Show y Queries for this department should be addressed to Miss Mias Kathleen Kaye Department Salt Lake Telegram Salt Lake City Utah Queries are limited to toone one question each should be written on one side aide of the thc paper only with full name namo and address of writer appended also name or Initials to be used for Identification In column All names and addresses are held In strictest confidence Do not not- write In pencil Do not notS S S ask as asfor for private reply For special service e phone Wasatch between 11 and 12 o'clock When necessary phone for the location cf any c commodity mentioned In this department Dear Oear faiss iss Ka Kaye e 55 tt tf 1 1 am m in need of some some advice and f v I feel that you can give it It better tian anyone else So want to j join your circle if I may S J J My y trouble is this I have been TN married for several years YUI'S and have been quite happy until this win win- ter tel My husband has stayed stayed'S S 'S around home nearly all winter and he hc he has started to use very velY vulgar S 'S language I have pleaded and f begged him lim to quit it but the themore more mOle I s say y the worse he is J Now Miss Misa Kaye I havo have children A- A Aby S-S' S' by b a former fOlmer marriage and I dont don't want them to hear such language 5 They will naturally say what t theyS they S t hear oeal It t i also very embarrassing Sy vC when anyone comes in to visit visitor or 5 with us I have stood this as long t as I can So SOI I have decided to S tell toil him to move move on There are areS S also other good reasons Now could I ask for fol support 5 S. S for his old 10 baby and andt t get it If f I told tod him liim to go I have S no income ner-income income so would have to workS work S for fol a living I would rather dor do that than have my children say 1 r such things as are aie are said here J Thanking you you a It thousand times for the advice I am 0 DISGUSTED Utah S. S I understand and appreciate theS the S great almost overwhelming feeling S o of mother protection and love that wells ells up in your our heart when this condition seems to threaten your our S home and your children but dear hasn't hasn't it occurred to you ou that S something must have CAUSED all allS S this change in the thel husband with S whom wilom you have been quite happy I for years jears Has Baa it occurred to S 1 7 you oU to Jo Jook o k to the needs pf gf this L suddenly changed helpmeet and L through loving analysis discover rl and eliminate the ca cause use It is 1 5 riot not possible that he is ill ili- ili ilin on n the verge of giving way under some physical strain or s come me business 5 burden of worry Would it not I. I S ba have ve been better t to soothe and given to him more of love Jove and andi i i kindness when this new nosy trait sud- sud 4 of S denly developed than to emphasize It H. by pleading and begging him to mend his ways was In other otherS S i- i words Isn't it easier to GET by y 5 first firt t GIVING The husband can be compelled S S to provide for his babe babe unless unless he is clever enough and unscrupulous 5 enough to escape the law Jaw Consult an attorney and have this point explained legally Has it occurred d to you that it might bo less difficult to pacify and instill harmony and vend calm inthe in inthe the mind of ot this turbulent one than It would to assume the burden burden burden bur bur- den ot of providing for and rearing the family alone Is it not possIble possible possible pos pos- sible that there would come times when you'd have choice asto as asto asto to the atmosphere into which your little ones would be thrown and that it might prove equally as bador bad bador or even worse worse than at the present time This is a grim old world and often otten it shows its teeth to the lone Jone woman set adrift with her babes So think well Make your our de decision decision decision de- de only after careful delibera delibera- tion Y You u dare not chance hurting instead o of helping your cause So Sc know the situation Then Thon if it you discover that you can solve the problem of ot home making and rearing better alone than with the husband advise him of that and arrange in an amiable way for a ase se separation Dear Deal Miss Kaye Kayer Will Wiil you kindly explain what is meant by the tho mail franking privilege lege recently granted to Florence Kling Harding Halding Was this same pl privilege ever granted to a former presidents president's S wife Thanking you in advance I MRS J. J N. N Salt Lake The mall mail franking privilege as granted to Mrs Harding gives herthe herthe her herthe the privilege of ot sending matter through the mails malls without postage Mrs Harding Is' Is is is' the only presidents president's dents dent's wife with this privilege but buta a resolution has been Introduced I just now with reference to securing securing ing inS the same privilege for j Mrs Irs Wilson You are welcome Dear Miss Kaye I I I I This is the first filst time to o come cometo cometo cometo to you and I hope I may be wel wei- come We are from flom Colorado and we brought two black kitten with us but they died My girl I Is heartbroken Will you please help me to get two little black cats They must be Jet black I am willing to pay 1 apiece for them I Do not let them be brought to my address addle s but have me phon phoned d at I Wasatch 1257 I BROWNEYES Salt Lake Ill I'll page the cat owners here owners here I and now Browneyes and hope for results for yo you Ah kiddies dear who wants to sell a black kitten tor orP a dollar dolIar The lady who wants to buy two Jet black kittens is at Wasatch 1257 so make hay before belore the sun sun shines or or ot- whatever it is we do dowhen dowhen when we want to prove that the early bird gets the breakfast Dear Deal Miss Kaye Do you remember me I am the theone theone theone one who asked you to help me se select se- se set lect a Christmas present for an aj old fl friend end of mine You suggested hat I get him a silk muffler and a book called The Master of the Inn I went to the book store several weeks w before Christmas and they assured me ma they would have this book in stock about three weeks I before Christmas However when I I went to purchase the book they knew nothing of promising me and I doubt if they did have it in stock at the time I asked them It was too lae lafe then to send elsewhere for fora a copy so so I just picked out a real nice bray gray silk muffler and packed it nicely in a very velY pretty box My friend was indeed pleased and wrote me the following I got the card you sent me ma and I Iwas was glad you remembered me Then I got the beautiful scarf I am tie tie- de lighted with it and thank my little littie lit lit- lit lit- tle tie friend for fol her kindness to me I cant can't express myself to you you you- haven't got the words wOlds to do so His daughter also wrote and I thanked me me She said her hel dad does not say much when he is pleased but there is a certain smile comes on his face that tells the story and after he received my present ho he smiled all day long So Miss Kaye I wish to thank you for helping m me pick out something some some- thing that pleased this dear old ma man n. n I min I am m planning on going to see this old friend this June and he I I is tickled to death as his nis daugh ter tel writes it to see me I will write I you again if I make this wonderful wonder wonder- ful trip and tell you all about it May I I would to like take a little more of your precious time timo for the following fol fol- fol lowing problem if I may I am working in a position where good memory comes in very velY handy and I find it ver very difficult to re remember remember reo re- member different cases As soon as I lam am am through with one matter and I I I I I take up another the first first one is then forgotten and if anyone should ask me certain details about it I Iam Ian am an at a loss to bring the matter U up p. p Is this due clue to the fact that I donot do donot donot not concentrate enough I 1 do at times often find myself wandering far from the subject I Iam Iam Iam am working on Could you give me the names of any books in the public library that might help me mo master this difficulty difficulty c culty u ity I might also mention that I read very little as I find it very hard hald to get interested in a a book or ar article are ar- tide of any kind but perhaps if I could get the right book on this subject I might be able to force fOlce myself my my- self to read road it I hope I have made myself clear to you Very VelY truly yours JUST THOUGHTS Salt Lake Deed I do remember you you you-you you and the sweet pathetic story of ot your our romance Had h hOped ped ped you might come again It Is a real joy to know that we weI I succeeded in making this aged friend happy isn't it Sorry about the book boole but maybe it 11 is just as as' vell Well Well-we'll well we'll have it J left leftover ft J over ver for another another an an- i other time and hell he'll enjoy it as much then You'll find at the pUb public library t three books that I think may prove v very ery helpful to you my dear and andI I assure you you that you can do much t toward oward the cultivation of perfect c concentration and memory Look t these hee books book's up up Then 1 if you OU feel t the he need need of something with which t to o supplement s them come come t to t megain me a again gain Attention by Pillsbury Practical Mem Memory Memdry ry Training by Dumont and The Tho Psychology of ot Learning by All Alt joy to you on on n your trip to t the the he South J. J T. T I need not wish t that hat for tor the aged friend aged friend for I know his cup will run over Please do doell I t tell teU ell me all an about it when you re re- re t turn urn I shall shan look forward to your l letter Jetter Dear Miss Kaye Just to settle an argument will you kindly tell me methe the dhe names of the two leading banks in Los Angeles Angeles An An- Angeles An- An geles I Thanking you in advance I beg bego to t o remain yours yo ls l's very very respectfully MR ALA Salt Lake are hardly classified in that way Mr Ala but two Im Important import important im- im port nt banks of Los Angeles are the Pacific Southwest Trust and Savings bank and the Security Trust and Savings bank r Banks are legion in Los Angeles there t ere being possibly in all alJ and many of ot them very large and Im Important Important Important Im- Im so your query is not Just answerable I In iii the way you likely thought it would be You are very welcome Dear Miss Mis Kaye Kayet There has been a discussion over ovel the famous colored come comedian ian Bert Willi Williams late of the Follies who died recently One Ono Party says that he was a member of the Masonic order ordel not the colored Masons but that he was the only colored person in the world who was as so honored to as become a member of this order ordel He also states that he read in a that Bert Ben paper papel Williams was buried from the Masonic temple The other party says this js is impossible Can you give us something def def- mite and authentic of this lar case Thanking you kindly we remain Sincerely ZEV Salt Lake Sorry to have kept you waiting for this answer Mister Zev but my mv search carried me far and therefore consumed a hit bit of time Bert Williams the I colored comedian corneI come corne- I dian was a member of a regular lodge It Is said that he was made a Mason in SiC Scotland and that he lie demitted to ta a lodge in New Brans Bruns- wIck On his de death th st St. Cecile lodge N No of f K New York City CitY CitY-a a lodge the composed of ot people connected with theatre conducted the regular funeral service over his body in the Masonic temple New ew York City Does that settle your your dispute Mister Zev lt Tt should I I. I think You are welcome To JIM JIM- Through a little error error that crept Into your answer I fear that yu might be badly impressed so BO wish vish I to correct it Upon entrance to West Vest Point one signs an agreement agreement to remain in the army eight ears t years subject to discharge but the te four years in school figures as the first half haIt of the period service makIng it only four after graduation Sorry Dear Miss Kaye I am going to move soon and I am so afraid of moving Into a house where there thele are bedbugs Do Do- you think if I would fumigate first it would assure me of getting rid Iid of them 1 If so what could I use I Miss Kaye you have received so many lovely compliments to say I more mOle would only be to repeat so 0 I J Iam am just Gen sending you my vel very best I I wishes for good health and continued continued con con- success With love S SUNBEAMS Salt Lake It If the fumigation iere were thorough it should guarantee against any possible house pests Thank you Sunbeams You could wish me me nothing nothing- better than that f I Dear Deal Miss I Kaye aye I am an interested reader of your Telegram and get lots of knowledge knowledg from your our department Would you please tell me how to get the lint of a velvet dress It ItIs Itis Itis is always looking so when I look down it Also Also- how do you press presa velvet The most satisfactory brush for velvet is an ordinary paint brush brush- the kind one would buy to paint a barn It isn't even necessary to buy an expensive one I Pressing is more or or less Jess damaging damaging damaging ing to velvet and little is accomplished accomplished I by it anyway So the better better better bet bet- ter plan is to refrain retrain from it as much as possible and on rare occasions occasions occasions oc oc- oc- oc send the garment to the presser 1 You are very welcome 1 Dear Miss Kaye Will you please give gi me tho the re receipt receipt receipt re- re for making chili It has been quite a while since I I have havo bothered you With every evelY good wish and love I SNOWDROP OP Tooele I Surely Snowdrop Think you'll Wee like the one that follows CHILI CON CARNE CAHNE Two cupfuls cooked pinto or Mexican be beans ns one cupful coarsely coarse coarse- ly Jy chopped beef one onion one pint canned tomatoes one teaspoonful teaspoonful teaspoonful tea- tea spoonful chili chUi powder two and one half cupfuls salt about one and one-half one cupfuls water A s scant nt cu cupful ful of dry beans will willbe willbe be 00 needed Soak the beans overnight overnight overnight over over- night in water to bover over add one teaspoonful of ot salt saIt and cook until tender Drain add the meat the tho onion chopped the tomatoes the chill powder and the rest of the salt sait Cook slowly for about one hour or until tho the meat In thoroughly thorough thorough- ly done Add water during the cooking as needed to keep the consistency consistency consistency con con- of a thick soup |