Show GIRL CANT CAN'T DECIDE BETWEEN TWO WITH DIFFERENT TRAITS Girl 41 Thinks High School Boys and Girls Should G Go Steady Complimentary Closing fg f t g jr Letter Dog for foe Gift k By BETTY BLAIR The person whose anger flares up quickly but as quickly subsides Is not so difficult a per person on with whom to get along as Is the person who is unable to forgive or forget The latter is bad medicine for himself and everybody else The mountain feuds based on the same char characteristic were carried on long after everybody had fo forgotten otten t Yh what t they were about They were bad for everybody Dear Miss Miss' Blair There arc two boys whom I like no so much that I cant can't tell which of ot them I like the best Both of ot them tell me they III lla I love me mc arid and each I a fl wants me to stop top AI going with the theother theother U ut I-ut other and settle I I down to 10 go steady II with him But I cant can't make up my II mind w which one oneto N. N to take There is a a difference dif diC- dif dif- I ference In their I r. r eps that ha h has me rue worried A flares up and gets angry very quickly over little things I do Especially if I accept more dates from B than I do from him Or i if we are at a party where B Bis Bis Bis is also present and I pay much attention to B it als also makes him angry But this anger is soon forgotten forgotten forgotten for for- gotten when I tell teU him I like him himas as much as I do B and that I Idid Idid Idid did not intend to hurt him He also is tempered quick over o other things but soon gets over it and andIs andLa nd Is La very forgiving But B is different He doesn't let jet angry quickly but when he does his temper is very violent It is simply terrible to have him get angry as he says the most awful things and he never seems to to forget or forgive I have to do doall doall doall all the making up But h he has hasco as co 10 0 many other fine qualities I always come to the point of makIng making mak mak- ing up as he has a way of mak- mak me Inc think I am the one really to blame for all our troubles But really and truly I am afraid of his temper that is slow to action From what little I have told you of these two b boys ys can you advise me rue which would be the best for forme forme me rue to choose I hope you can help me as the time has come now when I must choose one of them and I dont don't want to make a mistake MILD Your our friend who is easy to anger and Ind quick to forgive we might compare compare com corn I pare rare to a geyser that erupts at frequent fre ire quent intervals the regularity oi of which you may expect and arid so o escape any harm hann But the boy who is slow now to anger is 15 Wee like a volcano the eruptions eruptions crup of which come unexpectedly and are followed by devastation thatis that thai is not soon repaired It is very hard for the person who has to live und under r the shadow of a volcano for the mind is never free from fear of ruthless and unforgettable table invasion The hot lava that pours down the sides of the volcano can do en enough ugh damage that even though it erupts only once or twice in a lifetime it has covered the fertile fer tile valleys with un cultivatable hard hard- ness Anger that is violent unjust and accompanied by scaring words can do as much damage to the sens sensitive live tive person as can the volcano to the Vicinity in which its eruptions occur You have told me nothing about the good qualities of these boys but i it If their good qualities are re about equal and I had to make the choice and I cared for them in the same way I should hould prefer th the one who is easily angered but whose mind has reached the adult stage of being able to forgive forgive for for- give Ive and forget READER DIS DISAGREES GREES D Dear ar Miss Blair May I come to Hearts Heart's Haven for the first time to disagree with you In answer to Relays letter letter letter let let- ter In which he said he was was vas going going go go- ing with a girl and hadn't decided decided decided de de- de- de to ask her to go steady as he felt disappointed in her after he had spent an ari evening with her ou advise him to give the girl a a choice of s 's seeing eing you regularly for a while and not ot accepting dates with other boys or of going on nas as they have been doing I dont don't think any girl would want a boy to offer her a choice of going steady or not going steady teady She would want the boy to like her well enough to ask uk her to go steady I think it Is a lot better for high school boys and d girl to go steady Their minds arent aren't always on on- making n new w captures they know the certain boy friend whom they like the best will ask them for important dates and any others he can alford atford afford af at- ford or has the Uie time for and their minds are more settled for them to get et their lessons If It there is one one boy boy or like the best why should they ac accept dates from other boys or irb whose company they dont don't enjoy enjoy S so 59 I much Even though one Letters questions and requests re quests for advice should be ad ad- to MISS BET BETTY T Y BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN T TELEGRAM LEGRAM SALT L LA LAKE A K E. E Write legibly upon only one side of ot the paper It is necessary that you append ap append ap pend the right name and address address ad ad- dress but these will be held la in strict confidence and will nut not appear in print Questions Involving in advertising Information cannot Iannot be answered of at them is hurt if they break up he or she will get over it and everybody has to get used to being being being be be- ing hurt and knowing how to take it il itI ilI I hope you will not be mad at atme atme me for disagreeing with you Miss Blair but I just had to write rite my ray rayth th thoughts about this and I know there are many who will agree with me Thank you for the thes s space ace L G. G Mad at you Indeed I am nm not nol It ItIs Itis Is just this sort of ot frank discussion of problems that we like to encourage How ow should I know what goes on on onn in n the minds of my readers unless they icy tell me How should I know knowle the le correct answers to high school schoolboys schoolboys' boys boys' and girls' girls problems unless S I get their point of ot view As the child is father to the man so what you ou young people eople really thi think k is the answer to the ic problem Especially is this apt to be true if the majority is of one mind That Thatis is s just what Is puzzling me now Do high school boys and girls in the majority feel emotionally more stable stale sta sta- sta ble le do they give more more attention to lessons get better grades engage in more high school activities display better letter leadership qualities qualities' when there is one particular friend whom they icy choose to sec see and with whom they icy go places Or does the answer an an- iver to this question depend entirely on n the individual in question and the amount mount of emotional stability he or oric she ic displays on every occasion COMPLIMENTARY COl CLOSE Dear Miss Blair I have to write a letter to a woman whom I know only slight slight- ly and yet for whom I have a friendly feeling eeli g. g It isn't ex exactly a business letter and I am at a loss how to close it Yours truly sounds so cold and formal yet I cant can't think of ot another ending that doesn't sound too familiar Can you help me MRS bIRS J. J To close the letters written to peole people peo peo- plc le with whom we are slightly acquainted acquainted ac ac- if it they are arc not strictly busness bus busI bus bus- ness ess letters you may mOlY write Very sincerely yours Yours very sin sin- cercI Most sincerely yours BELGIAN POLICE DOG Call fly Hy for information concerning a Belgian police dor dog dorto dorto to be given riven away This dog doC Is about 2 years ears old and Is a a. desirable desirable desirable desir desir- able pet |