Show RECLUSE USE REALIZES 1 f ff SOMETHING NEEDED TO CHANGE ORDER I Troubled in Regard to Acquainting of Other Friend Kittens Tongue Tongue- Tied Formula V I By BETTY BLAIR V V Psychology and psychIatry have their uses but are most tt r V valuable as tools In u the c hands of experts who know best how I V to apply them A knowledge ot of ones self Is ot of course to be beV V desired but never when it Interferes with the practical adaptatIon adap- adap tatIon or of the ordinary riles o of living and working Dear Miss Blair I have lived d by myself and for myself for tor such long time I have become peculiar At least I know people say I am I It I I know v that tha a perR per per- 1 a fl son who thinks of off I I R 14 herself herselt and her f UI I-UI A i troubles all day V I long Jong for or many manyI I- I I days can el devel I V jj op more trouble II AI II physically ph il and n d I mentally and I II It t- t I I suppose UPP that I II III is what has H happened p to o me My moth mother r died when I was a very young gIrl and I took charge o ot the house house- V hold bold and became housekeeper V for m my father arid and brother My brother married and md moved V away and my father ather and I were left to ourselves for lor a number of years My father never neve seemed to realize I had grown into womanhood womanhood wo- wo manhood or had 3 a mind or or intelligence in- in or of my own When he died I was 32 years old and I Ir r must tell you rou that most 15 t V old girls w more about pea peo- pie pIc and the outside world than I V did V VV V When I had to go out to do dothe the marketing and pay the taxes V V and meet people in a business 1 V way things my father had aI 31 j 1 ways was I done was like a little V child learnIng about people and 7 V things I I noticed that people looked at rue me in a queer way and k I f so I crept more into myself and andI I didn't go out any more than I V had to I have been studying a V lot about physiology and psychiatry pay pay- and the more I read the I I more I see my myself el and think about my own case casc V V V But I cant can't see that know know- V ing aU all about myself Is doing V me any good because it only V V makes me think more and more V V about myself What do you ad- ad lS k V V vise me to do Many thanks ALONE AND QUEER 1 V Too much knowledge about oneself one one- f self eU with the inability to adapt that I knowledge In a practical way thinly doesn't do one any good any more than it would be good for tor a aV V great surgeon to know that he had a malignant cancer to V watch its growth and development to endure the severity of the pain it induced V and to refuse to do anything about V having the growth What you need to do more than anything else now is to forget all V. V these theories about yourself forget torget you ever heard ot of the words psychology V ogy or psychiatry and take what I Ishall Ishan shan shall call the gregarious cure That V is s to learn to mIngle with people and to like it More than just to learn to mingle with people learn to work with them To work so hard that body and brain be glad or of the respite of your home and bed when night comes All the psychology and psychiatry you have learned that will prove useful use use- useful V ful to You will vill come to your our aid aidIn aidin in time ef at need without your having to think anything bout about it When Mrs Franklin D. D Roosevelt Roosevel t told sen sen- for members ot of New Yorks York's private the other night to practice cooperation cooperation co- co operation and helpfulness and make their lives richer through this aid rendered to others she was giving advice far more important than the back vard burrowing into your own own has done or will ever do V We cannot live our lives alone When wo do that pilgrimage into our V lives that attempt to find tind out why we do this thing why we dont don't do that begins But when we remember ber that our link is hi fn the universal V chain and look forward orward not backward backward back back- ward our own ills are forgotten in helping to cure the worlds world's ills The world is sick of a universal disease I called poverty unemployment deg V Little children are having the forward picture ot of their lIves blasted through improper V ment and lack or of means to change V things thing What can you do about joinIng join join- in Ing the great army of women who have set out in the highroad to help correct these ilLs When you nave to forgotten gotten yourself V In this work none will any longer 1 V think you OU peculiar You will know to be well V QUESTION V Dear Miss Blair A mn ago a very nice boy asked me to go steady I have havet t V gone out with him off and on L all winter and spring and I like P him very much I came from another an- an VV V other state last tall fall with my parI par par- I V V cats to make my home and go to toto toto to school I had been going with a boy back home and I sill i write to that boy regularly V V I have not told this boy with V whom whom I am now going about the i V V bo boy back home Do you think he heI I L V would object to my mi writing to p. p tV I him Our letters rs are merely nIce t s friendly frIend lette letters This boy and I Ibave bave have known each other all our l lives and have gone Jone together V but our feeling for tor each other is ismore more a brother and sister affair cc than one or of love I am 16 years J. J old Please give rae me your our best V advice Thank you BETSY V I see no particular rea reason on for tor keep keep- V ing this matter matter- ot of your friendship c for a pal a secret rom the I steady nor yet for telling him Itt It i Is understOOd that people have t jV friends friend Yet i if an occa ion arises for tor I bringing up the subject of your friends back home and you want to tell your boy friend about this par pari k c V one and the correspondence I f f. V with him by all 11 means do so V j V Your conscience seems seem to be a lit lit- V Ue troubled about j it and perhaps the i V Vj P V j V V V Letters questions and requests reo re quests for fer advice should be addressed ad dressed to MISS BET BETTY BETTYV T Y I V BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN SALT L LA A K E. E Write legibly upon only one side of the paper It is necessary that you OU append ap pend the right name and address ad ad- dress but these will be held la Ia strict confidence and will nl ni t appear In print Questions in in- advertising information annot be answered quickest wa way to ease an overly con I consCience is to unburden it As to whether your bo boy friend will like it or well not that is a Question for him to answer But if he has had the proper training In generosity and the true meaning of friendship and tolerance and j it he has with it all a naturally unselfish heart he will not in the least mind your having a friend like the boy back home nor that you ou write to him Dear Miss Blair I am a boy 17 years cars old and I Iguess guess Im I'm one of the bashful kind There is a girl I like but butI I dont don't know how to find tind out whether she he likes me nc or not Sometimes when I am looking at ather ather her in class she looks at me and smiles and once or twice when r I have been walkIng slowly she has d caught up with me and talked The worst ot of it Is I am tongue tongue- tied when she speaks to me mc My tongue seems to get a kink or a knot in it that wont won't come out For a tact fact I get my words all jumbled up and cant can't even pronounce pronounce pro pro- straight What is your special cure for this Thanks V BERRY My specialty for tor I tongues Berry is daily practice with the thc said tongue under the most i id d difficult ot of circumstances The first I step in the fulfillment ot of the formula is that you do not lag behind with your feet teet but that you be the one oneto oneto to catch up with the young lady in question The next step Is to train your our I tongue to say smoothly My but youre you're in a hurr hurry What's th rush Make her think you are having havin a a terrible time to keep up with her That she always seems to be going someplace or doing something important im- im It is vcr very flattering to a girl to be made to think she isn't an easy victim and that a boy is havIng havInga a lot ot of competition with other ther pea peo pie pIc or events to find tind his way to her side Take a breath after arter your first ques- ques lion tion long enough for her to answer and maybe add something for you to answer And if you ou haven't thought up the next thing to say you can always always al- al ways fall faU back on the weather or oron oron on what a l peach ot of a teacher you have or what shows she likes best And that latter question Inevitably leads to the one May I take YOU to see 1 naming the current talkie she has mentioned as her fa fa- After about three weeks weeks' of this kind ot of daily practice the ton tongue uc will itself without further thought on your part KiTTENS FOR GIFTS At 1 1228 8 Harvard avenue lIy- lIy two kittens are to tobe tobe be had bad for pets Kiddies put your foar call In earl early J |