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S S TO io ft S' S BETTY I Letters and questions for tho the department Should be addressed to Miss I Cetty Hearts Heart's Haven Salt Sait Lake Telegram Write only on one side I of or th paper per It is necessary to append your you name and address but these thelle I are re held in confidence and will not be b published Lost and found notices ca cannot not b be published hed in the column I SHALL SHE MARRY Dear Miss Blair Again we aro are readers of The TheT T Telegram legram and so 50 I am m coming t to your corner with my troubles I I have been going with a boy since sincel l last st August and I think a a. great deal of him and he ho of m no ms He Ho buys m me most most anything I want anc and begs me to marry him But Miss Mis Blair my y health is in such a condition condition con can that I do not feel feet I could marry him He cannot see ace it that way and says he wants mo me as I Iam Iam Iam am but I am sure in time he would change chango hrs his attitude toward me because be be- causo cause of it ht Shall I marry him and take take- a chance on regaining my health af afterwards at- at or let things go 30 as they arc or oc quit him My mother says if ho Ito loves me mc he will wait Should I go c a accepting gifts from him I try to tell myself and others that I could forget him hini and that I dont don't love him but I am d deceiving myself myself myself my my- self when I do so so I am 21 years old Do you think I am old enough to judge judg for myself Ho is 30 Best wishes BLUES r Less than a a. year ago we had iad a aletter t letter Idler from rom a young oun man inait who was engaged ed lo to be married and nd whose problem was as similar lo to yours Blues lues Ills His fiancee wanted th tho marriage to take lake place so 50 o that she he could help hell care for him wa was vas wasa a n. pos possibility that good health might never nO be r restored stored It was our opinion ion on that the tho young youn man should not to 10 her hel wl wishes hes His Ills was an illness the thc tendency of oC which could bo be transmitted to offspring n and en cen considering considerIng- the the- possibility that there be no children it seemed a a. wholly unselfish gesture e luro on the part of or the girl verging on martyrdom martyr martyr- dom doin and a a. selfish act on tho part Q of the bo boy Ho lie was well taken care caro of or at homo home and his parents opposed to tIm the marriage marria e taking place until he had been restored to lu health or at least until cr c every effort bad been exhausted in the attempt Tho The girl Irl could visit him and anil heher he heher her and It seemed to 10 us the proper thing for them to 10 do was to lo walt wait However there were a number of our readers who took Issue with us on oil tIm Iho question and gave sa reasons some of oC them vcr er very valid Vh why the two should marry malT Would you OU like ike to lo read the issues that contain th these sc arguments Tho regular price of oC tho the paper for each Is Issue will be lIc charged The dates of oC their appearance appearance ap ap- as' as July 11 19 1929 which contained the thc first letter with our reply and J July ly It ti IS 18 is 23 23 J. J Other letters appeared intermittently after afler this but little that was new appeared ap ap- later titan than the dates given i cn Wo We 01 lle e e still sUII stron strongly ly o of 0 the opinion opinion opEn opEn- ion that a doctors doctor's verdict Is absolutely necessary ary under such stich condi condi- If tho tito malady Is not transmissible trans trans- lc if fr it Il is one that thal added ed jo joy and happiness may aid In hastening last hast cuing ening a cure if It It is ono one for which there thero I Is 18 no cure cuic but chances arc tha that t conditions nta may not be e worse for man many years e lS l'S lo to come some come sonic heart afflictions are arc like iIo this this thell then with the doctors doctor's consent we wc believe with our corre correspondents that one should hould take time b by the forelock and swing sving into Inlo each hour lOur and day dar as 38 much o of happiness as is to 10 be bo found We e hope that your jour our decision will bring no unha s that you OU will be unAble unable unable un un- un- un able to 10 turn into final lna jo joy Certainly Certain Certain- 1 ly with tho the issue before you ou you JO are arc old enough to decide what to do o. o SAVORY SAUCE Dear Miss Blair I am a great lover of sauces for formy formy formy my meat dishes I wonder if you have in in your files a recipe for a meat sauci sauce that has in it tomato catsup Worcestershire and a anum number number num num- ber bel of other ingred ingredients that I have forgotten Thank you in in advance for the favor SPICY Here t isa a savory or bauco sauco that for forone forono forono ono one who likes ilhes so sauces seems to be lie about what you OU arc are looking for One-fourth One cup tomato catsup cat 1 2 1 cup lemon Jemon Juice 1 ta tablespoon Worcestershire Wor or or 1 ta tablespoon grated hor horseradish 2 tablespoons minced celery 2 tablespoons grated rated onion 1 teaspoon tabasco 4 1 teaspoon tea tea- spoon noon salt saIL Mix the In ingredients to to- to 0 gether r and chill chili for or at least an m hour before serving The rho grated onIon ma may bo be omitted and a. a sprinkle o of onion salt sail o ed for a pickup You are nrc welcome GAS AND EFFICIENCY Dear Mi Miss s Blair To settle seUle an au argument between three of us will you please tell us when an automobile is using the most gas per mile when it is speeding speeding speed speed- ing or op when it is going slow I thank you for the answer M M P. P Eureka p. Eureka That depends upon the automo automo- bIte bill and an nn llo engineer would havo hayo to determine even en then whether at t fast or Ot slow travel el the most amount of ot gas is used Some automobiles operate at maximum efficiency between t twenty and twenty five five miles per lct hour Beyond Be De- yond ond that point on one is Just dust burning burning burn burn- ing gas Jas and not getting maximum efficiency Others travel tra la faster laster ler with maximum efficiency Wel come WANTS ANTS TO CHANGE Dear Betty Blair This is ni my first attempt to write you and I hope you will answer soon as I am planning to go to o Denver I have been wondering about the work there and to whom I could write for information about working conditions Is there a girls' girls home there similar to the Beehive here and if f so will you please give me the address addre s Thanking you I BIM BIMBO BO My 1 lear dear car I i wonder f If It you rou have fully considered your our plans to goto go goLo 0 to Lo Denver Den hero you OU arc aro entirely unknown to seek wor work You pcr- pcr I haps liap ps do not know that unemployment ment conditions arc are practically the same Iamo everywhere and that ahead of oC you 1 0 and on Oil waiting Ji lists tg for fOl ev every cv- cv cr ery cri p job there arc re dozens of 0 people an and names We 0 ill all have e to learn sooner or later aler that the pastures that look so 0 green elsewhere arc ale rall really no greener green green- er or than those in Ia which we browse ro but that distance lends enchantment enchant enchant- meat ment to tu make maize them seem so This doesn't seem to be an answering your our problem at all but bul im i'm Im I'm quite sure that to to answer answel- your our questions as ns you OU expect them to be answered would be far ar from solving your problem GIrls Girl planning to go o elsewhere to look for work should get in touch with the tho local Travelers Travelers' Aid so- so ciel ciely Our own can be reached b by calling Wasatch The rite truth of oC the situation will vill bo be told you ou just justas as I am ant telling It to you rou here herc and if It you JOU still gUll Insist on going further further fur fur- ther titer In information about getting gelling in louch touch with other Travelers Travelers' Al Aides es tho the offices of or which arc are located at atthe atthe the will be given biven Also Alio l o one can be bG sure of oC the service ser offered by ly the Y W. W C. C A. A where room loom an and board oard may be had providing providing pro pro- i viding you yon Oll take tako along with you OU chal character i But Bul you Ou will reconsider going oln to lo Denver Den or el elsewhere to lo look for wor work wont won't you ou Get right out on the tho job here Visit offices o ol of every description and keep on Oil going the rounds That's the way girls havo have to 10 do to find tind openings t I know now of oC two girls who have found foun jobs just recently b. b by hounding employment managers O Of course I really dont don't mean menn that work should be bo sought with the spirit that tho the word to 10 houn hound connotes but you OU must be earnest in your search Let me mc hear from from you YO again AMBITIOUS TO BECOME DRAPER Dear Miss Blair I have an ambition to m make and hang curtains for people I have a knack of doing those things but do you think it advisable for mo mc to try to work for trade in that line and to advertise to that effect Where can I get illustrated booklets on modern curtains and draperies 7 Seems to me that is a small art in in it itself elf Or if there is is such a booklet booklet book book- let to be found Id I'd like to got get afew a afew afew few pointers I would like to say to the girl in inthe inthe inthe the case of In Deep not to have anything further to do with such a small man even though he makes up his generous 7 1 mind to condescend to have her He would v be always holding h her r one mistake against her in his heart and would make mako her tier life a hIn h hIn h- h In Deep you'd better leave that good grI alone and get yourself one of the other kind The kind that hat has m made de so many m mistakes stakes they couldn't be counted the kind that NEVER TELL Thanks Miss Blair M MRS RS P P. P Indeed the making makinI and han hanging of oC draperies IS an art in tn itself and anti andi i a. very particular art But Bill I can see pee no reason wh why you ou could not 1101 be c a a. nice thing if iC ifon you on ott could coul get t em employment t in hi Int a drapery department opa for awhile to learn earn Just what whal detail I t hero thero is 11 in iii lulling putting up ill fixtures arranging pul- pul toys eys for the new lie draw lia curtains and he the many details that go 0 Into Inlo time lh- malin making and ind hanging of lC f artistic dra dra- Nearly every f womans woman's ma magazine Housekeeping Ladles Homo lomo Journal Womans omans Home Ilonie Companion and so o on carr carry nil ad- for curtain rods ami fixtures With Mich f advertisements come como pictures o of b beautifully hung hun draperies and as is a II rule lulo booklets atc arc offered either cither free e or for a nominal price the Illustrating newest new new- newest est cst rods and c curtains in S Send for sonic omo o of these a as many llY Ideas may maye be e had from them J If at nt first l ou nii do ilo not feel Cerl equal to 10 o the 1110 most t elaborate of or making and amid hanging hatting try tn th time the simple dra- dra lc first Ad l d should hrin you plenty o of returns for fOl or as asa a rule mo most t housewives tIme the thooM oM olal nina curia Ins a lon long time before the lr 5 tusk task l of oC S making and hanging f n new w Ol one fI I |