| Show o Put a f a C Q in Yourself Nis JI i or n y wel 14 TI formerly known II ss II rp I flue tk word ten 0 for tor tile the r g trY She SlIe has haa written sl r pit P f 1 I U so 10 called nut But she IheI to erg w I mar th everythIng t that I nt Is hi I Ir sir Irr t 3 pre Iii behalf of that hAt very ary r civil civill In modern rL 4 l porn t c l c the s hass t a That fl t II he has I rl the dory alory for tor the theu u pert 1 out outI a lit It Is I h 11 I a 4 nn and and It Im going to write n a hook My book shall balt be celled called Only a Men Man Wont that bo b t 0 nine title My book Is going to tell about m men n for tor once going to try to ret gel at a 0 afew few facts which lire Irs Stetson and ond all the ladles who write such clever cleer things about Only n a Women Woman seem either to forget or to wilfully Ignore OnlY n tan Inn I chant make him a miracle like time the gentl gentlemen OIlIn In the play pley who can knock down six Ix giant mus mu musketeers throttle a lion seize the lady of hi his heart lent with her out of II tory story window and come corne down cafe and sound to cry Foiled FolI 1 again In the very er teeth of nt the foe I shall not make him a I saint like the Ihl of the Holy Grail Grall peeking the title through the or of the Ibe Ideal 1 f NII i and make her happy happ Put lut a of little hehl children on your our should et ere and start out to make ok 1 a living for them In this world you think tO so beau Go 00 downtown and work and fret and worry and plan and puzzle anI and rail fall and be defeated and get Iet up UI agaIn and tight fight tilt whole lJ battle tU over tiny at af atter tr ter da day week feek after aUer week Iek month after oller month year ear alter after year ar till there thore I Is no nomore more mati time for you ou and yours YOUrt Fight Why Itt Ite nothing but n a earning a lh Ing Do you ou think my good brood woman that your four hult nd has no battles because Ul he does col sho show you his hll I scars JaCS Put lut yourself In ills hll play Ia for one diY day for one little little da day and find that It WIll lake allour all your fortitude all your courage anti all your our faith to 10 keep you alive till 1111 the welcome nightfall cones Couro Courage 1 Wh Why It takes more courage to earn IUS an honest living in thle dA day ot of cum com and Ind desperate endeavor then It took look the ot of Old you admire i so 10 much to enter a dozen list and light lighta a score ot of tourneys Talk about the Twelve The rh roan mUll who earns I a decent Income must inUit meet ani and conquer or be conS COli by them every ory single four hours hour To 10 steal to 10 lie to cl cheat al to slab hi his I best belt In III the back to take the tho meal mul from the mouths ot of the widow 1110 and Ind the husband no none of Ille these things Probably M he does doe not to his hll eternal credit lit be It spoken wt but It Is net Dot for tor lack ol of opportunity and for tor very try grievous tm temptation tIn Alcove AbaTe It Above the crime Above IOe th the temptation tO It 7 No man is II No man can cun bt be where his hll family le la calling to him for tor this for tor that And for the other thing which hleb John family has and which John Somebody bought for them out ot of the trice price of human blood Men Ien do not nol tell you OU these thin The They do not lIot You take up moot mOlt of the time telling than about your tragic Ut life with one ole poor clumsy tenant whoa who fearful crime Is Ie Inability to learn to make jelly jell Tell you TOU And hlL leave you rou turn white whit TO go and worry old about html w Not h be That la Is not his fashion He took you 00 to love cl and Inri pro protest test you and whatever may be his hll they are ale age American man lives up to the promise he made on the dB day ot of his hlA wed weddIng wedding dIng lit lie bores cherishes and the woman he and Ind just now nOlI that woman seems to find her chief de delight delight light In reading and ald writing nUnc books tell her what I a selfish lh oruel low 1 the men man who ho shields her tram from this world la II laShe She fhe want to be shielded she farl hp wants ants to be Independent Independent A man Inan Is your OUr husband Independent m my dear woman lie Is a 1 a ahead h head ad Is n a man of superior Intelligence and he knows his trade better than an any other cor carpenter In town perhaps Dose DOeR that make him independent lie Ile cant get one stroke of work un lees IMS he belongs to a union which lella hIm exactly what h he ma may earn and how long he 1011 may even then he Is dependent upon tile the whim ot of 1 a contra contractor tor who may give hint him work or ormay may not Independent Is your husband independent hi nay good glOd madam madamA A banker a clever cleer astute I to tell 1111 his hi Ito how hose much more cul cui and learned the tho wo woman man Inal Is than the tho AmerIcan man Im going to have hao him politely at th the assumption that the belonging to 1 a Browning handbook clUb or r an Ibsen study class olas means menns real culture My hero shall lIt alt calmly b by and hear women whose ho e ono aim In lyre lire is II to outshine theIr friends talk abut high Ideals and noble liable standards My lly hero Is going to hear hoor himself and hi his ways and his hili thoughts an and t Ills his habits and his ideals criticised and In attacked In large and ln en to the woman ho he supports In ease and luxury Is III a delegate lies going to look at the woman he loves loe and say Ah well ale hp mean It bless her heart when she hl II lies held and oil 1111 hIs tribe and follow lag Ing U up to scorn and obloquy tf au he forgot to mall a letter Itter telling till ash ashman man to come nt at 6 In Instead of at lie lies going to 10 slop In the millet ot of n a crol crowded busy hurrying distracting day a day all t In a haul tight fight for lor afew a few more loor for tor herto match a sample It at a shop ahoD so ox 08 to glue her time to go 0 to the ebb And discuss her shameful subjection lies going to Come home so 10 tired that he be can tel scarcely reel head up so 10 tired d that If It won wm fOl for lor the woman and her children there then at al hone II he would wish h he could Ite he down dawn tome some somewhere where where he ha could hear the trees rustling and sleep awa away hl hIM hes to a hut hasty dinner and ard force himself Into a dress cult ull togo to go to a reception just because she wants hIm to tAke her there Iles I cant tell It all RII hereIt will take n a book to do It Look fit at the OU browbeat m my good woman look at him with nth all hIs follies and all hl faults Think of hIm when h hes cross croll be berault because cause you ou want ant hint to Ik ask his hll way we somewhere and aDd hed hd rather die with his hll masculine Ulan UllOn him than to acknowledge that he I nt know the street hI he cannot Innot find nad Remember hIm when he has haa a little old cold anI and gets etl so 10 seared leared to death over the least vain 1111 that thai he h wants wanta to send nd for the doctor tor and make his wil Im Call to mind his hi deadly de d to his hll hit hat hits hll Quer Auer cling ID lag tu to strange hours for eating his hi way of wanting to kilo ht you cant ant make a SW 20 cown look u well as al a 1100 one the woman acres the way ha haDina hue Dina to your mInd all his strange Intolerance which makes him hate In a 11 women the very cr faults he inducts In her think ol of him At his worst his very pt then consider Ii a lit nt It that the there ar are so IO man menu bad l men hu but t that tha 1 there r are arf so IO many good ones onH Put yourself In his a mIn a t little generous honest fair minded uld you OU bear the bur burden burden den h he carries curlee as 11 well as ho he hears bears ars It Could you Ou grInd grind l at the moneymaking sick or well hot hone e ful or discouraged rain or shine loved or u unloved as AI he does and ond mMe make as asgood asgood good a 11 face ol of cheer and ond happiness over oer It have bae their wrongs and their sorrows Only h n a woman who ho has fell tile Irk knife In her own on heart hoort knows how deep and how holl agonizing n a woman womans pain CAn b b Women have their care caree their ties their No creature who lives ran can den deny that ten den have their faults lault grievous and Ind hard for lor the women Who ho love loe them to bear ar Xo No man lives lIell who will even een tr try to den deny that Men Ien do not claim the privileges t of omniscience That is 18 a distinctly feminine y really seem em to be the type ol of the prel prest tnt sal that It will do us Ul balm to look upon the other able IId But there are two IWo aide ld to the story alory remember r that ladles ot of the re forming aid ala always and always reo me member that Let us look op ol that oth other er side Ildr for tor lust juet so long as n It t takes to i rear read these few fel poor words nt at an any rote LIfe Is II so 0 hard at best beat so 0 full tull ot of dl die aPI appointment and sorrow and heart tugging riel We W men and women ought to help holp eAch other up Ih time hilly road to ta happiness s Not stand b by the tho wayside casting stones at th those who have already a grievous burden to tear Only n a man Lot us UI write a nt new book Wf we women Omen ot of America Let Lets tear un these thc e old ones full of and lag and the small arguments of at email souls whim ho weigh ell all lire hie by the money there thre Is In It 11 write writ n a book full ol of love Inc and confidence e and In this hero of ours the Dillin everyday man of North America AA WNM AAA AA n Hynes tt D by br a lire r Charlotte rasa t tidy lady who has hns had 1 to ray abut wom women n and Itt 12 tl to them for lor being belus Rood good Ts Tn go rear a womans club In ant meeting Some one on onI hs I last wt read nil all about and ond ands I Ir s y r Utile liWe WA way of seeks kl r Instead of bUYing w v ones for lor lorI I sad the los road It 1 11 wants to dl It ith h I an book I k A s III El abut how women have i f u upon lIn and abused over Ince ages It relates the theu ther u r f ass the agonizing fut 1111 attar ICen and anil th awful ot of sea It tf a how she bears her herU ree U is In rr and rears them In ht rp Irl Rev How she sits IUS a poor hard hardI r I of I c tom within the lock Md and 0 d her hu husbands home and yearns earn Tosco and Ind erns arM e 1 aims cant eat bread of her bar own d r she ho ant Wear clothes of her herto to ti she cant do or have or be 00 r JIh tl rg dent JI wall books have ended 1 n tOIl sad un the rOlling lo together of I at as a enroll with nu an ap all 4 t the tb downtrodden en to tok tok k ud throw oil of the tho go and andUn Un bs ova I ht the ls r would take the tho ad adr rr r try to Ir jUst ebent bOJt six months month ot of f fire 11 economic independence ae e abo 1 hoar I lees fl and tte Ib a W Woman man N N I shall h 11 not make him n a great genius enlightening the world with the splendor lol ot of his hll I shall not snake make him all an arguing scientific soul lest beet perfect monstrosity like the bero heroes l ot of the Looking Backward brand of at man who ho fl feels l by his reason and who thinks b by electricity I shall not make him n a bigot who thinks his hll own particular form torm of belief or disbelief Is Isa II a topic to entrance II a waiting nation Just II a man a 0 plain everyday quick k tempered bighearted finding h hard working man ol of I North America The one who lives next I door to you ou mad madam m or the one who comes come to call upon your our sister rn my dear young oun the tho man for j 4 lay hero And ho he Is a hero I Laugh Laush os as you will to the im I and the unattainable as you may ladles of the hear club ho he it III ita a hero every Inch or of him And the smallest finger of hta hili hand worn herd han with honest work 1 is worth Orth all Ute the idealists of nil all the centuries put to tore together re gether Uler A hero Why not 7 have you 01 ever tried to de one ot of the hinge he d does s day and never dreams of malting making a ot of his hili do No Try Try It Take Taka n hIgh strung woman and trY to support hr her N N I lag man admIred by the theother I Iother other members calling But Dut Independent Ask him It If he tells you ou the tho truth he will sa say that he has hili to conciliate here to cajole there to threaten the other place ploce In order to lo kle keep the wolf of failure from his very door Independent Your United States Sena Senator I tor a 11 man with money position power I a man who tho can call make or brook break mon men I and communities II a man sought loucht after toadied to flattered followed applaud edIs he Independent Ask Mm him If he speaks the tho honest truth he will tell you OU that some Ignorant Ignorant ant and unscrupulous vindictive ward boss holds him anti and his future In the hollow of a hand neither nor over oloan Independent There are aro few Independent men In IndIes tiles dIes Do not let Mrs Irs Stetson or any others of her way ln of thinking deceive mone money anything on oneArth onearth eArth but Independence 11 he be be n a working man the tho hero ot of my book Of course coun Every American who Is worth any anything thing le II a working man of at one sort or And Is nn an pure and simple A shrewd clever cleer quick hard working sentimental I American Of course coune Under all his crusts ot of halt serious the American man has baa a thousand times more sentiment than the American woman And hes going to be and like the looks look like and lit is not like Smoke drink use some lome words that are not In the die dic I dont know These things ore are not beatitudes but the man who forgives a 0 woman her nagging faultfinding well be for tor forgiven given pren some lome small vets CN Good natural and ond tolerant and kind kindly ly Iy ho Is II and always will be le It if ills hll women folks will only anI give Kle him halt half a chance And I shall rhall have him go 10 down Into the light ot of life llIe every da day and give Jle and take In It like the strong man that he heIs Is I 1 shall have hao him put ills hIs every nerve nene and every e o drop of blood In his veins and every energy eney ot of hit his bursting burUn brain Into the problem of making what the woman t br o married for love calls n a decent living for lor her and ond for or hi hits bbl babies and 1 Im going to have him go 10 hume home stint a day of h heartbreaking anxiety and nene effort erron and to his wiles entertaining reo re remarks marks on the subJect of women and economics Im to have him sit lit and heark hearken en tolerantly to ladies who have havI corn com I Xo No man on earth claims that he cnn can be a man and a woman both The modern women woman does docs claim that very cr thin Tell II a man that are Ie bettEr nurses s than men better betler better In little things thing and he will 14 say Why Wh yea ell ot of course coure they are Men Ien do not to claIm for tor themselves an all seeing all doing all knowing per personality They realize that there are limitations limitation to n a human be bc InI Inge Not so the modern woman She can do and think and bean beany says I hardly believe that It if some me rash mortal should arts and declare that men make better beUer prize I lighters than women some ome one of the I new cult among women would arise and refute the charge charce with much In In Indignation and more than a little elo eloquence quence i 1 ho have yet ret to hear ot of a body ot of men nen called together for tor the pur purpose purpose pose or of proving to the world what we ve veas as men can do have done and might could would or should do It if the eternal laws ot of th the universe would only cease to net act for lor a 0 while and give gle genius n a chance to sprout Genius Lets face facts facts cold cokl facts Women hB have devoted their to music mull for tor centuries painting and the ort art of decoration |
