Show I Hearts Heart's Haven Engaged Pairs Should Read Questionnaire By Betty Blair There are many problems for engaged engaged engaged en en- couples to face in the new and exclusive relationship they bear each other The manner in which these problems are solved determines determines deter deter- mines to a large degree the ability to care for marital problems Dear Miss Blair I remember a year ago you published a list of questions en engaged engaged engaged en- en couples should ask each other I cut this out but now that my own daughter has be become become become be- be come engaged and I want it for her I cant can't find it I wonder if you by any chance have a copy of this list and would reprint it Thank you Mother ae My files disclose Question Engaged Engaged En- En Couples Must Most Face which I gladly reprint for you How long sh should uld the engagement engagement engagement engage engage- ment last and what is the most favorable age for marriage What is the relation of the proposed marriage marriage marriage mar mar- to home and children and to the vocation both of ot the man and the woman Shall Shall the girl work if she desires a profession or career What is to be the standard standard standrd stand stand- ard rd of living and what the solution of economic problems the of family budget Right Bight Attitudes Questions of adequate sex information information information in in- in- in formation and right attitudes be before before before be- be bei i fore entering marriage Advisability Advisability I of preliminary physical ex ex- Question of children and voluntary parenthood Engaged couples should discuss the danger of being too narrowly and exclusively absorbed in each other to the selfish exclusion of the whole world of reality They must avoid an unhealthy hectic sentimental introverted absorption in each other ther and learn lear from front the first to Jive live a more generous life lite of sharing interests Place Limitations They must decide as to the most wh wholesome expression of affection and the measure of their physical intimacies Limitations should be placed on physical intimacies so so they do not lose rational control and so cause regrets I They must learn to control the great enemy of love jealousy Jealousy is founded in a false and exclusive sense of possession of the loved one and not in love itself Jealousy poisons the very springs of life For marriage to be successful successful suc sue it must be founded in perfect trust but jealousy is the utter denial of this Exchange Wedding Gifts Dear Miss Blair For wedding gifts I received more silver salt and pepper shakers than I will be able ble to use usein usein usein in a lifetime Is it a breach of etiquette for me to take these back and ask to exchange them for something else I need Thank you New Bride It is considered the correct thing to do to exchange a surplus of one particular gift for something you need First call the friends who gave you the salt and peppers tell them you received so many many you will never be able to use them all and that you would like to exchange them for other things you need It would be a nice thing for you to have a list of the other things you need and name the article for which you are to exchange the salt and pepper set given by your friend and thank her for it at the same time Train Fare Dear Miss Blair My fiance and his mother have written me to visit them in an adjoining state I have accepted I Ithe the invitation Am I supposed to pay my own train fare fae or shall shallI 3 I expect him to send me the ticket Thanks for help E L L. to No You will be expected to pay your own train fare unless your fiance accompanies you on the trip NAIL NAll BITING Dear Miss Blair I have tried everything I can think of to cure my year old daughter of biting her nails She keeps them eaten off right into the flesh Have you any Suggestions suggestions suggestions Sug sug- for me w DES DESPERATE RATE Have you tried using a bright nail polish on the childs child's nails naUs and b building building build build- ild- ild ing up her pride to help keep them looking lovely Do this increase your daughters daughter's self-confidence self in knowing how to to do things and be I somebody and I feel sure the self- self esteem you build up in her will cure her of her habit Let her help you serve refreshments refresh refresh- ments to your f friends lends and make her feel without a wrong kind of vanity vanity vanity van van- ity that clean ni nice e looking hands I really make the refreshments refreshments' taste better Play tea hour with her and let her serve you often with re re- re It will not only teach her to do things properly but will wil lessen the self self- self conscious pride she will at first have in per her pr pretty tty hands and nd she she will s soon on acc accept pt well wel gro groomed med hands and nails nalls' as a matter matter matter mat mat- ter of course GOOD TOTE TIME CLUB To correct a misunderstanding about your time of meeting girl girls of the Good Time club You will wil meet Thursday at 8 p. p m. m on the corner of Fourth avenue and I B street from which place you wilbe will wil willbe willbe be conducted to the near near-by home of the hostess for the evening Dont Don't forget the hour or the day |