Show our our MarrIage k 1 jJ 1 pleasant Surroundings Seen As Aid to Physical Attraction Sam Samuel uel G. G and Esther B. B Klin Kling i How A How Bow can physical remain strong between a n a band and wife fe the mot most devoted de man manA manare A affected wife dire are not always for each other Further Further- de rf fluctuate ire re their desire may n most intense eagerness m III the tle or even en aversion a disinterest d is natural in marriage But Ii aa t tOO oo often husband physical K and wife attraction nr dwino dwin- dwin a tween een eena such an extent as to make t to o i y relations impossible ie r re e th this is so the union is seri- seri j endangered and not infrequently Infrequently ends in divorce f tj The desire of or one person for another is dependent upon a number number number num num- ber of factors some tending to increase it others it others to decrease it ft When the senses are stimulated I desire is heightened Thus fragrant fragrant fra fra- grant perfumes pretty colors delicious delicious de de- I de licious food comfort warmth beautiful surroundings m music u s i f c I dancing and caresses all help create create create cre cre- ate and stimulate desire I A wife who keeps herself look look- looking j ing ins attractive and caters to her 1 husbands husband's needs who provides a a I comfortable and pleasant home I and who is friendly and helpful earns her husbands husband's gratitude and I quickens his physical interest By the same token a husband who is well groomed who is kind kindI I and considerate remembers birthdays birthdays birthdays birth birth- days and anniversaries and who I provides not only necessities but little niceties as well well usually usually finds his mate responsive Q Q What factors are paramount in killing desires A. A A. Bitter Bitter quarreling cruelty nagging selfishness ugly or untidy untidy untidy un un- tidy surroundings surliness tasteless tasteless tasteless taste taste- less food and dishonesty may re repress repress repress re- re press or even cven kill any physical feeling the spouses have for each other In short pleasant and attractive attractive attractive at at- things increase desire while unpleasant and unattractive conditions decrease it Desire is also influenced by how much pleasure the mates have obtained ob ob- tamed from their past experience together When these have been mutually satisfying physical feeling feeing feeling feel feel- ing ng between the two becomes stronger But where satisfactory adjustments have ha not been made disillusionment often results and with ith it loss of desire A knowledge of the art of love will prove helpful in n establishing successful relations and in keeping desire alive The wife who complains complain that her husband doesn't love her any more and the husband who feels cheated because his wife is cold will do dowell dowell dowell well to give all this their careful consideration tion Released by the Register and Tribune Syndicate 1948 e |