Show S f Letters and questions for fop the department should be addressed to Miss Betty Blair Hearts Heart's Haven Salt alt Lake Telegram Write only on one side aIde I of of the paper It is hi necessary to append your name and address but these I are held in c confidence and will not be published Lost and found notices not cannot be in the columns f y S. S WANTS AVANTS WIFE Y BACK DACK Dear Miss Iss Blair I J am not a newcomer to your corner r. r as ss I have asked advice o of yoU you several times and taken it it too S and end 80 80 eo far everything has turned out ut lt successfully Now I would like likey y your ur advice on ona a avery very important problem I em After I had been married two twoS S months and a half my wife returned returnee S to b her home in G Georgia Georga because of ol the serious illness of her brother My l salary wa was not enough that I IS S had ready money so I borrowed for her fare Soon after her arrival there thera it became necessary I for fer her to undergo an operation which v set me back another 5 After that she wrote asking me if abs cho could not no remain there until after iter o our r bab baby was born and I gave my consent I love I-love love my wife and andI andave I Kave ave ve missed her greatly and now 1 that there thera are ara two of them I want them home more than everT ever T Recently I wrote my wife telling her that by August or r September I hoped to have enough money to bring her back But I rec received ived a a. a I totter itter in ret return rn stating that the the octor had said the baby would not s l.-s old enough to stand the trip at that time Now the baby is a healthy infant and will be bed 6 d months old by that time and I have Kava inquired here and learned that thy 6 months months' old baby should i lp 1 very w well able to st stand nd the trip at east by Sep September ember when the weather veather then is not so 80 hot S I j wai was worried about my wife's at attitude attitude attitude at at- and n now w I have found sound out from her own sister that sl- sl sI has been stepping o out t with a former sweetheart of hers down in GeorgiI Georgia Georgi I was also told that whenever she sher r receives a letter from me she says Wonder why he lie writes so often His us don't dont dont don't mean a thing hing to to torie n e re and nd he is easy He thinks everything i I I tell him is true I want to have hayea havea a good time and I 1 am going to Have nave it S Miss Miss' Blair I have suggested to tomy tomy tomy my wife that I get a transfer and ando O down there there but she has advised against it She was a decent girl when I I. I married her and I cant can't figure out the change in her Would you adise me t to drop everything herer ere Val v in on her unexpectedly and nd nd find lind out for myself I feel sure her sister is telling me me the tIle truth for she has always alway done so but I Iam Im am im m wondering whether or not it would be the decent thing for me to dr drap p in unexpectedly that way yay I S always meet everyone half way but when I am double crossed I I Iam am through If she is doing as her he sister alaSter sis alaS ter tel says would you you me to divorce her Id I'd see seo that the baby would be ke kept t supplied J I would lik my my myown own baby S UN UNDECIDED DECIDED i lh to your our problem de depends de- de ends eeds upon how much you rou really love Jove your wife I If your our k c is great enough nough that you jou could l I h her r indiscretion arid and t take ke her back and endeavor endeavor- to make maIte a a. home homa for her herand and auth your our child perhaps In this World orld filled tilled with mat ts no mat mat- v ter tel which way one turns happIness could tie foe found It Won Ifon on the other hand you ou were to take her back and the specter o oher of her mI misbehavior behavior should continue continue- to haunt and taunt you ou and you U li in turn should be Inclined to remind her continuously of or It It t vero were better better better bet bet- ter for you both and for forthe the chIld chili that some surer way to peace and happiness bo be found But when you stop to consider what tho the life Ufe of ot yourS YOUl daughter may nay be under the guidance probably o of some other oilier man who can never love her as her own father faUer will wIll don dont dont you think It Is worth making the effort to reunited with your our wife and to bend every effort of your our will wUl at peaceable reconciliation tion S. S J If It Is possible to to be transferred there I should consider that c course urse rather than giving up every prospect prospect prospect pros pros- of ot immediate employment af after after af af- ter tel you arrive there In that case I think you should go And after you have learned the truth of ot the situation you must make up your your mind which course you will pursue There is another alternative Remain here hero and send for your wife to come home Tell her ou Have learned that a a. six ix months montha old baby in good health can very well stand the trip and that you want vant them both home Perhaps ps you have been too easy Perhaps now if you give her to understand that thero there is no alternative if she abe expects to re remain remain remain re- re main your wife except that she re return return return re- re turn home she sho may come After Atter all aU it may be the better plan to ask askier her her- herto ier- ier to come entirely away from her herold herold herold old surroundings than for you to togo togo togo go there since money is not so plentiful for both to make the return re re turn trip I am hoping that this discussion of ot your problem may nay help to clarify it-in it your youri own mind and nd aid you you-tp t ou th the thc rI right decision ion |