| Show E I IN IN Er AM Ai It la Is an any one word more u ex than another In the whale language that worl word Is grum grumP P and ard yet It is III so ro hard harl to 10 deHne when you ou gel It down Iown to the giving ot synonyms It by right to 0 that class clou ot of domestic help upon whom we absolutely for forthe the happiness or of our homes yet who can b by tM this s make the tho 10 Intolerable that thee the word home becomes a mIsnomer Th There r Is III not II a housewife who has not n at some sometime time or other encountered this mus ot of disposition that as a rule at attacks tacks lacks the cook when unexpected com compan compan pan arrives Hospitality no matter matlEr how hol spontaneous a 4 rude rud check t the Iho thought of oC the lowering brow browand browand and short horl answers awaiting n a descent W to the kitchen where hele nn an announcement of the must be made The meal served may mo be 00 absolutely I pert ct and l gUItI In raptures over vit Chef treasure ot of a a cook that It but the hostess Cannot truthfully con conour concur our cur with them the remembrance ot of that brush with hr her grumpy majesty le Ie too recent ent Wash days are par lathe attacks oUock and the gloom that marks the countenance ot of the Iho maid ot of oil all work on these thelt oc cc I Is reflected In the th manner ot of flyer every member ot of the household until It becomes n blue Monday In wry very truth ss Is but another word for tor forthe the sulks The person of n hast hasty tern lem lemper per who 61 says what ho he or she has to 10 coy 10 no matter how disagreeable its nature and gets the storm over oer and Allows the atmosphere to clear Is 18 In infinitely finitely preferable to the one who ho like a lowering cloud su suggests the storm without any hint of sunshine appear lag alter after II It A grumpy disposition la In Ina laa a misfortune not on to its possessor but to the persona who must mut curter from Crom Its ell effect It can be cured but rarely endured It be behooves hooves anI am one t tu to Ut use will power to the inmost capacity it If there still lUll lies ileA In him or tor bor u II desire to be acceptable I the be many Instead ot of merely tolerated bY the few Times Sweets to In Your nOlle It is 18 CI who are Invited 10 0 et t Lenox and Newport are n n a tad fad start started el ed b by last spring during the chateaux The swag swagger ger thing to do before tore on l is to Lo lease Icae un an ord order r at lb II best In town for Cor a n numb number rot of boxes boxel or favorite sweets n nougat mM tons rons glance etc Ie The Theof In a box II the size td house h Asa of time the names ot of those thoe invited Very ery e and foreign preserves or JOinS jams are oft on the list 1111 and It if one could order a fruit u as delicious as Il II was navel time Ihal tools tool erml sl l This ta A Intend intended ed e as n a delicate attention to 10 the toeless In rat urn for tor her charming invitation and gives II a little exults meat as 15 th the different box boxes arrive arrhe from town to the company compan assembled and ana creates II a little merriment at the same lAme I time After a lung atrUl struggle le th the female ph phy of hate secure n a decree placing an both so 10 and politically with the male In the empire Iii The reason wh why so 10 few women ap parent the grace race ot of originality apy y Is II that they th are oro really afraid to branch ort off from time the beaten track hut but I ly follow tollo In the toot footsteps ot of their nel Therefore Therdore what Mrs Ir A does dols N U D C and D do also ulso Mrs Irs D may have individual sentiments on topics and dress but jut because she ehe Is afraid ot of being considered queer or out outI ot of she herself Into a copy I cut and It do Oil on resolving herself Into the counterpart of meone else In Instead i stead sunU ot of allowing her own personality to hold sway Therefore the poor little hostess who feels feell It Il n necessary to 10 give glye an entertain entertainment ment In return for tor tars favors reo re does dOls nut dream ot of arranging It according to II her means but till the seeds teds of many a wakeful night simply because she he feels she must give an at af affair fair on the Ih same lAm scale ot of someone else In her circle whose Is 18 ten tell tines ere u tong long The ful unrest the absolute unhappiness that this sort of thin thing eng engenders le beyond relief Ner u is II frequently nothing more than the result ot or on the part of Ht Im Ibor woman who to keep up With n a Pie pace that is III tar beyond her physical arid financial possibilities She It is afraid to say I cannot afford It and lit give simple little entertainment wear ear simple inexpensive frocks keep one girl and anI live In a house bOUle th the of which is III hut but a fourth ot of her husbands Income InOme Nu No she must e b because cau Ir A d does s so ao und and then she worries herself sick over oer the Impertinent and persistent demands ot of collectors colle t when all this trouble would be saved saed It If she ahe would only let ht herself elt be herself and In that way wa would un und undoubtedly d achieve ahlee a 11 reputation for tor that would make her aleader a leader In lI her r set Instead ot of the meek Bill silly sheep that she I is following blind blindly ly h wherever choose chOC e to go Times Tim The lillI To think before you ou speak peak is 11 so 10 wise wile all an axiom that one would hardly think It needful to emphasize tl It by repetition And yet et lit In how many cues cases the hut hasty temper flashes a hes out In the hut hasty word and the latter d does s Its III work with the and the pain of the swift stiletto Singularly enough the hasty huty word wounds those who ho love loe one another dearly and the very co close e enus nus ot of their intimacy affords them op opportunity for tor the sudden Budden thrust We know the weak uk points point In the tho armor of our kinsman and our friend i we are aware or of his hla caprices and ordinarily are arc lender and compassionate even n ot of othi hi his vanities s and hl his small fancies and whims but then dawns n a day when U it Is II written In the book 1 ot of fate fale that we shall be as al cruel iu as we are loving e Art are cold or tired or hU hungry W We are anxious over unpaid bills or our expected letters have not arrived or orone one ot of the children Is 18 ailing and w dread tie tle outcome ot of the Iho malady So politeness falls talla us uP fortitude Is van vanquished philosophy Is In abeyance and we say th lt we repent tn in sack alk sackcloth cloth und and ashes But though the has hasty I word may be forgiven n It Is not at once forgotten It has hils flawed the crystal or of our friendship the place may be ceo ce but there Is a shadowy scar on the gleaming surface Oh It If the word ot of haste hail had hum Jut been left unspoken It the hand of patience had hod but held hack bark the sword us It was about to D zar Mn lisle Ihle sushi A mans Ideal woman Is gentle 10 by lag Ing rind and hUmble In her ber own conceit and ande he e can find nothing admirable In II a woman however clever er who indulges Ina In Inn n a caustic wit tit or who Is so infallible In her lier own estimation that she believes her opinion to be the only right one though It be contrary to 10 nil the rest or of the world says the Cleveland Plain dealer Cleverness Cle In women Is at to men provIded Its Owners ners are not by conceit and that they are too hearted to Indulge In sar sarcasms al the expense of their neigh neighbors bars bors |
