Show S SIGN J JEALOUSY r OF INFERIORITY i 1 IN POSSESSOR y i- i i 4 I 1 t r S T- T r j By BETTY BETIT BLAIR I Jealousy has been fostered in human beings by convention by Civilization a and d our loved best traditions which for so long have insisted that woman is dependent on and subservient to man For Forat that at reason this primitive emotion motion has undergone little change from I its Us earliest beginnings Dear Dur Blair I listened to a dramatization of or n ft family h heart art problem on tho the afternoon alter after noon oon of ot Mouda Monday January 6 G. It was wasI I wonderful both the III way the problem was WM II r handled and your so soI so so- I lution My Iy husband I anti and X I are aro experiencing experienc experienc- rM t ing lug the tho same mme kind of ot I I trouble lila His jealousy I. I I I is 11 excited d so 0 easily I I LI and tak takes such nuch forms II I N V of ot Intensity over trivial triv Atil Nf lal ial things things' His ma nature natura Is exactly that of ot the tha ther husband In tn your play r lie He wants nta to know my r every nery thought and move Ho Re wishes to toS S Invade the Inn inner r Sanctuary of ot my soul loul to such luch an ex extent ex- ex tent that he be Is II driving me from hint and nd all aU love o from my heart We have two children and I feel this must not happen en at any cost I know If It he could have been home and nd nd heard your dramatization this Afternoon It Would have helped him if Mt Isn't asking too much 1 would appreciate a copy of this drama as 1 It was waa presented over tho radio It means so much to our mar- mar fled happiness and the happiness of ot puT our cur family If It we could rectify this failing falling In him It Is A great handicap to both of ot us T I anxiously await awalt your f reply ply Gratefully TROUBLED WIFE No arrangements have ave been ma made e for supplying our readers with sith copIes copies copis cop cop- ies is of the Hearts Heart's Haven dramas presented over on Monda Mondays s end and nd Wednesdays at 4 However However However How How- ever as in hi other instances Instances' since these particular problems have not appeared in the column I have attempted attempted attempted at at- tempted to make a resume of the drama material in the column Those wanting It must then write to the circulation department of The Telegram asking for tor the particular In which the resume appears It the request is made within the X week ek of which h that bat particular subject sub subject sub sub- Jeet matter appears the price Is 5 cents if after tho the week but within the fEe lie month it is 10 cents r The hu husband band in the drama invaded ed d his wife's thoughts disbelieved her when she attempted to satisfy him concerning concerning them had her patched by detectives who found 1 thIng but that she he seemed to be beS S pandering or driving about at- at l to kill time In any way f possible away from her home She Shead had ad been an excellent homemaker hill his onslaughts drove into the privacy of her inner self s lf and his brutal accusations put her out of his IIa heart and out of at hi his home S When the detectives found nothing her the husband came to tome hie me to see lee what I thought of the My advice t to him in the fk i speeches I gave over the f lidio dio follow 5 t I I Jealousy is not a sign of love a anany as any nany suppose It Is a sign of a aS S perSons person ego usually of his inferiorS Interior inferior S Uy Ity y complex and his fear of a more powerful rival It Is the weak man uncertain of his physical powers fend iid k d his masculine attraction who Buffers h from th the bitterness of jeal- jeal S Sr r f Any jealous and d suspicious mind td d d person suffers His His' uncertainty tf fl his ability to hold his wife's wiCe love loveis is 11 one of the greatest causes ause of his Buffering He makes the blind mistake mix mis take uke of trying to possess her wholly tAny tny fine sensitive woman is Js driven to greater seclusion to S frion on on by such tactics S f 81 DESTROYS CONFIDENCE No wife can be open and frank frankS S When hen her husband assumes the Tight ight to invade the sacred territory of her soul Many confidences h have ve seen een entirely destroyed by such methods The Thc greatest tragedy of fell lies In the fact that jealousy and make for lor unfaithfulness in inthe tb the he love relation 5 a The jealous man as we have eEn lIe seen n Is already something of ot a failure fallEra fall fail Era ure in his love life or thinks he is Instead of satisfying his partner he lie increases her hunger by constantly focusing her attention on love loveOn On Jove ve that is diminishing because of oC this ibis own attitude His His' jealousy be- be beComes becomes Comes the force that drives her from him and into the arms of oC another nother man It is like flaunting Highly seasoned food in the face of ofa a ta starving beggar who in the end ends s from his own indulgence i S The ne' jealous husband is I. usually the very selfish type Often he le is apparently generous and frank Yh whEn n he be is actually selfish and sly CONTROL g f Psychologists claim there Is no tactual factual cure for jealousy but that through gh control both possessor and victim suffer less Control comes with knowledge of what jealousy indicates d cates in a p persons person's nature It It ItIs is t J Letters Letter questions question and request for advice should ba bf addressed to MISS BETTY BLAIK BLArR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN THE TUE TELEGRAM I. SALT LAKE CITY ITY Write legibly upon only one aide of or the paper It ft II li necessary t that you appen append d' d the right name namo and anti address but bitt i these then will be bo held ID tn confidence dence dance and will not eat apt In print Questions Involving advertising Information cannot be bo answered S'S f. f no not nota a sign of love but of brute possession pos pox session selfishness selfishness' and a feeling of inferiority Vh When n. n people understand understand under understand stand this they are arc ashamed to show jealousy and with this control comes greater grenter mental and emotional discipline discipline pline and trustin each o other her Dear Miss Miss' Blair Will WUl you please tell me what whit a girl should do to be bo glamorous I have good features and yet nobody knows about it It simply because I dont don't know what to do to bring them out I know some girls who are Me as homely as a ft mud fence and yet they are what I would call glamorous Please ten tell me how it is done Many thanks WILLOW I To be bo glamorous the first thing you must keep in mind is that you must stand out vividly as an Individual indi Indi- individual vid vidual aL It takes personality backed by knowledge character and that elusive something all women seek to o make them stand out among the crowd One doesn't necessarily have lave to be a raving beauty to be glamorous Many a 8 screen star has achieved S and fascination by emphasizing emphasizing sizing what may be called a bad feature or simply by playing up one good point But remember real lamor that lasts must go more than nan skin deep It employs all the finest inest qualities of ot which you you are capable ADORES ADDRESSING SING ENVELOPES Dear Miss S When sending wedding invitations should anything be be written on on the inside envelope elope containing the Invitation invitation tion or should that b be left a blank Thank you u. u ARBOR I have seen on one authority only who advocated that the Inside envelope envelope envelope en en- be left et blank Others advise that hat the name without the address be 10 written on It it If It i is being sent to fo b a man and his wife Mr and Mrs Irs James Harwell may be written written writ- writ ten en on the Inside envelope Use the title itle of ot Miss Mrs or Mr before any name inscribed on either en- en j en-j NOTE TO VILMA Kindly send stamped leU self self-ad- addressed ad- ad dressed envelope for circular i on re- re noval inoval of super superfluous hair |