| Show EMORY Y IS NOURISHED r g Y HABIT OF TEARFUL SOLITARY f OLIT AR Y INDULGENCE ry y Causes Physical Defection in Youth Question n Solved d as to Who ho Takes Precedence on Stairs in Theater I. I t By BETTY BLAIR BLAI i Nothing is so real in life as change It is fortunate that B sis is s true for no one could live lve happily or healthily with an anJain Jain or 01 a blighted hope Fortunately today in the new binic setup there are arc so many new men walking along womans woman's street that she cant can't afford to sit and ce carnations on the grave of any lost romance Mr ar r M Miss Blair ir Here comes just one more te unhappy per person on to C camp 11 r. r f on your our doorstep lond and nd fill your ears cars b I I I full of woe vo o A J year car carr ago this spring I Ir Iwas Iwas i r r t vi was as the happiest girl in the world Now I seem to be beI belv bethe o D I the m most t forlorn and hop hopeless less I am lv at a loving a m man n long longI 1 I after alter he has stopped loving me A ye year r ago we v were engaged to be We had been going to- to lh r a year ear before he asked me mc mem memarry m merry marry rry him He was vas m my ideal in In in seemed perfect in every reset ret re re- re- re set t but evidently I wasn't so fO l. l in his Ith sight He kept dering dering de- de ring ing our marriage for economic Then finally final when his rk Irk did clid become became permanent he hed hed hed d he didn't feel sure we were right bright people for Jar each other ather thought we ought to break brcak k off of engagement r and wait waft a while til we were sure Two months sr r our engagement was broken married to another girl e c I had never thought of as ng g his kind have shave done dane everything I could forget farget him But after I have in fl 1 out for an evening frying trying be ie gay making others think m in that way I come home hame to grief and a 0 tc tear r wet pillow Im I'm just goofy I dont don't ik rik any normal per person on should k that much of any ony man who isn't nt love her When I see 1 with her as as I sometimes do doa doa a a distance it seems as though the blood in my body bedy freezes s s. there anything I can do dout mt ut it more th than thon n I am doing f FORGOTTEN re Ie fortunately doesn't last for for- unless it has lias some nourishment times an m unhealthy memory I If the owner of it examined it auld find it co couldn't l nt stand the just ht-just just dark corners rooms from everyone wet vet pillows that is the sort of memory that be routed Memory like love leve 3 by what it feeds upon el E Every you go home heme from a gay party part hed tears into your pillow you yau the fixed habit of r to do that very thing If H d id of having the setting all ready roody good weepy time you ou had a aing in ipg ing mystery story ready to into until your c eyes es tired reading instead of weeping ed ted shut you OU could rout the dis dis- memory that relies relics on habit for dont don't like stories you mystery are ore plenty of other ather things to toto toto toto to that you ou do like Nothing l cep Leep ep just something vastly en en- ing Maybe you like crossword es s Certainly they should put puta 0 a sleep Or maybe you prefer love poems If you can by all means get busy and it IL out of your our system Any- Any 1 creative for which you have a aling ling ing if thoroughly mastered is antidote for fer unhealthy ions u may not hope to ah always ah's s 's find te from grief grier among other pee peo- cr or in doing gay and useless i s. s Get out into the sunshine and a garden I never knew ane any any- yet e who loved to delve in the theand theand and help to make lovely lovel things who had space in her mind to tor ar r an unhealthy memory Sun Sun- kills bacteria of more kinds one BOY DOY WORRIES ar r Miss Blair am m a boy Joy of 17 with one bad rry My eyes are arc sunken and inkles are beginning to form ferm my face tace I think this is Sed by the fact that I 1 worry worry much Do you OU think if I worrying E ro O much my roy roys is s would become natural and out lout again You might think thinks s a foolish question but I Int Int It nt t to know the truth about it iti iti i i II I think you can con tell me r r JIM I 11 lI 11 one thing trung I can tell toll you OU and that is that Old Man Many 7 y never was a friend to man ta tas built buill his house by the side of and he almost drags you OU inside when in has nothing to offer b by of or refreshment or hospitality i 1 lot of po poison on dope You must mustI I to shun the pathway that leads is door Nothing good ever came camei if i his house and there is 15 nothing h Ii while in it for which anyone anane Id take the trouble of entering ally aIly now is anything in the thed d worth worrying ing about If II Y y 7 could cure any ills one might for indulging in it once but since it never does docs learn bow how to forsake it Jt Trul Truly I akes one ill JU nervous unhappy a do a happier healthier way of liv- liv f rI If you have haye leisure time on your S Letters questions s and md requests requests requests re re- re- re quests for Cor advice should be addressed ad ad- dressed to MISS 1155 BET BETTY T Y BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT LAKE L LA A K E. E Write legibly upon upen only one side of or the paper It is necessary that you append ap op pend the right name and address ad dress but these will be held in strict confidence and will not lt appear in print Questions involving in in- advertising information annot be answered lands hands hands as so many boys beys now new have engage in athletics If there is no ne gymnasium in your our town at least leat form a good b baseball club that can meet on an open square Or form a acro cro cross country aUntry club and take long runs over your our country roads Work off your our surplus energy keep with other vitally healthy young oung men and engage with vilh them in healthful activities Ill I'll warrant t the te e wrinkles will vill disappear disappear dis dis- dis appear and that the worry troughs about your our eyes will vanish Worry is s akin to disease Court health hc and andt it t will show how in your aur face and e eyes I ETIQUETTE OF PRECEDENCE CE Dear Deor Miss Blair I have been puzzled for some seme sometime time lime regarding which of the following following following fol fol- fol- fol lowing is correct Does Dees a man precede the lad lady when coming down stairs or going up stairs or vice versa Which precedes the other on f entering a theater If If when hen ilis it il itIs itis is necessary to walk one behind the other ather there are several doors doer to open should the man stay behind bel be be- l hind nd and then step in front or to the side to open the doer door or should he just continue ahead until until un til the doors are opened This question applies to a situation where doors arc are but a few feet apart in a hallway ME If the stairs arc are too narrow for the theman theman theman man and woman to walk side by side when ascending the woman precedes the man when coming down the theman theman theman man comes first but always s with the thought in mind of rescuing the lady if she should trip or fall He doesn't rush ahead of her but remains close clase behind in going up or cl close e enough in front in descending not to impede her progress In the theater the question of who goes first depends on where the usher is standing If he already is escorting someone else down the aisle the man goes first until the usher is reached As soon oon as the usher takes the lead the man falls behind the wom woman ornon n who immediately follows allows the usher If It there arc are doors close together which must be opened the man goes ahead chead opens the door holding i ij it open until the woman goes through He may then walk directly ahead aCher of aC her to open the other door in readiness readiness readi readi- ness for her to pass through But Bui either cither way In the latter latte rose case would be correct to let her precede him to ta the door doar and wait walt f for r him or for him hirr himo o go co ahead th that t short distance anc and wait for fer her herS as S he holds the door open |
