Show C BETTY BLAIR w Affairs of the heart and kindred problems ONLY will be dis discussed discussed dis- dis is- is cussed In this department Letters questions ons arid and requests for advice should be addressed s 0 to MISS 1 BETTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S UA HAVEN VEN TELEGRAM It SALT 0 LAKE Write Writ legibly upon apon onI one side of or the thc paper It is necessary that you append the right name anti and address s 0 but bat these will win be held in strict confidence and will fUl by no means app appear ar in print Ed Dear Miss Blair Blak Vh What tare are some rc reasons sons for a a- fellow a a. all aU of a sudden I w. w it tt with a a. fellow who co confessed his love lore for me ne We had a very ery good time timet t together rether Then suddenly his calls ceased d I did nothing to hurt burt his feelings feelings feel leel- ings Im I'm sur sure I do not drink or smoke emoke an and this seemed to please him himy y very ry much Ve We J hid had d many tastes in common and W we often talked of how happy we should be after wo we were married I J c cant can't t forget rg t him himlIe He lIe was all aU th that t was was wonderful and kind It has been 3 long tonK time now since we went to to- to gether Please t tell teil U me why he stopped coming to see e me I shall shaU never forget forget for for- get him hlin and I shall shaU never love an an- other I dont don't want to logo po go with other boys Dont Don't you ou think he be still loves Ions me a a. little Is there any way I can canet get et him again Without him I cant can't go t on Also please tell ten me how I can stop slop dreaming about him Even if I make myself stop thinking of him the day he is ls always In my dreams at nJ night ht JACKIE YOU YoU yourself are areto to nursIng nursing nurs nurs- ing lag for Jor this b boy y and allowing allowing allowing allow allow- ing yourself to think of none but him The little groove once onee start started d by your thought processes has s worn a a. groove ia in your cerebrum that is 15 like a rut rutIn rutin rutin in a a. bad road hard to get out of Only by main force an and i hard pulling can you o get OU out ut onto the hard dry thy highway again and get your our cylinders cylinders ders all to working properly and your engine to chugging thug along again I at a happy normal norma rate of or speed This I I. advise you jou to do rather than to at attempt attempt at- at tempt to travel back along the old road There are many reasons why a boy ma may stop seeing seeing- a a. girl whom he has ha formerly liked very well He may find other interests that intrigue him more nore or he may just have lost In Interest interest jn- jn terest in ill the old order of things without without without with with- out any immediate prospects of new i interests There may be personal att attributes attributes at at- t tributes about the girl that are displeasing dis dis- dis pleasing and that begin to topaH pall paH on on the theys ys senses She may have ha certain mannerisms not be fastidious ous in In- Inthe the matter of bodily cleanliness cleanliness ness or dress she m may y take him too much for or granted olt oh oh there are a at t thousand usa d and andone one reasons why a a. boy may ay tire of oZa ofa a girl or oz vice versa TAKE lAKE AN INVENTORY INVENTORY- You can best figure this out for yourself if you will take an inventory of your jour assets and liabilities Check Checkon on your good and bad points and de decide decide dedde de- de cide what you can cando do about discardIng discarding discard discard- ing the bad and adopting something better In their place One way of helping you to forget Is Isto Isto isto to annex a a. number of new boys be bea a good pretender about the good time you are having haring Nothing like like success old sweetheart swe will think much more more of you jou if 11 he sees es that you are not drowning in a watery wa wa- tery e grave him i 1 Never mind about the dreams That is Just the way the subconscious mind has of compensating you for your loss When you begin to actually feel your loss less your jOUl dreams too will vanish Come on on my dear get hold of yourself Its It's all in a life time PARENTS RENTS OBJECT CT Dear Miss Blair Did I do right I fell in love Jon with witha a girl We e were going goin to lo jet t married then my father and mother saM salt I had to finish school and could not marry warn I am sure nrc thc hc loves me and I J Ilove love her Wo Yo hail had our wedding date dale tte set for Sunday Sanday March 23 Now she says she will have ha to wait until In my family consents but I J know thc they will n never give their consent as they ther dont don't like her I was wondering if iC I J should run rull away aay and marry her iter WONDERING Now Wondering dont don't do anything anything any any- thing rash You didn't state your our age but Ill I'll wager youre you're not a day over 17 and that is Just the age when one is Js hardest hit and least able to cope with the situation If you ou still sUlI love Jo the girl sirl after you have finished finisi s school and have reached your jour majority majority antI and if she still loves you you then then father and find mother and the whole world will be reasonable about the matter Remember Remember Re Re- member if it you ou arc are married before you are of age Pa and Ma will have havethe the he marriage annulled annuled and all you will have for your pains will ill be the notoriety Consider boy consider I FINDS TIlE THE HAPPY MEDIUM 1 I Dear Miss Blair I have Im read with interest the discussion discussion dis dis- dis on broadminded wives rives I see sec that It is a problem close to the hearts of oC many women I have bac lived ll it pro and con and will ill sa say that it is a conditIon condition con con- that no one person can con con- But I have hac found the happy bapp medium by divorcing the erring husband hus bus band and setting the dogs on the would would-be lovers lo that come my Wa way E E C. C Now Nov if that's striking striking- the happy medium I might suggest that those lacking the dogs doss take to the mountains and occupy a cave or bu buy an all island But I suppose having haing ab absolutely absolutely absolutely ab- ab nothing whatever to toO do with the men Is one way of avoiding trouble trouble trou trou- ble of or a sort After all life is selective tive U in that we all choose the nature of the troubles with which we wc shall deal And Anti 1 if 11 it isn't troubles having to do with love it may be with the furniture man And theres there's nothing like preparedness when it comes t to making the best of or our own TABLES AND SEATS AND SEATS AT BRIDGE Dear Miss Blair I am to give my first bridge luncheon lunch lunch- eon eon Please tell me inc whether place cards are to be used or how are arc tables and scats seats to be bc found OLIVE OLIVEn Place cards are arc unsuitable ble because the position of each player is determined determined determined deter deter- mined by cutting the two highest playing together as well as having choice of seats The players some times cut for lor tables as well as seats or the hostess may write four tour names on a slip sUp of paper and in this wa way seat together ers whom she thinks will be particularly agreeable to each other |