Show BABS BREEZY BUDGET HOW THE YOUNG SOCIETY WOMAN OF NEW YORK REGARDS MARR1AGEA DiSQUISITION DIS-QUISITION ON POPULARITY I Copyright 191 At thta lime of jcar no maltcl how much you may have said or to holV much uu may have listened In regard 10 gIUn married you cannot aold the conviction thai the average Nexv York bride Is I npt to bo neither young nor beautirul There la no doubt In > our mind that ahe Is perfectly capable or looking ulter the genUeman who slond ici meekly by her side and who Is I counted count-ed of so little worth that he Isnt oven spoken of as best man at his own wed ding In the dajs gone by wo used to eo ec I t b with a bride but an air of being In the pUlh 0 called and eorlng a rather blase air ore counled vry mart The New York girl Is I not very anxious anx-ious to get married She has too good a tlm whll h I Ingle and ho doe nut propos to attaeh herself to on man too early In life or even to be counted among the young matrons before her Cars number 2 This Is pure absolute feminine selfishness There Is I no dislre In her heart to marry for love She long for polllon nnd the big Incom necesary to upport It Consequenlly the man with relined tastes whose In com e Is I small finds It difficult to get a bride from the proper set no matter how Innocent h may eem Poor soul He dreams of a dear little rife to welcome him home to listen to him when he vxanta to talk about his ffalrs or to hear her tell him of her day and then closing his ejea In ecstasy ecsta-sy he thinks It Is I just possible that she will bilng to him In her pretty dimpled arms a little bundle of white that will bo Toms baby and mine That Is I what he believes she will call It But lackadayl He sees this vision going away In the smoke of his cigarette and he gets up shakes himself together and go to dres for tb opern here h will talk to bright women good looking women nnd brilliant women Non of then I a woman who would acrille Ireneh gown n new bonnet or a Blngl plcaur for the love of an honet man You think I nm exaggerating No pickup pick-up a soclet > paper and rend the accounts of the divorces of those who one two three or poselbly as long aa four yean alto promised to 10 and honor cach other Read the description of a fash lonobl wedding If OU want to find out ho married for lov It I usually the girl who has an enormous Income who I no longer ycung nnd who Is qulcl wit led thoUGh not masculine and yetIs yet-Is ppreclatlve of the love of a rran hose companionship she will find a pltasur There Is I one thing I admit bout the Jews that Is their deotlon to their wives No men In theo world ar the-o ui considerate to women as they and no men I < 1e and create 0 much 10 vo In the hearts of their wives as do the men The other da > I was talkIng to a Jewess about happy marriage ond I put to her this question Vre you happy In your marriage And she an Ilered I am so happy that the dOYI re not long enough for me to be glad In I Now this was not a young girl who had heen married tO week a year or fi year butn oman who had grown up sons and still loved the husband other ot-her youth with grealer nrdor than h I did In the first jear of their mairlage I do not Itnoxv where the fault la I but I I lould like to know hoxv many gentile womn eould ay thIs Ther ar plealy of men who do Hong but there ar alo n great many women who nag and worry them Into It Apropoa of the Jews wo do not realize real-ize the position that the highly educated Jw has In Kurope especially In I3ng I land When Lady lIoebcry who a I Hannah Rothschild died the tialn of carriage of the nobility that formed her funeral train exlnded over 10 miles but there was a richer tribute than this Theio were thousands of xvo mn to whom when Itlne came her money had given com fori Ther Were ousands of orphans whom she had pported and thousands of old menand old women for whom when they could no longer work he found a home and jet she slept In a plain wood coffin and In the simple gown ordered by the laws of the chinch In which she waa born To me her life aeema beautiful and I cnn easily understand Ihat though year In and year out the society papers have inounced the betrothal of Rosebery tome to-me other woman he remains faith ul to her who knew how to love as vxell as how to bo good All over the world the Rothschilds are received whether married mar-ried to Jew or gentile Two of the handsomest women In London society are married to wealthy Jews the Sas I soons while the beauty of tho day Is I the Prlncc of Monaco The princess by the way ought to In tere1 u Ince h Is an American She was born In New Orleans her molher aMiss a-Miss Mlltenberger having married young Heine when he camo over at the time of the war to look after the bankIng bank-Ing house In the south The first mar rlag of Allc IIeln wa 0 magnificent on and I orten wonder that h wa wllllng to change that superbly historical historic-al name for any other Her beauty more than her money mad her the bride of the Due de Richelieu By him she had two children the young due who Is I now about 17 years old and a daughter of I ho abolutely look older than her mOlher i Arter blng a widow for over ollbtyeors arter Uten lag with disdain to the proposals of hundreds of men she married the Prince of Monaco Of course he Is I a reigning sovereign and to she ranlis with the kings and queens of Europe But look at her facet I In It there la I not only the dainty coloring of the American girl which comes out best In a miniature and one can Imagine her as having been painted In a miniature when Marie Antoinette could have been her rival and yet In the sensitive mouth the long slender artistic ringers so daintily tipped with aval nails even a photographer photog-rapher could not blot out the stamp of the highborn of the race of Israel Disraeli after posing as a dandy as a msn of vlt suddenly became the man of power and married n widow a gentile gen-tile In nil the histories of married Ufa there Is I perhaps nono so perfect as this where the wife differed In belief from the husband and wn tcn yea older hut was so strong In her love BO perfect per-fect In hte componlonhl > that olher women he ha1 met and other women who adored him and there were many Beemed to him absolutely worthle and uninteresting The story so olten told of Lady Deaconlleld nllowlnK her hand to b cruhed In the carrlag door ratherlhan Interrupt the IIcw of thought In which her husband was plunged before be-fore he was to make a great speech eemed for n long tlm a romnnc but man a wnr of the fact asure m that It was the truth and that Lady IleaconsHeld would have allowed herself her-self to tortured as they tortured men and women ond chUdren during the Spanish Inquisition for the sake of tht man she loved A friend of the great statesman once chatting with him got this description of the pleasures of married life There Is I nothing equal to being mar rled to a woman of wit n woman o In telllgnee a woman whom you love and there Is no happiness equal to bidding her good by and never seeing her again until 1 clock luncheon when over a cold pHcasant and a bottl of cham pane she tells of that which had Interested Inter-ested her during the hours when jou were apart and sympathizes with you If there Is I anything that has lioublcd jou during the day A recent sketch of Dlsriell tells n lit tie anecdote nbout him which Is I net tom to-m and possibly mny be new to you When his wife had grown quite old and had n tancy for clinging ta old fahlon cd gowns bonnets out of stjle and cloaks that lacked chic a party of men at one oftho fashionable clubs who had just seen her pass In her carriage were laughing about her and gujlns her They did not realize that In on corner of the room well hidden by a noxvEpaper sat the great man After bearing their folly as long as he could ho rD nnd putting hI hand un Ih houlder ot the yonngest une of the group ald aentlemen If you are unable un-able to understand anything else can jou not comprehend whut gratitude Incan At the time of his marriage to Mrs Wjndham the rising statesman was deeply In debt and the xxoman who loved him being very rich paid nil the debts and told him that she had got more than the worth of her money when he thanked her with a kiss These are the things that make life beautiful You may laugh at them and call them sentimental but oh my friend there la I much that Is I good In sentiment I shall never believe that It Is I weak since It brings help to anbody since It brings happiness to anybody It Is I stronger than any othe emotion Did you eOr com ncros a paragraph para-graph that made you laugh and laugh until you thought you could neer top laughing That has been my fate What I read was this Tho only department of a paper which I think should bo closed ta a lady writer Is I the medical unless of course she Is a medical man but I actually know of a jo mg woman who had failed as an art critic being set to anwer the medical InQulrle of cor repondent on n country paper I forget for-get to 0 decimal vhat the exact nor tallty of the dltrlct wa at lat but the proprietor aid If she had remained much longer on > the paper there would have been no mbscrlbers left Oi of her replle wa this DaisyThank 0 murh for your kind letter though your rltlng might be clearer Yes the ml i take was mine It should have been a quarter of a grain of trychnln Inlend of a quarter of n pound for your father fa-ther complaint We are unlucky I Better Bet-ter luck next time but I was so very busy I assure you there Is I no bettc hop for mourning than Jny That young woman might have been popular In some districts especially where bores Were numerou That starts the question What Is pop ularlty I remember not long ago aome body said that a certain man xxas ure to succeed In something because he wa 80 > popular Then T wondered what ccn stltuted a populs an and closo study las taught me t ucb A popular man 4 ne who Is I alway ready to take a drink and never gets drunk A popular man I on who drr well and look well but I not orrenslve ly fashionable A popular man Is on who I on good term with the barkeeper who Inquire after the health of the walter wife who loves her lord who buys an appl from the woman on the corncr Jlnd who pays her 5 cents when the price Is I 1 cent centA A popular man I one who has I1n ugly wife and who knowing the good look of joura sojs Jack what a handome woman your wife IiI The popular man I the on ho will IIslen to her tal of woe from a woman whelher h I 20 and handsome or 4 and pasce and then pal her on the shoulder and advlsa her to be a good girl girlA A populAr man I the concentrated essence of oympalhy He has a smile for everybody joy and a pressure of the hand hlch mean much tor v erybodys sorrow t Peel It Well you and I dont car whether he feels It or not It la I the manners Ihat mRk the man nnd esp dally the popular man and ho Is I Intensely In-tensely appreciated by that suporsensl tlv woman who when OU wrll n lei ter to her gives you no trouble about first names last names or middle nome or nny olher name but advle you just to direct your little missive to |