| Show Come COllIe to to- to HAVEN jj i iE V VEN E N HA T S E EAR ARTS ART'S Wit With Betty Blair z l of ot the heart and kindred problems ONLY will b be discussed I department f- f L sa tr 3 and r for or advice ad should b be addressed to toJ toi i J q HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM BALT LAKE l i upon only one sIde aide of tho the paper I it n u 13 necessary UY you rou append the tho right name awl and address addre but butwill will b be held In strict confidence and by no means meana appear these print t. t Letters Lettera requiring personal reply must be accompanied by In staIn BROKEN ENGAGEMENT M Miss Blair t whom I met md a girl ago aco ro ears ea Kd Three ed De who liked me We went ent and then b be be- r for two years It was not an and an- an ie no two families but our affair aced ted d M friends friend knew of or It Last October f moved mend to Salt Lake I visited her herD IC occasions and she like like- rise a lie D numerous visited me Then the blow Ie e. e time I visited d her she bad had LS list date bU the 5 5 to a high school h cadet ball baIL We Wo agreed 4 not to lo 50 go with an any others word about didn't tell me a 1 she be I 1 d when I arrived home I soon got sot lad jd of It and In hi a 1 moment of rare rage wrote and asked her for the thc ring however that she was wel- wel old aid her the lie presents I save gave her for or the ime me to o whIch t-whIch which were plenty pl plenty but but nt-but but lit at pe I also alio wanted my letters back I 1 Mired w wb what t I asked for and I re reined rented re- re ined her letten to her All I loved her Really loved lo at r. r I thought this might ds jar her to her ber senses but hat it failed reD iren weeks weeD later I wrote her and andIn gun In my love She anred an- an tred red and said that she hadn't found yoDe rone ei else els to take tate my place pIau and tb thithi thit hi lo loved d me inc I 4 WM IrIS U more more- than happy and an- an cred Immediately She did not aner an- an wet er this thu nor my next two attempts it j wd writing Un r. r Then I demanded an an- an iwer wu and believe me me I got it She aid II he she she didn't love lo me and that she sheW kd W another She Sho also said she was 1 but bat that she was va-s blue on the orty dIU i she wrote the other letter Of bourse urn earie It hit me pretty hard bec because use J l love ve her her- j Now ew she Is moving back here after afler graduated from rom a Salt Lake high school I love lo her and want her heraU herback back aU but bat I dont don't want to create the of crawling back to her Mf high school principal who is mi of ct my best friends and who has watched our romance from rom the bej be- be j called me In In after he heard we Te were through and said She Is net iii t the girl for you forget for et her My 1 unity and all my friends advise me inc her but I love Ilove her silly though thought it t seems teems Now 5 shall II I try to patch things up when she returns or not I am leav- leav D ig r town In July to live Un in Chicago Shall I go fO back or shall shan I tr try to forret for- for ret tf IDAHO j Tb To make the thc first overtures to the iri I who has told you ou she has found another other would immediately place her heron on the defensive To act ad as though you had literally token taken her at her word vOrd and had forgotten her would if there were a spark of love lo left lell in her heart for tor you ou drive her to take the first steps toward showing her all aff atc cc- cc ties o V I I advise very strongly that y you yu u I show particular attention toward an another another an- an other girl or other girls Sirls when your former Cormer sw sweetheart theart returns You can cando cando cando do M so in a particularly friendly way without ral raising ing any fa false e hopes in the I hearts of these others Call them on the telephone and be seen in their company often Whether the girl loves you or whether hether she doesn't you ou can accomplish your our purpose of either winning Jer her back or of planting the f first seed seedof of forgetfulness by having other wa warm m friendships and by treating her with Wol regard You have alre already dy told her that you loved her and you ou ha have e reaction to that declaration It is i her ker next move Your own indirect tactics accompanied by keen obserVation r Will be more revealing to her and lad less leu gall and wormwood for Cor you Ou You may find in the end that your high school principal and your family we lite right in their estimate of your fit- fit WM nw for each other UNPOPULAR Dear MUs Blair I have a problem that thai has been both- both lac me for some time I ha ha hac c often orten bun wen told tole that I was cute cuu I have pretty clothes more than any of my ray mends friends have good rood parents a good home name ane an and nice brothers I am a fresh fresh- H nun In high school se I seldom talk about anyone now as M l I once ance die did and as most of m mv my girl Erl Irl I h in do There was a time when I V Pe ed Ind and said unkind things about Ime They know what I 1 said sald hi bat I have ve turned over a new nc leaf lur When I un with a 1 group roUD of or girls the thc they set ad u at II If the they dou dont want mc mt Thy They B. B Tr Benr invite me e to te their homes or to I te with them This hurts me I Iain MI am very Tery Especial Especial- I Iy 7 Ni over the fact that a a. year or two it 01 l I as very popular I would be bo If you OU could tell teU roc me how bow 4 wIn fin hack my Popularity among amonI the Uie Whose hose friendship I have lost and Iw to win In n friends among others and andU andI U alit I p ap p ray my y personality It UNPOPULAR VENUS 11 a difficult f thing to regain a ao once n e abused kt Your o r saying tinCe tin un- ce fr d dB girls probably untrue things about f fe is nn on offense not easily iu louen Have Rave you OU ever tried Wed in iii any ay to COe correct the thc ha harm n done and to e full or amends before beCore these gir girls I so our lour It act It If II not y you u should do tb Wilt be the thc first sl step toward e of confidence Girls have a wa way of repeating wrongs done them to others and doubtless the girls who are now so cool coot to you mistrust you because of the thc things you said about others You Youcan Youcan Youcan can let them know too that you are arc really sorry orry about your past folly that you want their friendship Try to forget torget about your our cuteness cuteness cute cuteness ness your our nice clothes and other advantages They contribute very little toward your jour being popular Inthe in inthe inthe the ri right ht sense of the word Try rather to help somebody less fortunate fortunate fortunate fortu fortu- nate than yourself 1 to have hwe a good time develop a genuine sense of humor humor hu hu- hu- hu mor a sincerity a friendliness toward others regardless of a real or fancied coldness on their part toward you ou Friendship is very elastic and everybody regardless of the number of or friends they have ha can always make room for one more who proves her genuine worth Invite the girls to your home and let them know how genuinely you like them COLORS MAKEUP Dear Miss Blair Will you ou please tell me mc what colors I will look best in and what makeup I should use I have dark brown hair and nd eyes ees and a medium complexion R uR S. S Experiment with warm browns nasturtium shades reds Spanish tile black and white Use natural powder rose rouge and lipstick A ANOTHER SELF CONSCIOUS Dear Miss s Blair I am very self sell Do you think a I. I girl irl who Is Iser er very verj self-conscious self have bae charm Thank can ran you OU BEBE Self consciousness more than anything anything any any- thing else destroys charm If Ie you are pretty and are arc so self conscious about it that others know immediately immedi immedi- how much you ou love your own I. I looks your our beauty is spoiled for oth oth- ers era The same is true of all your ur other attributes You must know that your clothes fit that they are arc suitable in line and color then you OU must forget them You must know that your our manners have received correction to the thc point that you will give no offense to others then forget to try to make an impression impression sion Zion with them Self-consciousness Self is a curse If you ou would have friends and charm seek seck above all things else not to try to make an impression on others and to for forget ct self seIr as much as possible MA MATCHMAKING Dear Drar Miss Blair I have bave a very ery charming old fash girl Irl staying b In with me mc I would like so tiO much to have ha a certain young man fall lall for lor her hee Shall I tr try to bring them together In other words shall I try m my hand at matchmaking HOSTESS Nothing could b be sillier Invite your friends in and introduce them to your guest of or course If they like each other they will do so whether you take a hand in it or 01 not If H they dont don't they wont won't regardless of all the thc traps you ma may la lay for them Let them meet each other then leave them alone |
