Show ft H HEARTS HAVEN VEN VEN- VEN Conducted by BETTY BLAIR Letters aes Bud and requests for Zor advice should be addressed to W MISS B BErr BLAIR HEARTS HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT LAKE Write legibly upon on OW one side of ot the paper It lt fe ne necessary ary that you append the right name and address but these will bl bo be held kield In strict confidence and will not appear in print Questions Involving advertising information cannot be an nn answered Letters Lettera requiring p personal reply must be accompanied by stamped addressed Bell envelopes Ed TWO MEN IEN AND A MATh MAID Dear Miss l Blair I am s a young girl In a andam and andam nd am to you yon for help I belong to society's best set d In Salt L Lake ke I Iam am almo 1 18 years and not bad to ta look at at my friends sa say Be Because of my wealthy parents I am pursued by two young men who are re 16 I Iam am am amer er very fond of both of them One I Is quiet quid when he hc is h around me but bat I Iam am lure sure that be he loves me quite a ap p bit lie He Is 15 the sissy poet type bui but bu butI i I J like his shy mannerisms He lie drives drive 4 a b beautiful green Kreen Packard and takes take takesI me riding quite often lie He has never J I kissed me but I 1 am w waiting for the time lie He Is a different type from the tho other t I The other Is boisterous fun loving i and Is Li also I X am sure ure quite fond of me met He lie becomes very cry bold when we wet wei i t are alone ami and I am almost afraid I of him However I am quitO quite able to toi i take care of myself In a pinch My f sisters four of them have given riven me p that I 1 can always always al quite quit a savoir faire ways fall tall back on J I X have heard that the quiet boy boyhas has his wild moments but he be has never I shown hown any Inclination around me meno no matter h how bow w much I 1 encourage him It has reached the point where I most mast choose behr between en them for the shy one Is drifting away from me to ward vard another and I do not want to lose him but hut want the bold one one as much Will you please help me to solve my problem M SM Do you ou know what it is about your rival for the affection of tho quiet boy that hue has its particular allure t If It your rival Is fighting with a pistol p and you ou with a saber you are sure to lose lost But If you know just what whal weapons of ot love your our rival uses uses' and you use we the same weapons weaponS' only better your brand or Its sharpness you have a good chance of winning Your of course has a great deal to do with your our ultimate victory too Now maybe youre you're wondering just what are arc the characteristics of a i maidens maiden's allure Most assuredly the I point on which which she s scores highest hes I isn isn't t her parents parent's AI At t least this isn't so o for lor the boys whom she really wants to cultivate ate Allure ia L mostly personality and the Ingredients of ot this arc are varied With some girls it Is looks plus line With others it Is a specialized preparedness along the lines Hoes of culture culture- or art The ingredients arc are as varied as the people themselves I What is your particular asset in the personality calendar What i L is your youri particular liability Can you ou name the personality traits that may lie Ue between your highest and lowest lowes ratings It Is Is Is' wonderful practice to take an inv inventory of ot yourself to yourself to check up once in awhile Find out what personality traits the shy boy admires most You mus must not obviously ape these traits or your method becomes too flagrant Being a woman you must be subtle not a rubber There Is one discrepancy that wIllbe will willbe be hard for lor you u to ultimately overcome overcome over over- come unless you are one of those eternally youthful maids That is the matter of age The boys are two years younger than you and sooner or later will seek the companionship of ot girls girl their own age of younger Be prepared for lor this event by making friends with boys boys' your own age or older But for lor the present there is no good reason reason why you ou shouldn't be friendly with both these boys boys' who are younger That Is providing you youcan youcan you youcan can rely upon your training of savoir savoir- faire C LEMONS FOR COMPLEXION Dear Miss 1 Blair Will viII Willou you ou kindly rive give me a little Information concerning lemons Are they rood good f for r the complexion used med Internally or externally Or shouldn't they be used at all aUf Thanking you 0 a LEMON Lemons supply vitamins and mineral min mm eral MI salts in the diet and ar are arc therefore therefore there there- fore an excellent addition to the diet die composed of ot m meats at vegetables and pastries Lemon sauce with the succulent sue suc vegetables spinach lettuce cabbage cauliflower adds add to their palatability If It your diet is 11 right your our health all these things thing bein being equal is fine tine Good health presupposes a I good complexion The skin is one of the first organs to show v disability of health eath A glass or of not hot wa water r wi With a nan hail tal or quarter of lemon juice squeezed In it taken a half hour before breakfast break breakS fast is a wonderful internal cleanser and purifier Your skin will begin to glow with health and your eyes I to shine The hot water re repeated at night before you ou go to tobed bed with witha a little lemon juice juke or half a a teaspoon teaspoon tea tea- spoon of ot soda in it should also be taken token As a bleaching agent lemons cannot cannot can can- not be excelled Combined with glycerine glycerine gly gly- cerine and a little rose water or they keep the skin soft and white Fruit stains on the hands can be removed with the juice of a lemon If your Internal economy Is s right as your external economy is sure lUre to tobe tobe tobo be bo with a little care lemo lemons are are a great adjunct to diet and dressing table LAUNDERING TABLE LINENS i Dear Miss Mia Blair I had very nry lovely table fable damasks In n my trousseau others were given riven to o me when I was married but bu a al al- ready eady the beautiful sheen seems eem t to have lave departed from them I have bare thought that maybe they needed particular particular par par- care In laundering and so 10 have come to you to tell me I wash right In same ame preparation of water that I use for tor the other ether clothes Inthe In the he washer Thank you yoi for tor any h help lp you may rive give YOUNG BRIDE i Correct methods of washing and ironing are vastly important to the care of f table linen Strong alkali soaps and bleaching mixtures destroy destroy destroy de de- de- de stroy the natural luster of linen and the heavy satin nUn texture of damask damak Choose Choos-ca a pure mild mUd soap and wash linens in heavy suds The sudsy water should hould be bl squeezed through the fabric fab fab- ric nc never rubbed through Rubbing roughens the fiber and shortens hortens the life ife of all linen Linen washes easily since it does not hold he the dirt In the obstinate fashion of cotton If It you put your our linens In the washer first you can do so In 10 the mUd mild soap soap mixture then add wash wash- lag ing ng powders after their removal for the he clothes that hold the dirt snore more tenaciously Use very little bluing In the last rinse water for linens Linen absorbs bluing much more snore readily than does cotton fabrics Be sure lure all linens are thoroughly rinsed before putting them in n the bluing water Never starch linen This applies ti to all H household linens table bed linen and towels Linen possesses a natural sheen heen and d body that does not require starch tarch The final finished beauty of damask damak lies ies in the care with which it is Ironed It must be quite damp and ironing must be continued until it is dry Iron on the wrong side first firt and then on the right working from selvage to selvage This willain will gain ain the highest possible luster and body ody Too hot an iron is another cornmon common com corn mon m n fault It takes takes' time patience and nd delight in iii the finished article to o make snake your our linens retain their beautiful luster REMOVING STAINS Dear Miss n. Blair I I 1 wonder If 11 you will wll rive give me a little help on the removal of the most comon stains such as the ehll thU dren ren spill 1111 on the table tablecloth cloth I think table cloths wouldn't look so 0 awful after fter washing them I lam Iam am aura sura other housewives will also allo appreciate sucha lucha such luch a handy bandy list nit of suf suggestions f Thanking you on MRS M. M J. J Egg stains should b be washed In cold old water wate until they ey completely ly dis appear To remove coffee stains stretch linen hen over a bowl and pour boiling water vater through it For tea stains first pour our on glycerine and then pour boiling oiling water through the stain Fruit stains arc are removed by stretching stretch stretch- lag ing ng the linen over a bowl and pouring boiling soiling water through the stain letting etting the water fall faU from a distance ot of f three feet Rust spots are arc easily removed by moistening the spot with lemon juice and nd covering with table salt alt Let dry In n the sun Rub grease spots with lard thor thor- saturating the spot and then wash as usual in warm suds suds- |