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VEN H- H E EA EAR A B RT T S HA fl If With If Betty Belly Blai Affairs of ot the heart and kindred problems ONLY will be discussed In this department Letters questions and requests request for tor should be addressed to MISS BETTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT LAKE S Write legibly upon only one side of ot the tho paper S It Is necessary you append the right name and Address addres but these then will be bo held bud In strict confidence and will by no means appear In mint Ed o KNOWS WHERE SHE'S SUES GOING Dear Miss l Blair I have bave been watching your our column with the greatest created Interest lately and my faith in humanity is looking up greatly I lain am coming to recount mj my experiences in this treat great modern world orld of men and women women rood good and md nd bad Is there room I have been reading reading- all the letters for and a rains against I drinking smoking anc and necking I must say uy that I am against them all I am 18 and md I cannot be described as a 11 raving beauty but I Iban Ibave have ban been told b by num many that I am charming I am always alwa's neat and dress dres I well I dance participate in all lI light ht sports except necking and otherwise enjoy life I have had young men pa pay me attentions In the last several se years cars There have hae been a number of varieties va va- va riches of the species One young yount man came to me Tuesday Tuesday Tues Tuu- day and asked for m my company at a I. I movie on the following follow Saturday Of OI course ourse I was wu glad lad to go 0 for this young oung Than nan had money a car and W was S the envy of m my girl friends We went to th theater and later laur to the confectionery confectionery conlee- conlee for some Ices After Arter that we got cot In the car and started toward my home Just a half a i block from there he stopped the car turned out the lights and started to neck I drew away uy not because I am a prude but because I cant can't stand being rudely ruddy mauled b by men My y escort was angry What do you ou suppose I took you 00 out for tor and spent good time and money on jou ou for he asked I too was angry I took out my parse handed him a I. I dollar told him that it was to pa pay for m my good time and left him there I guess ues I startled him and brought him to his his' senses After that nl night ht I never had an any peace lie He call called d me on the phone offered offered offered of of- apologies s and begged ben forgive forgive- nu ness fleas He said that he had bad been only trying tO eIt me and that I had proved to be his ideal and he wanted me mo to marE marry him Ills test had proved an insult I couldn't for forget et I lost a lot lotof lotof of af my faith In men and went In for classics Young Toune- men do not have to have ha a hip flask and money and a car to come to see me I have had bad a poor farmer I lad come from the horse borse country on a to visit me I have ban S. S walked miles with struggling Un young 1 I clerks and the like I have bave even gone rone Dutch with students students stu stu- dents when I have known m it was beyond be- be yond ond their means to entertain me We have had wonderful wonderful wonderful won won- times without without without with with- c out drinking or smoking or neck neck- lag ing When I go goc out with nice boys to movies or other places I try to do domy domy my any part by proving entertaining and If the hour hoor Is still sUIl early I Invite m my escort to come in and have bave a little lunch before going home This Is not enough to satisfy some men but there I Is a small handful that appreciates me Inc The rest do donot not matter No man has ever eer said a hot bot number try er fer and meant me I must say that I have something that Is s to be greatly desired the respect of f men My body Is a temple and was given to o be pure and clean It Is my 10 duty to keep It that way and I do not find Ita it ita ita a difficult task but a pride and a pleasure Yes I can hear Babe nabe and lots of others giggling behind their pa papers papers papers pa- pa pers but I really fail to see sec what fun the they hey get Id out of drinking and smoking To me rue both aie are sordid pastimes I would much rath rather r read a good book and know that I will profit prom b by my reading where I would not profit by those hose other oth-er pastimes Do not misunderstand me I am not old fashioned nor have I been disappointed disappointed dis disappointed dis- dis appointed In love for I have bave never been in love lo I am modern modern modern-modern modern as tomorrow tomorrow for for modernism m In mind d different and stick stick- means being Ing Int up for the virtues of womanhood Is that modernism or have I the wron wrong word I admire virtue that is not prudishness It SIT JANE J One of or the most important things in life is to know what you want want want- either cither to be or to obtain obtain and and then to set out on the road to be that sort of or person or to achieve that certain end It is those who never know what I they want who never develop lad indi indi- nor get anywhere in life The same is true of people people- who alow al allow allow al- al low the stronger personalities of or other people to utterly absorb their own We agree with ith you that the safest kind of modernism has its eye on the to to- to morrow WOULDN'T DISGRACE FAMILY Dear Den Miss 1 Blair Will you ou please help me mc Im I'm one of these neglected girls who are so often left out of the crowd Please tell me what to do to be more popular I wouldn't like to be an old maid for forIt forS S lit It would be a disgrace to the family CONNIE I I Most beggars are arc despised because they hey ask continually and never have anything to offer for received Its It's that way with popularity Those who vho beg for it without being the sort of f person who gives enough to demand demand demand de de- de- de mand it ft never get it Forget about yourself for forget et about being popular and do so much to help somebody else to be cheerful and happy lappy and have a good time that others will depend on you When you rou have a lot of others looking to you for ideas for initiative for the ability to put ideas into execution your our own good time Is assured WO WOMEN tEN ROOT OF EVIL Dear Miss Blair Women omen are now v always alwa's have ha been and nd always will be the root of all evil Whoever Cr it was that first said that hat sure knew women women but but then he might have han added something decent decent de- de cent ent too What That do girls want anwa anyway The They wont won't tell ull you ou the truth even when you lOU ou really want them to And how Isone is isone isone one supposed to find out Romeo surely doesn't realize what hat hata a break he Is getting when the girls dont don't like to go to out with him It is 15 ismy ismy m my experience that if a boy ever falls for or a girl and lets her ber know It it his troubles roubles arc are about to begin The girl will do her be best t to make his life as miserable as possible from then on The trouble is that the bo boy Is usually I fool ool enough to take It and like It It These poor girls who arc are so 50 lonel lonely I dont don't know why anyone should sympathize sympathize sym sym- with them Give em a chance and they are just like the rest Tell Tella i ia a girl bow she hurts hurb you and she says she is terribly sorry and then turns right around and laughs at you behind your back Oh well ever er thus JUST ANOTHER DUPE For the love of MONEY is the root of all aU evil This quotation is from fromI I Timothy Timoth I am happy to quote it correctly and Ind to give you rou its source be source being being ng a I woman Never mind you'll get over this most recent tiff youve you've had with your our best girl and then all the world and all the women in it will be O. O K again Not so The answer to your question which we may not print is N No 0 REMOVING HATS DATS Dear Miss 1 Blair Should girls remove their hats on entering catering a school building or while stand standing In In the halls hall It is 15 customary for the boys bos to do so and neither the thebo's boys bos nor the girls should wear hats in the classroom Thank you kindly AL There is no rule of etiquette governing govern ing lag removal of or hats in school build build- ing lag Custom or school rules usually dictate such matters Many boys bos and girls go to school hatless nowadays The boys who wear hats should o of course remove them immediately upon entering the school building Girls as a rule remove their hats a it at their lockers and deposit them there for safe keeping So far Car as I know it i is optional with a girl whether she re removes removes removes re- re moves her hat upon entering th the building or doing so in the hall when hall when the matter is b left up to her I NOTE TO JUST HOPING II Our circular Rc vIl of of Blackheads Black Black- I heads and Pimples will help you ou t to solve your our problem Send us a self self- I addressed stamped envelope for its return CAT FOR GIFT GIFTA A smart cat 2 2 1 years old that likes ikes children but cant can't agree to leave lea the birds and goldfish alone must find finda a new home Call Hyland M for further particulars AGREES WITH BILL Dear Miss Blair Heres Here's my answer to a certain lad named Bill who thinks that girls go 0 out when they are too young oun I am 16 and have never neer had bad a date and I Iam Iam Iam am glad of It It Sounds like sour grapes but It U I spend a great deal of time on my music lessons and I read a lot I dont don't think its it's my 10 looks that keeps the he boys bos away but m my attitude of I laving having something else more Interest Interest- In hg Ing just at present to occupy my time Ive I've loads of fun with my 10 crowd ol or girls but boys bos make me uneasy I 1 dont don't center m my attention on them al at school either My ly highest ambition ambitions Is s to be a nurse and my hobby Is I cooking So there Hill Bill you ou arc mistaken mistaken mistaken mis mis- taken when you ou include all girls In your our remarks SWEET SIXTEEN |
