| Show Mf AFFLICTED l ifE E WITH CONTRARY I BEHAVIOR TRAIT i ij j I By BETTY BElT BLAIR y f To o sec sec ec as others see us requires special ana analytical ability ability abil- abil r ity Uy and knowledge This can be developed in every intelligent pers per per- s son n w who will take tak the trouble to delve e into perso personality alit traits anc and b behavior iu v reactions and then to look at themselves ye objectively Dear Ml Miss MIM s Blair r rA A A young oung man with whom I han havo recently become acquainted tells una me meI meI I have hate In other words worda that I am ani self-centered self to toa a degree that I X am am snobbish I have havo always known that I was wu self con claus but I did not know that other people Interpreted It as u high hat before Il IlI I have tried to overcome my ex extreme ex- ex sensitiveness but I know my actions are far from being natural I am always aware of myself and ond andam andam am thinking of the effect my words and actions will have on people When I 1 am In a crowd I never feel at ut ease c Instead of entering Into the conversation I Just try to look superior li without saying Dying anything But If I do speak It seems to me mc methe the whole room stops to listen and then doesn't think much of what I have said This feeling reeling makes menever me menever menever never want to talk at What am Im I to do To my friend I seem Just the opposite of what I really IUD am How am aim I to bo be c wh what t I want to be and make mato my friends see me a as I ISet am REALLY BLUE ELUE Set your your go goal i and do something every day toward its accomplishment accomplish ment If you sit and nd dream about what y you u should do and be all your energy will wUI be pent in dreams and nothing of reality will be ed Start Start pr practicing first on your t family lIy and those with wh whom m you ou arc ore well welI acquainted Say to them the pleasant things that come cometo to your mind Repeat those experiences of observation of activity you have haY as the day passes Increase your knowledge about everything In general and a af cw ew things thing in Jar lar Your own good goot common sense will tell you how to differentiate between these In your our expressed interest In events and people you will lose Jose mu much of your self-centered self Interest and once this has been ac accomplished accomplished ac- ac your our reactions to others will wUl be more normal KEEP KIEP GREENS FRESH Dear Miss Blair I have havo made the discovery that holiday hollday wreaths and evergreen sprays spra's will wUl keep fresh much longer If 11 allowed to stand overnight In Wlter water weter wa Wl ter before hanging I thought perhaps per per- lisps haps some of your readers might like to know this I always read your column with a great deal of or pleasure though this Is the first time I have written MRS H. H F. F We doubly the interest of our readers in writing to offer help But we hope you will come again when it may be possible for forus us to return your favor NOTE TO u MRS ms F. F P. P D. D Kindly send a stamped self ad dressed envelope for names and addresses of coin dealers There are many cou counterfeit quarters quarters' and half dollars pf 1853 but buta a coin dealer deal deal- er can easily detect the co counterfeit from the real With no arrows and no rays providing they have not been removed there is a premium on the 1853 quarter For definite information kindly send stamped self addressed envelope elope LAUNDERING LACE Dear Miss Blair I have ha a very lovely wide lace collar It came camo from Europe and andIs andIs andis Is handmade Through long usage and through years of when It has been stored away It Is soiled Rolled and also a little yellow Will you please tell me how to launder It and to restore Its whiteness Thank you OLLIE Squeeze the lace out in tepid soap flake s suds ds rinse in water of the same temperature also by ing In the second rinse add a little bluing to clear the color Then spread a towel out firmly across the table or bed bcd carefully spread out the lace and pin every point and design in the exact shape in which it should dry so that the whole collar dries In shape It will then need only slight pressing on a heavy J F- F FLett Lett Letters tt t rs questions and nd requests for advice should jn IH addressed to MISS BETTY BLAIR BLAIK HEARTS HEART'S HA VEN THE TIlE TELEGRAM t. SALT LAKE CITY ITY Write legibly upon only oie side Ide of ot the paper It Is I. necessary that thaI you append the right and hut but these will iII be bo lipId held in strict confidence onn dnn dence e iII not appear ur In In print Questions involving In advertising Information cannot be It I I p pad on the unfinished side of the lace I TO STUFF GOOSE Dear Miss Misa Blair I realize I II am late In making this request but your Answer will reach me in time If If It Is published the day before Christmas I 1 am serving goose for Christmas dinner and have nc ate recipe for tho the stuffing Have ve you such I a recipe Many thanks R n E E. If you ou letter had no not reached my desk Monda Monday morning it would not have been in time for printing in Tuesdays Tuesday's column since col column mn al always always always al- al ways goes to press a n day sometimes two In advance Stuffing for goose is made as follows One small loaf oaf of bread cut in inch 4 dice add 1 l' quart of sour apples cut small 1 3 quart stewed I prunes pitted and cut in half add some of lof the prune juice 2 cups melted butter a little sage thyme i salt and pepper a liberal grating of onion and 2 tablespoons of lemon emon juice all mixed thoroughly Tie Tic the legs together and roast in moderate moderate mod mod- erate crate oven 2 ii 2 hours Serve Sex with gravy made from the drippings CHRIST CHRISTMAS PETS Children here arc are six Persian kittens for tor your Christmas' Christmas gifts In order to get them you ou must be bo accompanied by your elders with the promise of good hom homes s- s They are at 1077 South Sooth Main Iain street At Howard avenue a lovely ely part- part Persian is to be had It is six weeks old FRIENDSHIP GIFT Dear Miss Blair Is It proper for a 8 girl eirl of 21 to accept ac accept accept ac- ac a wrist wristwatch watch for a Christmas present from a boy friend with the understanding it Is given as a token of friendship with no promises attached at attached attached at- at SUSIE There is a rule of etiquette which says friendship gifts must not verge into the maintenance line Gifts that represent money mony value should not be exchanged between friends It is better belter to sta stay within the limit of those things that cant can't be returned returned returned re re- re- re turned when or if the special friend friendship ship that offers them is However there are circumstances circumstances circumstances circum circum- stances controlling the presentation of every gift that differ with indi indi- These must be taken into consideration and the young oung mans man's feelings not hurt because of certain certain tam tain established rules |
