in ina ina a warm room may help with the wrinkles you might even hang it itIn itin itin In the bath room where there is a little Itle steam and then press It H. |
