Show t l Fr Marriage ew Persons Change Habits p Just Because They Marry 1 oel ne G. G and Esther B. B Kling fickleness before mar- mar hoes usually continue after- after i yes Take the ca case e of Mr l s s. A. A for example This couple r-couple had been married v W months and alread already Mrs Irs obviously obvious I unhappy trouble trouble was that her hus- hus as always making passes r women Whenever er they a party Mrs A A. com- com her husband would carry Active fictive flirtation with as ate at- at rg e a woman as he could find i didn't end with words or oro o dp op p it all off Mrs Airs A. A dis- dis j that her husband had been out ut with several era 1 of these She was furious What e do Hold fold to Pattern we asked this young wife r her husband had shown it t interest in other women their engagement we that even during this pe- pe had dated other girls and ted outrageously in the ie ce ce of his fiance tOld Mrs A. A that th the man I who is fickle after he is engaged will probably remain so 80 after he heis heis heis is married To wed such an emotionally emotionally emotionally emo emo- immature person is al always always always al- al ways risky But now that she was already married we suggested that she I try to make the best of the situation situation situation situa situa- tion especially since she still loved her husband We Ve suggested also that if he persisted in his behavior beha and she continued to find the situation intolerable a trial separation might frighten him into fidelity Q Can Can faithfulness in a mate be predicted A. A Yes A.-Yes Yes to some extent at least Can Foretell Future Of Ot course there is no sure-fire sure way of telling in advance whether your prospective mate will be faithful after marriage but studies indicate that unfaithfulness is usually associated with certain I personality traits The man who is emotionally immature immature im im- mature who is forever ore er chasing wisps will is hardly a good risk Nor is the Lothario who views every ery woman as a challenge to his manhood Similarly the themar mar mat who craves cs intimacies with women other than the one to whom he is engaged is likely to feel the same after marriage Another type usually found to be unfaithful is the man who has a a. record of broken engagements eng In judging whether a prospective prospective prospective tive mate is likely to be faithful after the ceremony you can do no better than to judge his record during both the courtship and engagement en- en engagement engagement en en- periods If he doesn't measure up Jp you had better watch out Released by bj the Register and Tribune Syndicate 1949 |