Show CHILD HAS HA HASTO TO LEARN 1 I SELF-CONTROL SELF FROM 1 PARENTAL CONTROl CONTRO Should e cr every child be punished Mr Mrs l Eldred's leaflet Anal Analysis of Obedience and nd l Punishment answers an an- this question full fully and you ma may obtain a COI copy b by sending u a self self addressed cent 3 stamped en envelope en- en to Myrtle L l Ic Meyer er Eldred In care are of Your Baby and Mine linc department of tills this newspaper ew It seems necessary ac at times limes for parents to ask themselves the pertinent pertinent pertinent per per- question If I let my child do everything he wants to do when he wants to do it how can I teach him self-control self If Ie self-control self grew like teeth or bones one would need to give no consideration to this question But sadly enough it does not It Is the result of or experience piled plied upon fix fix- perie and and ce-and and these experiences mB may be momentarily unpleasant for what child docs does not want to do doas doas doas as it pleases But self-restraint self has its agreeable agreeable agreeable agree agree- able and pleasant aspects and the child disc discovers vers that it is pleasant to o be controlled that there is securIty security security ity In its parents parent's firm but pleasant No Having learned the laws Jaws of oC social control control through following them self control is inevitable How then can these pampered only children these poor little rich ones whose every wish is law Jaw ever have the opportunity to practice self-control self The answer is that the they do not The modern parent suffers some disadvantages the older ones never l knew new A few generations ago the parents parent's word was law and the child was Vl forced by precept and rod rod to carry out the parental commands command Because some of these time old-time methods of oC teaching and training have been discarded the modern parent is obsessed with the idea that it is training and control itself which has been discarded She ima imagines inc that because spanking spanking spanking spank spank- ing has fallen Callen into disuse that discipline discipline dis dis- has likewise She believes that the advice to give her small child more freedom and less re restraint restraint restraint re- re more chances to make in individual individual individual in- in choices of conduct means that she is to let him grow up Utterly utterly ut ut- terly uncontrolled It is b because cause of the befuddled state of her own m mind I n that I I must ask herself the question ro pounded in in the first sentence her keep in mind that society Let coi COUld I not lot unless wo we learned to do II as we wo are told And that the he i I vidual could not exist who did n noli learn earn to make individual choices T op jI conduct iU Sane parental control gives give u child sufficient opportunity to tod- tod as he pleases so 80 that as a ball he enjoys the discipline of or and control No child ever really enjoys perfect freedom No o child is s fit for a world of r b controls who does not learn in y own on home and under the theof Die of a wise kind parent how to toness hu ness his own desires in accordant I with wilh the social soda 1 good H |