Show L BETTY BLAIR Letters fend nd questions for fop this department should be addressed to Miss Betty Blair Hearts Heart's Haven Salt Lake Telegram Write only on one side of f the tho paper It is necessary to append your name and i address but these are held in confidence and will wUl not be published r Dear Miss Blair Since reading tho letter from Business Girl I have felt to answer it and give my opinion and experience ence on the points that she men She wishes She wishes she had married at 18 before she had her education but J feel to say thank the Lord and your mother for your education it may mean a lot to you in your future I life Your education education- should never hinder your being a mother 4 un understand un- un uno your feelings because I havo faced the same situation and have mastered it it You want a child and so does does' your husband d It may be all right for you to work for awhile yet but DONT DON'T STOP MOTHERHOOD Dont Don't ever think that the future will always be beas as sweet as tho the present You may not always have the opportunity to toI I be be a mother and neither do you know how long tong you will be able to have your husband with you In time a man gets tired of being a a wife's husband Do you know what I mean If by sickness or some other reason reason reason rea rea- son you are not able to become a mother In in the coming years yearS' your husband will perhaps accuse you of not being willingto become a mother moth moth- er when you had the chance You know we have no no lease on out oui OUt OUtlives lives or on our health Your old age would be ce empty if you did not have your children and childrens children's children around you I will NEVER go into business again as long as my husband is isable isable isable able to make a living for the reasons reasons rea rca sons eons I have already mentioned A MOTHER i I Iam am printing your letter to BUSINESS GIRL and feel sure that sh ah will be Interested Thanks s sm so m much ch for writing To NOBODY Barbara arbara Bedford is the lady you wish to know about She was born In ta Prairie du Chien Wis Dear Betty Blair This is my first time to come to you for help I am 17 years of age ago and have been corresponding with witha a boy friend for some time Ab About ut three months ago he went to Id Idaho ho hoto to work Since then we have been writing to one another but when I received his last VaSt letter 1 I decided that I wanted to discontinue my correspondence with him I have a photograph of him Is it proper that I should send this and his let let- tens back to him BROWN EYES I should say sar that It was entirely ly JL t ex o of choice as to whether you yo yo should r return his photograph nn and letters Unless be has done something which would j justify his forfeiting your jour our friendship I can can real reason for your wishing tto to be be so dramatic in your our ure Cant Can't you ou just destroy the letters betters and tuck the photograph aw away vay a y with your k kodak pictures as asa a of reminder of happy happ days dars' Even 1 if you do not wish to continue l la a correspondence and so on It 45 15 always nice to know that an oty friend Is not holding a grudge and the return o ot of pictures and letters is always fraught with a certain amount of bitterness one OJie way or another Why not Just drift naturally ally out of each others other circle anc and forget your oUr difficulties Instead of o stamping them on your jour memories 7 Dear MISS Blair This Thi is is' is my first time ime in your our corner corner corner cor cor- ner and I should like Ike you to give give me a little light on this subject I Iam I Iam am planning t to be the best man man and my y wife is to be the maid of oi honor at a friends friend's wedding so we weare weare are coming to you for advice on th subject ct We would be very grateful if you can tell us us what to do o R. R B B. B M. M You make my answer rather dif dif- dif difficult difficult since you jou rou did not tell me ale what kind of ot a wedding It is to be church or home the tha timo tilTe of day it is to W be so solemnized nor whether there were were to be a any y other attendants attend attend- ants According Accordi g to Emily Post Post No No Noone one Is busier than the best man on the day of the wedding His Ills of offIcIal official official of- of position Is a cross between trained nu nurse se valet general nan ager and keeper It Is up to the best man to see that everything be- be to the groom Is ready at atthe atthe atthe the proper time Including hotel pr or railroad reservations after the wedding wed wed- ding luggage the ring and so soon soon soon on but bout J Imagine that you jou are not especially concerned about those things In your question Now as to the position of the best best- bestman man during th the ceremony he ceremony he remains always directly back bacle and to the right of ot the the- groom When itIs It Itis Itis is time for the the ring the best man produces It After the ceremony If Jt t Is a church wedding the best bestman m man n goes b back ck into the the vestry room collects the gr grooms groom's oms om's belongIngs belongings belongings belong belong- ings and and going out the side d door r has them ready for the groom groonT bythe oy DY oythe the time he comes out the church door and then her ho helps the bride and groom Into their car Then Thea he goes back to the vestry where he gives the fee to the clergyman collects collects collects col col- his own hat and goes to the brides bride's house ouse v vIf If It the ceremony is to b elaborate elaborate lab lab- orate there Is always a rehearsal so yo you s need not worry about the The maid mam of t honor should get the wedding arra arrangements from the bride and should ho ld plan her clothes in accordance with the wishes of th the bride In the procession on the maid of honor walks T alone imm immediately dIatel following the bridesmaids It II mert the the flower flower next are any girls giris come and and- then t tie the e bride on on the ar arm 1 of her er father The Tle maid mald of or of honors nors place Is on the left at t the foot of the steps exactly opposite the best man The of honor holds the bridal bIldat bouquet d during ri th the cere- cere mon mony If there are an an any specific questions ques ques- About which you jou o are ln doubt I shall be be glad to help help- YOU you but oua u question was too general and Sand too Indefinite for me to do more more than sketch j jn in the briefest ie est o outline Dear A. A B D. E E. E I l' I- I should advise you ou to see a skin specialist or at least feast go anti and have havea a thorough examination by your own physician The condition you jou o tt p d to mo me s seems em to be more mor should be treat treated d accordingly Dear Miss Blair you Can help me to develop th the calf my leg eg I 1 am quite stout but have very slender er legs from the knee down Now that short skirts are so popular feel embarrassed A. A AW A. W. W B. B Our ur being sto stout i elsewhere else hex gives S way ay vay You dont don't don dont t use use y yo a m meis eis letso eiso w o you qu If It If you jou took a brisk bUk walk of irom two to to three miles every day your jour our flesh would begin to shape down down and and jroud get you'd-get get slimmer slim sUm mer mar above the knees while the mus mus- mus- mus cles des in the calves of of your legs legs' were legs vere were vered d developing Dancing i Ij also excellent excellent excel excel- lent in developing gevel well shaped legs Dear Miss Blair Will vill you please tell me Charles Buck Jones' Jones address t I ANXIOUS Address him In care of or the Fox Film company Western avenue and nd Sunset boulevard Hollywood d. d t Cal Cai i Dear Miss Blair This is is the first time I have ell en- en entered your cozy corner and andol andl l hope hopu I am welcome How can I I remove root beer stains from my silk crepe dress dressI I have tried ried Thoro ihor but but out success I f Id I'd suggest suggest always letting an ex expert expert expert ex- ex pert handle things of that sort If it you really value your dress as experImentation experimentation ex ex- makes It all the miro difficult Jf If r you are aie determined d to todo todo todo do it yourself however tepid water ateI and pure puro pure soap not too strong are aN aNthe the most likely remedies Unless s the silk Is a very verj delicate color you jou should be successful because th the silk itself will w Wash h beautifully Dear Miss Blair Where Whore is is the Saturday Evening Pest Rest published I mean the editorial editorial editorial edito edito- rial offices READER In In- Philadelphia Pa by the Curtis Cut Cur i Us Publishing company CUt I |