| Show F- F t. t INTERESTS ESTS jf WITH DIFFERENCE D- D DI I L i mv Yb JiU I. I t STIR STI R U UP P TROUBLE TROU BLE i f of By BETrY BLAIR BLAm e Th The most vital interests of adults that have to do with self self- expression ion self-preservation self and perpetuation must be very simil similar sim thin il ilar two if they are to be well mated On less vital points difference of opinion n may lend interest interestS to banish dull care Dear Deax Mii Blair WUi wm you please p eau Rive give your Idea BS U to young women grounded In III ft th principle of one church marrying marry marry- tn ing young oung men who II are firm believers believers' In TJI another My daughter whom we have always I considered consid r R ere ered the safe sare and 11 I su sane e variety or of young I. I I I womanhood seems to tobo iLI bo 00 falling for a aboy aboy IL U boy who Is IB a stranger tIE to u us all herself herselt In InV Included Included In- In V I who Is 13 a 1 aI I t member of or t A different different differ differ- twI ent tnt church fr from m her hernI nI IM own t ii Nat Naturally rally her parents parents par par- and sisters are deeply worried d but she sho merely i laughs and says a little thing mea like that doesn't matter However In Inasmuch In- In as we e had friends who have had hd experience In that line none noneS S of ot f the test zet of ti us feel teel that It Is a a little thing They hey ara fair examples I think 1 S as us they are three different types but hut the sam results result have happened happened happened hap hap- In all aU au three cases case One girl was was a trivial minded light person the tho other an Intelligent deepS deep deep- thinkIng type and the third one oneS one'S S S 'S of th headstrong Insistent girls who Is boss In each case there Is deep r regret et end for having married outside their own church They have ha all aU had bad children and their situation Is positively tragic The parents plu of or these girls foresaw fore fore- saw laW Just what tt was ahead of their daughters and warned them but tho the young men In the case said it didn't m mab ke a n bit of or difference to them They really thought It wouldn't m mke ke any difference but once married rind and tb the realities of life to face It made all the difference In th th world Each of these young people hs said laid to nu Its tragic Tell TeU young people not to do It It can ont cant t work Yc Yen ii think you can love tove each eRch other to see It through but there Is Ia something about It that Is absolutely beyond boyan ones one's power to take care re of or This Is particularly true when children come We Wo think we can cal b bear ar our nur burdens and worry somehow where we outS ourselves ar ara concern concerned d. d but our children wake us and mak make us s se e that by far flU the best way to think Is before It Is 15 too late And so Miss MIs Blair will YOU von please Rive give us you opinion nn An thi nu nus s- s tion WORRIED Any ny religious discussion whatever whatever whatever what what- ever is taboo in m this column but we should like ike to write our opinion on this question from the sta standpoint of vital interests whether religious I or not that differ widely between I young people contemplating mar mar- I If you had been brou brought ht up to believe that fresh air and vitamins In food were essential to health S and then fell in love with someone who insisted on keeping all doors and windows closed to the exchange of air and who insisted on treatIng treating treat treat- ing the theory of f vitamins as a lot lotof lotof of hooey hooe you Ou might laugh at this divergence of ideas before marriage S but once start living together and andS S see where such varying ideas would lead you ou Religion is an interest with which those who have it have lived daily all their lives It isn't possible to to depart from it for the sake of love Ones One's philosophy of life lie and religion may change because o of ones one's honest convictions but never for love Very rarely do two who have been steeped in their own varying religious ideas find happiness together I If they do it Is because they have foregone their religion before they have met and loved each other And even then very rarely is one able to throw of off the mantle I of ones one's ingrown wn religious convictions convictions convictions con con- so completely that it will not become obnoxiously apparent to a mate of different religious training No love is great but life and a belief in the hereafter arc are greater And love cant can't survive a difference of opinion on the deepest convictions convictions two ma may have concerning their most vital interests regardless regardless regard regard- less as to what they are A WORD VORD TO SHOPPERS Dear Drar Miss Mis Blair I am a working girl who stands on her feet teet all day long serving busy shoppers I t like my v work ork and am glad to have it but by the tho the day Is over o my fe feat t Just arent aren't 5 ablo able to support me or at least leat my temper Isn't to the point that Ican I Ican Ican can stand stanel In a n swaying swinging lurching bus bui for tor the ride home Every man or woman who has worked all day clay knows what relief It Is to In be able to sit and relax for forthe forthe the ride home But how many of ot ofus otus us have the tha chance I have e seen seena a n man who has had a terrific day and Is so 60 tired ho cant can't breathe get set getup setup up and give his scat to a woman who has a few parcels In her hand In most cases case that woman has had hada a day of or compared to the tired rain man And I want to tell you that no man who has sat fiat in an office chair all aU day ever got up to give me tIle his seat lIt with With the th overcrowded bus condition condition condition condi condi- tion we are forced to put up with how I wish tho the women I serve servo all allS allday allday S day woula f plan lan to take tho the earlier buses home so 50 we who stand on our feet all day could rest our weary feo feG and souls 1 Or Is It ask ask- lag ing too much S JUST A MERE Well there it Is Perhaps mere thoughtlessness on the part of most of us that we do not plan our trip home from a shopping tour in time timeto to give the or man mon an opportunity opportunity opportunity op op- op- op to sit on the seat scat for which he has paid but which just Isn't there Cooperation in little things m m in dears ma may be a bigger triumph than our poor imaginations can compass PERFUME FOI FOR Ol GIFT near Dear Miss Blair Bloir The girl 1 go with Is v very ry fond rond ot or perfumes I Intend to give her hera a bottle bottlo of ot an excellent brand for Christmas but since good perS perI per per- I S I fume Is s s' s expensive I cant can't alI af sf- sf ford a very l bottle I Iwas was wondering won Won- derin dering whether or not It would beall be bo S all right to give ive a few beauty prep- prep r alon along with the perfume looks too small bv by Itself luett S Thank iou jou S 5 0 O. O 8 S. S Good perfume Is the gift de but unless you have definite knowledge knowledge knowl knowl- edge about her personal tast tastes s and preferences dont don't give your best bes g girl rl beauty preparations for ChristI ChristS Christ Christ- S 'S I J I Letteri etter questions and request for advice should bi br addressed to MISS 1 BETTY BETrY BLAIR BLAIK HEARTS HA HAVEN VEN TilE THE TELEGRAM I SALT LAKE LAKE CITY Write legibly upon ani only o one e side of the paper It ft is III necessary that you append the right name namo and address but th these will vili be held Jd In strict confidence dence nrc and will ill not In print Questions I In U advertising i information cannot b be answered mas The powder someone recommended recommended recommended mended may make her skin look sallow and the lavender you adore may smell just plain musty to her If however you have a way vay of obtaining the desired information concerning the hue and texture turc of her skin you cant can't go wrong by picking cosmetics as a gift I suggest however that a nice gift to go along with the perfume would be an atomizer or a huge bottle of toilet water of the same scent as the perfume you buy Let members of the family give cos cos- l PART ART PERSIAN KITTENS Three part Persian kittens are lookin looking for good homes Call H Hy 2311 R or see sec them at 1756 Yale LaIc avenue a |
