Show I Lets Let's Explore Your Mind I S SF n. n F 3 t ii A 5 S 5 EI ii iE O iE S f f l ly f Hll l p Fo tx y 1 C. C u Th ThE OHIO RIT TO IT 14 1 OR MO W AAE T IE EItE RE SC S NoT WN v 3 rr To T THE E RULE C PAll ALL MEM t 0 stE LOVI To To OVERCOMES OVERCOME AE K S FEAR ET NO FO FOR he S NO O 1 Is Not a single exception never never n-never never was and never will be The desire for tor approval is probably the strong strongest est cat desire in human nature and no noone noone noone one can possibly escape it Jt Of ot course if It the term flattery is used to designate des des- ignate ignato praise which the one who is flattered perceives per is obviously false and just the opposite of ot real approval approval then then n of oC course an anyone one with a sense of ot humor would either resent it or take it as a joke joice But if it flattery means real praise even if It the receiver feels it is la somewhat overdone overdone overdone-he he likes it just the same I do so do you 2 My only reason for taking up this question is that I receive many letters letter from young people people never never from parents parents about about it O Of course couro children owe wc much to their parents in r return lurn for their sacrifices but it has been a sorry Borry- family life that has haz not developed this attitude clearly and without friction in the children j without their being told about it For parents with children who have haver r reached ached an age acc of responsibility to insist and demand this this' a as an n obligation indicates they have grossly mismanaged the tho development development development develop develop- ment of the sound attitudes of famIly family fam lam ily life Ufe and solidarity as their children children chil chil- dren have been growing up 3 Quite possible for two reasons First the trait may be due chiefly or altogether ether to mere imitation Often Otten bashfulness fear stin stinginess stubbornness loud talking good or bad manners etc arc are largely mere family habits one habits one generation unconsciously unconsciously unconsciously un un- un- un consciously teaches them to the next Whole communities and nations nations nations na na- na- na do the same thing These habits thus become what anthropologists call caU cultural patterns Secondly Sec Sec- even en I if Ie the tho trait bo ho du due to heredity hc it can cai frequently b bs overcome over over- come as I recently discussed Copyright John F. F Dille DUIe Co |