Show t I I I f fI o I i H BETTY 6 61 Letter and questions for the should be addressed to Miss MIlS I Betty BI Blair lIr Hearts Heart's Haven Sit Salt Lake Telegram Write only on one side 1 a of the paper It Is to append your our name and address but these I are held In confidence and win will not be published Lost and found notices cannot be be published In the column A HEART PROBLEM Dear Betty Just six months ago I met a man whom I dearly love He cared for form m too and proved it t b by asking me me- meto to be his wire wife I was supremely hippy happy for I worshipped him We were to have been married in a afew afew few months and I have been busy with my trousseau Then came the blow that almost killed me I dont don't know what caused it but he quit coming to see me me and it seems seems his love for me has died I have tried to forget him but it is impossible I-fe I is the only man I have really loved I feel so blue I l cant can't hold holdback back the tears they just have to come It takes sO much effort eUort to try to be happy Another man whom I know says he loves me me I have told him that I love another but he would marry me if I would give the other man up P. P But Miss MilS Blair Id I'd never never love him though I respect him Do you think the man I love will come comeback comeback back to me Please tell me what to todo do f for r everything is s in a whirl and andI I d dont don't nt know what decision to make Please help me as you have helped others BROKENHEARTED CHERRIE Do yoU mean to say CherrIe that your fIance lance stopped coming to see you without one worL o oJ explanation ex- ex without a hint as to the condition ot of his feelings for you And In that you OU haven't the slIghtest idea as to the tho reason for for- forthe Cort the a sudden and unannounced break r I Every cause produces an effect In nd it Is rarely that one happenS happen'S Isy hance to Improve 1 n the effect knowing something about tJ 1 cause and making alterations I there wIth the result that some I ot other er effect will follow It Is len len- for me to guess at Im I the cause ot of the trouble lIe lLe ma may have been insincere from the or I l met ln ma may have happened to kill his lovd In either or of events events' do not hope for his r tur in tIe the event that there has been I which might be cleared awa away It Is your our Ige c Se to ak him to come to see o teat you iou might talk matters ovee o er nd c m to a better belter hi 1 t Ya aver very a-very cowardly and unI un- un I tiling thing for him to do it if open provocation pro j n your f pIe stopped coming i td se i. i y OU wIthout R. R word oJ of ex- ex 1 n JIt lon after having ng asked you OU to lo mi T him R herrIe Ir It Is in his nature nature na- na I ture to tb do such a thing before marifa mar mar- ifa t you ou can be very thankful e you feel heal en enat at present that you are not marry marry- rn ng him Mm You may love ovo him now no but real lasting love lo has to be built and surel surely you 1 0 could not nol continue to hold respect for a aman aman man man who took his responsibilities and considered his honor so lightly It IL you OU respect this other man who ho has lIas asked ased you to marry him I advise that you remain frIends with him true friends never come amiss and so long as he understands your our attitude about marrIage with him you ou wilt not be leading leading- him on fOr any purpose except that of Time heals all wounds and it you wilt by force and common corn com mon senSa make yourself a adopt opt new nt In whIch this and other may maO join you will find time the process or of forget forget- If IC n the h other hand han pou sit 11 0 P about nursing your trou- trou theO will Increase In lion Uon to the amount of attention you OU bestow besto upon them Do not weep yourself nor feel sorry sorrO for yourself Say I wilt will not become a or of circumstances but wilt sway cIrcumstances to roy my and liking Examine the lives JIves or who have done great things ind won the worlds world's incas incas- lire ure o of h happiness You will find that man many of oC these have suffered great glN disappointments but Instead d ot of allowing allowing al- al lowing grief to undermine their strongholds they theO used It as as' a ste- ste stepping step step- ping stone to greater things And you OU lan can do as much It Isn't as It if love Jove would never never come Into your life It can it very likely will So Chertie Cher lI tie be cheerful once more I Ing the circumstances bettEr than I I. I you OU must decide or yourself whether er or not to ask ak for a written or verbal erbal understanding But whether oti do whether so or you ou decide Nide to begin today to build your our bridge ot of forgetfulness strong enough to car car- 17 ou across in safety to happiness happiness happi- happi ness once more mort we are wishing you luck I ISCHO SCHO SCHOOL L PROGRAMS Dear Miss Blair Could you advise me what kind kindo o of a program would be suitable to entertain a high school audience We have had songs lectures readings readings read read- ings arid and short plays Would you please suggest something clever and different Wishing you success In Inthis inthis this line DUMB DORA I may suggest something different differ differ- ent D D D. but the cleverness must be all ot of your own making or that or of the committees committees- appointed to work out the Mea idea one tion is that you have an Authors Authors' Day Characterize the various authors authors au- au thors whom you ou have studied In literature during the year In costumes cos- cos turnes and md mannerisms Let these authors meet together ore on the platform plat pat form or of your r school and converse together In short snappy dialogue befitting their characters and let each give a quotation from his orIginal verse or prose selections ThEse authors ma may In reality have I lived IT in ages far apart but to students students stu- stu dents interested In them they live here and now Many Iani songs have bave been written by famous l lets ets and hese might be sung wIth approprIate appropriate introductions by some or of orthe the associate authors I To vary the a author s day you OU might have a his history tor day and cna enact t tover over again some or of the stirring Ing events making history days dars The science classes and In fact each class in the high school could be 00 represented ln In botany music mu- mu sic art alt domestic economy and so soi i n. n to cover subject taught As a rule each high school has a rs r's Jay This Is Ia to character character- lao Ize each teacher in caricature showing his or her mannErisms boo ho bies faults faults' and high p points ints of Interest In the right spirit such a takeoff er crates ates' ates a great deal of fun for fOl both teachers and students The thing to In this sort or of js s that real humor consists in laughing WITH and not AT them We hope some o of the suggestions prove feasible S. S AMERICAN EMPLOYMENT i. i Ko MR l P. P and T. T P. P CITY kIndly take note or South AmerIcan Amen AmerI- can employment United States chamber or of commerce commence Buenos Duenos A Aires ires Argentina South America the Pan Pan-A Pan ass elation dation Washington D. D C C. Amen Amerl can Smelting and Refining Corn com pany employment department Broadway New Cerro de dc dePasco Pasco company 15 Broadway Broad Broad- way war New Xe York C C. E. E Morgan personnel department Andes Copper Copper Cop Cop- per company 2 25 Broadway New York Make inquiry regarding railroad work mining jobs or any other other- wor work In which you ou ma may b be Interested that lake taie you OU to I South America PERMANENT WAVE CARE Dear Miss Blair Will you please give me me instructions instructions for or the care of the hair after one has had a permanent wave Thanking you in advance for this information F. F The way to keep t the e hair as soft silky and beautiful as when the hairdresser put her finishing touches upon It Is to massage the scalp dalI daily brusH the hair lse an oily tonic if there Is any t tendency toward dryness use a suitable pomade pomade po- po made or scalp food to make the hair glossy and roaster master tile the simple art oJ of waving finger l There here is nothing nothing- complicated about Iii the hall hair in this manner It will wih fall Into waves that may be set with the aid or of the combs and your fin fin- gers After the shampoo the ha hair r may be made more lustrous and pliable for if fC a little sweet scented brilliantine Is u used ed Apply a few tew drops to the palms of the hands and stroke the hair with the hands ve very o little Is needed then take a clean fairly stiff brush and distribute the oil evenly by systematic brushing this vill give a pretty sheen anu anI keep the hair glossy and subtly fragrant You are Welcome FRENCH PRONUNCIATIONS Dear Miss Blair Will you please tell teti me the pronunciation pro pro- of the names of the musketeers mus mus- in the novel and as played in The Iron Mask MRS C. C Happy to do so so Mrs Irso C. C if ie I can make It clear on D' D 1 Is With the accent after the syllable DAr DAr the A A in this ta case is like that in are arc the following following fol- fol lowing syllable js is as ta tag would be ire In the tho word that y-that name except that the a Is sll slighted morE and the non Is given the n nasal a ending almost as non nong be except that one learns earns to te say It as a would Athos Is pronounced pronounced pro pro- with the accent on the I first syllable Ath and wIth that s syllable syl- syl l lable the same as In athlete Porthos with the accent after the first syllable Porth and with the 0 In the last ast as In o of Arimas the accent after aCter the first syllable Ar and that pronounced as all air would be th the i as In it and mas a as in mus I am hopIng hoping hop hop- Ing you wilt be able to get the pronuncIation pro pro- from this writt n tie tie- Like to come In and I Ishall Ishall shall tr try to say Imy them for you you TERRIERS FOR GIFTS Dear Miss Bl Blair ir Could you help find a home for two clever fox terrier dogs One is a puppy the other oIlier is the mother Will gladly give them to anyone who has a home for one or both The address is 2973 South Second West Magna Utah RESPY We are hopeful that the dogs dobs will willI I fall Into kind hands and comfy I homer |