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Show adopting this prlmlllrs policy, hew. ever. w. advla. you to aaua. and meditate. Modern women ar. ath l.tie, and sflea hav. their own hank accounta.' Cavemaa .tuff Is picturesque pictur-esque on th. at.se, but doe a not fit Into a three-room flat. Love Is a fragile and delicate or- fanlam, not to b. forced. It be-oovea be-oovea the aspiring huohaad to eon-ouer eon-ouer hla aheurd Jealouay. get buey and make hla spouse eo happy that h. foraeta that there are tnree mil Hon other men wandering at large la th. city I , . - . How to Understand Your Hutbend , i THI JBALOtg BALel y Wtaalfiwg Harper Cooler. Copyright, lttt (New Tsrk Ironing World), Press Ppbliahlag Co, "Hit Wife oa Head Becaua. He l". Her bo," proclaimed tbs headlines head-lines of a murder. Thla touching tribute to a wo-msn'a wo-msn'a charma may bring forth sighs of snvy from spinsters and aeuro-tlo aeuro-tlo maidens auff.rlns from aup-preaoed aup-preaoed deelree. but w. pr.fer leas affectioa and a longer Ufa. From Othello up snd down ths lias, lore, eepeoially marital pas-aloa, pas-aloa, has boss supposed ts bs tbs aids partnsr of violent, unreasoning unreason-ing Jealouay. Atroolouo crimes ars pardoned the jealoue spouse beoauae he loved much. Whoa tho big black warrior smothers hla lanoent and eaaul.lle Ml. k-f.nu k . , , .fc. at ee,eluelnaa and accepted . etr euamstantlal erldeace. thue Inenlt- ng; her refinement and deoervcr and hllllaa; her la her prime, sympathy roe out te aim because pt his "eraat love. Of eoiirae all Jealousy Is founded en erotism, selfishness and the firm belief that one adult human being; absolutely poeaeeaes another. We deny It. If a modern. tntetllsent person, believing; 1 personal responsibility foe morals rather than every-hua-band-hle-own-detectlve, asserts that ha la not jealoua. folka smile akep-tlcally akep-tlcally and dealer that he does aot I leve his wife! It Is a elm oa -pure HARKaf type of "love" that wa.tchee auspiciously, lay dawn rule end ultimatums for a wife and la vr ready to believe the worst. Any congenial love worth having; esteema and tmete, aad assumes as-sumes that a woman hae her owa standard a df conduct .and self -re-apeot aad la devoted te her spouse. If she Is aot fond ef you, o fear complex la going to make her eol tTnlcs you can stand competition, better retire from the field. But go easy oa the aae or oyanlde potassium, potas-sium, or ground glass In her coffee, for all Juries are not addicted to the Unwritten Iaw Judgment, and will not decide that a husbsaa OWN" hla wife, and ao can murder Iter, or her admirer, at hla dlecretloa! Then, too. women alt en Juries nowadays, and they may take a look at you. and at the auapected rival, and murmur "Poor dear, aae in a; HIM. can ye Mam her 7" The Jealous male 1 a sorry apee-tacte apee-tacte for gods and men. He works himself up Into a fevered state, often over a frowsy female that ne one would have from l-tfe'e Bar . sain counter, and be atoopa to auch petty peraecutlona that he I both ' disagreeable and ridiculous. To be sure, hie technique may 1 have the dealred result for the rea-' rea-' son that he la alone la the field, there being ne ether takere: or, ' because the Intimidated creature te dependent on htm flnaaeialty. er le terrorised. Rut what ral man wanta a wife under ouch conditioner condi-tioner Then. too. he may n!y seem te triumph; for ladlea too closely watched are apt le develop a f ineeee In deceit that la appalling. Flaying Master to a Aleve la fu for the Master, but the alave has a trick or two, and seme prison Inmate en toy outwitting their beeper. From Donna Julia who tauarht reunr Den Juan hla am o roue alphabet alpha-bet and made laugMnaetoek of her elderly husband, down through letory. suspected wives usually have justified the eusplclous' Jealousy Is a twe-edged sword, rutting deeply the wlelder. It ie a boomers n a that swoops hack In a wide circle, and awata the h wrier. Tt le a devouring flame that devastates de-vastates snd destroys. Reman tie love prsuppeee a certain cer-tain amount of jealousy. In that It hum a so hotly snd guards ao ten derly: hut the husband whe real It value his wife for her beauty, wit and charms, must suppress his lawlessness law-lessness aad tranemute fierce po seeeorehlp Into voluntary reciprocity. recipro-city. Tenderness haa eome thing of the paternal qualltv. rejolcla I the triumphs and admiration from out -eutere of ihe beloved- Some men achieve thla eves st ths cost of a cealn repreeeed vanltv. There la a fixed belief that women love a bullv. Old adaaree and the common taw o' Knaland Justified wife-beatin. The cowed female la eunoosed te rub her black eye ruefully, rue-fully, the rase In ecstasy at hr "strong" lord' Apart from the fact that ahe vsuatly le who'ly dependent c thte sesst snd afraid or h-n. there le a tiny bit of truth In the evchelerv In cases ef Ignorant fend lover nature. We think It te not the brutality of the ma a. but the tneenetlsm. ffe msv have greet athue1asm and rood ature and mt love aa en beraattv he ehaatiaea. . It la tMa that ahe Kkee shout him. net the entrees. Rhe clings to him. In spite r ms brutality, net because ef It? If yo consider th w tad em ef - |