Show B BOYS YS DISAPPOINT i GIRL WHO TRIES TO TOM M 11 UNDERSTAND MOTIVES I i 1 Noses Like Styles Have Their T Vogue Remembrance J of One Dispels Illusions of Others Puppies for Gifts 4 B By BETTY BLAIR The standards by which people live are founded on Ideals experience and the inheritance that makes them ac accept accept ac- ac Tr certain traditions and Innovations and reject others T It is as foolish to renounce ones one's standard because it doesn't S comply with that of another as it would be to attempt to change ones one's nationality S Dear Miss Blair BlaH I never thought I would have to come to you OU with one of ot m my ray 1 S aill silly problems but there is no one else to whom I Icare Icare I I care to tell my LI story stor About a arear I year rear ago I went 1 I I with a boy whom s I thought was my ci 0 ideal He was wasI I noted as a very good necker but butI wr I never did discover dis U cover this until I had gone with S cIt him for about 8 months He had been drinking and carried his petting petting pet pet- ting a little too far and md I slapped him After Alter that when he came to S see lee me rae I treated him coldly He HeS still comes to the house for only S a few minutes almost every da day S but has stopped asking me for dates Then about four months ago I 5 5 started to go so with a boy whom I II I also liked and whose parents a thought a great deal of me After I t had gone with him three and a half months he also tried to get set too fresh with his necking so I quit him Our quitting was the talk of the town as people thought thought ve we were exactly suited to each other Even his family tried to ge me to tell them what had happened to break us up but I IS Iid Isaid S said id Oh just a little quarrel S They come to see sec my parents now and are always wishing we could get along as th they y would like me rae for or a daughter in This boy also drops in to the house once or twice a week but butS buthe S he never asks me to go any place 5 with him 1 S I go to parties and am the life liCe 5 of ot the party I go to dances and the boys all aU dance with me rae but butI I never neer get any dates My 11 girl girlS girlfriends S friends have dates almost every night and it looks to me as if the girls in our town have to believe in petting a lot or else be fast and smoke and drink in order to get tet dates Now could you and your readers readers read read- 1 ers tell me how to win boy boyfriends friends who will want to date me mc S How did some of oC you girls who Letters questions and requests requests requests re re- re- re quests for advice should be addressed addressed ad ad- dressed to MISS BET BETTY T Y BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HA HAVEN VEN TELEGRAM SALT L LA LAKE A K KE E Write legibly upon only one side of the paper It is necessary that you append append append ap ap- pend the right name and address ad ad- dress but these win be held in strict confidence and will nit mit appear in print Questions involving in in- advertising information cannot be answered have been n on the spot as I am get your yourS boy friends BLUE AND LONELY Were We're always telling others what to do and how to do it and when For Fora a change wed we'd like to have the appeal you make to other girls who have had similar experiences step in and tell tellus tellus tellus us u-s all how they have solved their problems successfully We cant can't think that boys lose their liking for tor girls who have ideals and stick by them Boys Bos must feel a great deal of chagrin after having been shown their place b by girls girls' who maintain main main- tam tain a fine standard of conduct It isn't as if it a girl couldn't forgive a aboy aboy aboy boy who blundered and was afterward afterward after after- ward sorry It is mostly that the two never quite come to an understanding of oC each other again unless one of them breaks the ice to talk things over It Is my opinion in your own case that hat if it you openly discussed the question ques- ques lion ion of petting with the two boys who still continue to call on you and let them know now you OU didn't hold it against them hem that they slipped once that you could be closer friends again But Butof Butof Butof of course you OU would want to know too oo where they stood on the question of ot petting and to make them aware o of the fact that you are still firm Inthe in inthe the opinion that certain demonstrations of love are reserved for lor mar mar- Now lets let's hear from the experiences and opinions of others NOSES AND POSES Dear Miss Blair I am coming to you for lor advice for the first time I am teased so much at school because I have havea a up turned-up nose What in the world can I do I am actually becoming too self What would you advise me to do If there is any remedy I would surely like to know of it SCHOOL GIRL Last year straight noses were fash fash- This year everyone wants a turned up nose and molds are made and being used to make noses that way And here are you bewailing the fact that you have one by nature Why let all the teasing in the world affect you Of course the more the teasers see that they are getting desired de de- de sired ired results the more they will tease ease Laugh at them Tell them that the latest reports from plastic surgery clinics and beauty studios are that hat the turned up nose is having is inn inning nning n this year and you rou expect to profit by it by being glad you have ha yours Of course if you would be foolish enough to have a plastic surgeon change the shape of ot your our nose at I great expense even though turned up noses go out of style next year they will come back again as they always do and then you couldn't even cven say Stop talking about my ray nose Didn't you know that noses run in our family fain fam ily for then yours ours would be changed from a family nose to merely a pose and of the two the former regardless of ot its shape is much to be preferred Forget about your nose except on needful occasions and others will too H LINGERING Dear Miss Blair I am 22 years old and never did step stepa a boy until I was 19 I Since then I have gone with every type good bad and indifferent I never drink or smoke but I do some som necking at times I got quite a thrill from stepping fellows fel lows until last year I met a boy who was two years older than L I. LI LI I fell for him in a big way as some would say He went away from here and I haven't heard from him since Now I find I dont don't care for the company of or any boys I go with them when Im I'm asked but Im I'm bored to death with them and find myself wishing the evening evening eve eve- ning were over I wish you could tell me what to do because I dont don't want to be an old maid and I simply simply sim sim- ply cant can't stand the fellows I have known since In like manner the boys I knew before I met this boy have lost their appeal Hoping you will vill advise me B uBi J. J I thi think k you should give yourself a rest even from accepting invitations ions from young men with whom you find ind nothing in common Go in intensively In In- for creative work of oC some sort ort Get a thrill from being able to tolo todo todo do lo something well whatever it may maye maybe maybe be e in which you are most interested The thought of ot being an old maid has tas no horrors for lor women actively engaged engaged en en- engaged in careers or professions or orven even ven in jobs In fact old maid no longer belongs to their their- vocabulary To endure people who bore you for forthe forthe the he the worn-out worn tradition that a woman simply imply must be seen in the company ot of f a man is not to be thought of Itis It Itis Itis is even possible that with a broader viewpoint you might be able to see fineness in lit these older associates of which you had never dreamed before New and vital interests will enable you ou to contact people whom you have never lever met before Soon you will learn earn that the qualities you so much admired in one young man are to be found in many We do not believe in the theory that a certain young oung man and woman were destined for forach each ach other Proximity with those who have lave similar interests characteristics tics ics viewpoints is the thing that draws raws people together in sympathy and nd love You may find such a one onen in n any locality where you may dwell Broaden your environment contacts and you will find the solution to your problem THREE PUPPIES A wonderful Christmas gift gilt for a achild achild achild child would be one of these cunning poppies puppies Call Hyland M 1 see sec them hem at 1121 East Second South |