Show DINNER AT HOME TEST OF GOOD BREEDING Much uch Is said to tho the child about arut what hat he lie must do and antI b be when whon ho lie 10 goes out t te visit but little In comparison of what he hc must do o an and b bo be at nt home Yet nowhere Is the ther r very Inn Inner r spirit of or ortho tho time ram family faintly I more 1011 o l evidenced than the tIme dinner din riot nor table Every Every effort should 1 h be made to teach the tho child to appear a at this his best when at nt bonus hOlo and more particularly which when h ho he Is ft at meals Time The amount of genuine a family has laM pf probably shows moro morn dl distinctly at ut table than In iii a any other on one plc place and amid ant a a. a thousand little windows are opened by imy time th clr cursory orr conversation on about tho the breakfast breakfast break break- bra bra- fast table through h which winch to look Into the deeps deps arid and shallows of ot the home Ironic If I It were necessary to sum sum up the members m of or R a tam family 1 R at t a 0 glance nowhere no herl would It he be possible to jud judge e them with wih moore accuracy p anti ami ali find th them nl with less leer n than gathered unconsciously Ir 1 about tho the table tabe at al their thel evening c or mItt mM- day dav ay meal Why h then Is not more thought tak taken n about the time conversation and general ramly tarn ram ly ily ly tone at al meal time Unquestionably there In he I. I not nol enough nough formality for for- maUt mality connected connected- d. d with wih the tho dal dally daily taking of or our omit food In this land hand of or haste and nervous ner ncr Votis OU effort fort To the ancl ancient nt Hebrew th time tho family table vu was an altar mind and the goblet touched b by bythe bythe the lips hips tp of or the tho fa father and nr the mother wa was g time the symbol of spiritual and ha heavenly hanlY things t Every Enn year rear hail had J Us its seasons every season Its iA form orm and nt symbol mol both carried out nt nl tire the family amly dimming lin tahl table But how ho different It I Is im today Too Tco often th there r seems m only enough time Iliac for each cach member of fit the family to tn sit I on tIme the ex extreme ex- ex edge c so of his chair bolt 1011 bol but a n small email quantity of or food Col nn amid make for tor the street ct Sometimes Sometime the only mN meeting tn place of a ii family of or growing 11 and girls Irl Is h at atthe the th table Yet U us as a rule rile how much Is I there thoe still left heft to bo he desired In tho wa way of or cheerfulness and conversation con during the lime inca meat mear of ot most large largo families t There I Is only ono one wa way to create a 1 revolution revo revo- lution In the family am II conscious of or having dull drill silent nn and uninteresting meals It ItIs I Is for rol each ch member of It tu tl to turn n over r O a an anew n new w leaf r. Each Ilch one ne must com COnIC como to the tho table prepared to I show how hl his best side side side- the tho thO side that comes out with coln c evening cloth clothes 8 and anti party part dreS the side too to often oren withheld from family life ure bo be b It be bestowed he- he stowed sto n never so o abundantly elsewhere 1 Every r n member of or the family am I must realize realize real real- ize Ic a as III e evening co closes s down and amid the varicolored varicolored vari earl colored of th the bU busy dir day at are gathered gath UI ered ena hOI home that them thero Im must t be e a 1 ItU unselfish h effort efort made h by If 1 the tIme family tam fam amI am- am I ily unity to be preserved and l th tire the family fam fain 1 ily life k kept pt harmonious This freshening up of o the Iho family tam 1 life fo as R a unit h by tw these little tributaries s. s who whose c tides ebb and How flow low from Crom Its Is center can CI only curly be he accomplished b by Individual effort efort and personal in hn t A i dally daily 10 re- 1 nowal norval of ot I patience affection and 5 self control control con con- la Iu needed rl rue Tho two characteristIcs most Important for r tim the family to cultivate at meals arch ore are cheerfulness h and amid nna conversation con The They ai aio ato a alioth both hoth necessary U By ch cheerfulness rr ll ess Is meant light pleasant pleas pleas- ant alt happy talk Do not bring your our tro trou- trou hies to the table hut but stories l J anecdotes Incidents about the people r you joil rOI have ha mud mot timings things s h happening rp in iii the time cornor cother cor- cor npr nor I of the tIre world work Bring tho pleasant things home hom and talk about tw th them m till tl your business ls life r Is real nUl glowing to those thos who love lo e you ou and be- be hove in you OU and can see It only through your our eyes To h bo 10 cheerful erful I is not nol to bo be artificial artificial- neither Is It Il forcing Insincerity upon your friends Cheerfulness Is a 1 form forum of or un tin un- a difficult noble nobl form Conn which P PIs Is I too tun seldom given I en the appreciation It lc deserves fM In Iii asking for 01 or more mor conversation con at meals meal an nn especial appeal Is made to preoccupIed preoccupied pre pre- occupied fathers fl and Indifferent brothers Can the they not both conic come forward and anti hi tug t. t to the table stories of their life lre In Inthe the time world worl Interesting bits hits of or happenings g of national Importance Can they not lift the tho mild ml I gossip ln Jo loving of the tho cnn Crat conversation n as tie al It I is when left ett In iii the tho han hands s of mothers and ant sisters sis sir tots tot's to tu a higher level hovel divert leel divert It It strengthen strength strength- en It It form Irm H it I af after r bl bigger ler patterns Iet et the time fah father I stop reading Iris his newspaper per ut at the tire table tahle let the brother bring down his preoccupation and indifference from Crom th their lr nebulous Ironic homo In the far ar n away a earner of or th room room let let t them troth both bring brim to the tire homo tl and to the tho table a nf new In Infusion infusion In- In fusion of masculine thought and amid try t to tomake t make their thI daily lives I es l vital l Interesting an und amid educating to the younger members of or ortho time the family Young parents whose hose children n arc aro ar growing up UtI beside them still tl In th time the dan- dan Imitative stags stage of their development dop develop develop- ment merit should aim that at al having hn the time ma- ma form forum of I dully uremia correct correct- ct good lood service careful and accurate In iii II nil alt ul 1 details 0 tails Thoy should then demand from their TI attendance good manners children prompt low voices yoles and Ie respect to nil all nl those othet's who sit It at tire tho table with ih them thear whether an exchange n thc they timey bo Lie old or 01 young says s 's The rime parents should be 1 time the tho talk cheerfully happily anti and contentedly contentedly con con- Int t to cn- cn t nt lr avoiding n unpleasant subjects until un til some other oIlier time controlling th the spirit of ut t fault rinding and bringing ln each Ich child Into the time con to th the extent of or his hits hisor hisor or IH her I ability Time The Tie parents should ex exhale exhale ex- ex hale Irate warmth and Ia and draw out by sympathy the time minds of or their children auth their Jue guests ts This a atmosphere 01 or congenial anu aiau picas picas- ant talk at nt table cannot grow ow over 11 night ht It I takes year ear to cultivate cult ate It and only a persistent p p. p l Ideal eal In the tire minds mimic of or the parents parents pa pa- rents themselves will wi enable them to light fight through h time the conflicting elements that aro are always alwan at war f for r pO possession of tho time hearth hu and amid help holp th them m toward establishing lishing nt at throb their meals the grace graco and aud courtliness belonging to an au older and amid more mon punctilious age with tho tire The Time home cannot progress 1 wih true hl Inward ard progression l necessary to growth unless s every member of or the tIre family tam fam ily ib onti i-onti Unites a 1 little gift girl of oC personal un unselfishness Un- Un selfishness 1 and puts bl his shoulder to tu tho thu wheel l with a good will wi In his Iris effort efort to tomake tomako make mako o the dal dally daily life Iro orthe beige success success- ful It I Is worth trying for this for for thi this family unit unity I In iii Its IlM tom for It Is u ii l blessing that thal brings train a host hosl of ot minor gifts bUtS |