Show VITAL PROBLEM CAUSES RIFT BETWEEN HUSBAND WIFE Hearts Haven T By BETTY BLAIR What That compromise can be when made made yiE views S of husband and v wife fe fre are at variance on a fundamental problem that involves not only their n own but that of others jn Dear ear Miss Blair II 0 My wife and I are not agreed on I the the he number of children we should have We now have but one child of five My wife says one child is enough I insist on two more but she says it is better to rear one onell ll well well than to make a poor attempt tat at at rearing three We are really 1 1 i becoming estranged to other through our failure to reach an agreement agreement on this vital problem We married late in life and the f problem will be solved for us if we cant can't come to an agreement This preamble to a letter recently i received has in it elements that touch the lives and experiences of 1 many others Could the situation have been ben f I saved had the couple discussed the thet t problem of childr children rr before mart mar- mar t Is such a discussion advisable advisable advisable ad- ad for any engaged couple J On what should such a discussion j be based Physical fitness Mental Mental Men- Men l tal fitness Income Natural love loveI J I of children Dislike for children J S Memory of ones one's own happy or uni unhappy unhappy un- un i happy childhood because of quarrelIng quarreling quarrel- quarrel Ing Irig parents poverty p verty having every i whim gratified and ds d's sd leaving nothing nothing noth- noth S ing on which to whet initiative Is there such a thing athing as an unnatural unnatural unnatural un- un natural mother an unnatural t father n In the current problem is the welt weli wel- wel t i fare are of the one child jeopardized because bel because be- be cause of the estrangement of the thet l t parents as much or more than it J would be if there were other broth- broth t. t jers s or sisters jn in the f family mily Have you a plan to reunite this I co couple in happiness and security e rity Readers I r put the problem to you Your own experiences will help im im- im- im S WEDDING CAIE CAKE LORE Dear Miss Blair S Please tell m me the origin of the the wedding wedding- cake and why you you a are e. e supposed to sleep on it Thank you Ana c cIn rtIn rt In olden days the bride and groom ate a cake together made of flour water and salt This symbolized plenty It was the brides bride's place to cut the cake and to offer a ato piece to her husband You sleep on a piece of the wedding wedding wedding wed wed- ding cake all wrapped up in iIi paper in order to dream of your future d or wife Or maybe you do doas doas as 55 one smart girl did When given givena a piece of the wedding cake to tuck under her pillow and sleep on for a fleeting ting glimpse of her future be beloved beloved beloved loved she said said Ah nuts Im I'm hun gry Ill I'll eat the cake and sleep on my stomach KITTENS FOR GIFT for good homes are cute kittens Are there any right kind of boys and girls who can promise this If so you may have one each by calling at Tiffany court on Fifth North between First and Second West and at Hazel street between Fourth and Fifth South and Fifth and Sixth East NATIONAL STATE FLOWER FLOWER Dear Miss Blair Will you please tell me the There are fo four r at e each place names of our our state te and national flowers Thank you Cy Cy 1 w Our state flower is the sego lily By popular choice though not by byl l legislation so far as asI I c can n learn the golden rod is known as the national flower flowe t CHARM QUOTATIONS NS Dear Miss Blair I r have be been n trying to find a suitable quotation on charm but I dont don't seem to be able to find one that I care for I would appreciate appreciate date it very mu much h if you would give me me some quotations relating to charm and s some me of its ties Thank you M S i Jane Cowl one of our greatest actresses says this of charm Tact is the greatest single quality o of charm It is mental grace and unfailing un failing in its effect on others No Nd profession is worth forfeiting ones one womanly charm for Be kind and make sunshine for others Be yourself your your- I self Your mast mastery ry your exe exercise ise o othe of the art of gr gracious cious living is your greatest greatest- ct It brings distin distinction Uon int into your your home and your your surroundings It is inherent in your hospitality in your your disposition and your choice of furniture and things It dominates your daily tasks It is enjoyed by everyone you meet It permeates your every gesture your every thought It draws people to you for you have a warmth and ease that are irresistible to others Margaret Devereux author of Your Life as a Woman and How to Make the Best o of It is responsible ble for the second quotation I 1 hope hoper I r have given you something you can use S |