Show Advice to Mothers Mot e I ao pave gave me such sock tied good 10 YOU Y vice Yb once that th t 1 I thwart thought t I would ask aft your advice again I 1 saw w In lu a paper Duper the tile theother theother other our day that babies bodes should wear wr bands until after net their second arm summer Now w I have haw two friends They TheyOne Mh hays have boys One of them never had haAI hada a a lead band wi on ea U 14 He is N 7 1 months month old TIM The Theether hs ether em en w III I 1 year ear old and only wore on m ha was ws l a months mont old My lay y bahr fb a girl rl S I months month old Should I 1 keen bends bands III on her ber through the hot titer And her little shirts are an halt half echo sad and half bait wool Should I put thin tl ft cotton ones OMS on her ber during dura the hot hott t Should 14 the bands be the one Apr plat hat pin around or should hould they en Ute id r Thanking c you OIl m let ad adfor advance vance for tor year kindness I remain ANXIOUS 0 Tb TIle The advantages of the ban no 63 ia toN fold k It maintains an even eve team of ot Ute the lb bowels and aDd aDdit by pern NUH listens If lf It does not t ab absolutely avoid the tile danger of rupture n Fleshy babies bahu often ottea rupture the thin inner wall wan of at the abdomen by fits ats of ot passionate scream screaming ing coughing and aad violent straining the ther body r backward In III the theto manner peculiar to enraged Infancy TIle The day a has baa peed ed whom when w Mrs In muscular fingers strapped t the e tender lender r ruIc trunk up In III divers eIly of fit stout flaunt flannel bound it into the mr and ud hardness of ot a drum druID and aDd assured the anxious mother that its little Insides would never DeYer keep k their place pine without ut the tile band was wu kept tight an all the Ute time dame day and night The be band of at today to ay aya is isa Isa a light and easy any eM burden by comparison i It should be beb made farads of o punt gauss 1 k Warp is 18 all aU around with white ribbon or a flee fits silk galleon sod and smoothly about abort the abdomen ft with email ata tU U fat safety sty ely pins Dina It is le kept iron from slipping nipple down was or up try by It being planed pinned to 0 tile t e waist wa and DeI the napkin napalm In summer it ita JIB h a ua e safeguard t against sudden sodden deli and aDd by keeping uy lV a very slight night friction oe prevents l ta the ale which I Is often onea a precursor of ot summer com I SCARCELY know bow how bow to adds address a letter Ietter Jett to an q abets abstract a at t t bat but I 1 foul fed t that a page PACe oe out of d my experience may mily be eC of t tJ anus anos to M J J 1 D I too Law have Are chit chU drew dren and a few years as ago age I might t h ba bare v made the same mess lament but bat I can truth fully say any y that I hiv have s succeeded kt la bet lost conditions smell boas boasI I wonder It if M J J 1 D in is the tile egotism of eC young motherhood did not lOt assume burdens voluntarily which wbk should horrid have ba ve bps shared with the husband from the T t It If you want It a husband who wM Is I keenly MeDay appreciative of his I 8 hour home you roar should marry a man aa who has been home t less Ier a for tor a while w One ODe who steps from trona one sped good home to another f is Ie apt to a take things as a matter of course My MT bus hus band has hs au an aD unselfish mother who brought up her two sons scam to expert expel a aIU number IU of little services that flat they should have learned Jeu ed to perform for fortha tha I 1 won soon found out that I could not Ot care can for f my home and my I Y chil ebU children dren dnn and aDd perform those duties duttee so eo be between bet tween t important things and aDd those I 1 atm aim simply ply dropped them from flOlD my list I Of or course coarse there the was some and andas an as injured sir air Ir but 1 assured him blat I would be very vary glad sIad to look after attar his bAa hi clothes It if he would wash the dishes and tend tead the babies iambi I managed aced to keep my temper tamper per perthe and the affair a adjusted Itself Still I until I was threatened with nervous neno prostration tiara tion I shouldered the whole care caN of the children and plumed myself upon doing a virtuous set act Then when I 1 had bad virtu virtually any ally shut him ham out of ot all that tender care careo o helpless s children which would have bave been such suds a developing develop force torce la In his I 8 char character acter I felt injured to think be was wu so ao soh helpless h with them But I hid had d to leave them to a him while I 1 got sot rested up a little and aDd when I returned I found we w had bad both Nth learned earned a lesson I 1 learned kerned that I was not so eo necessary y a part of ofu the u household lIa T mil a as s I 1 had bed supposed sad and he be learned armed to get close doH to his bIa children cI and nd they had land learned burned to call till on ou sane papa for lor things and I am glad stad to say y I 1 had hd tense nine enough to let Jet them continue to de depend depond pond pend upon ullOa him blat Ive often otten stayed in lit bed by sheer force of will wUI while w he wrestled with a croupy croup baby bab but be has au been Just juet as u successful a nurse aura as U myself It ItIe He Ie e does doe not wee see things to be a done do but I 1 Iam Iam am am a no longer shy y about telling letting Mm him I 1 Itell Itell tell him Wm frankly that I 1 want waat to a get set out outa a little uWe and be ho stars sari with the children claUdren and end lest hat he should get out of ot practice I often go PI when 1 had much rather rater stay atay at home belne Then I wonder if It M 11 J 1 D ha has bu tried bringing her housekeeping down clown to a its simplest pleat form farm tor I 1 cut off oil d desserts except for tar Sundays Sunday and ad especial occasions Thy They an are much uch more appreciated now JIOW than when what w they tile came CIaIO as s a matter of course co Now they theyan theyan an are served as s little surprises and add Ud an unwonted unwanted seat lest to the meal Then Ive rye bared shared the work with the children and Its Jr wonderful how many stops step they thes can ean save I They make their own beds bed and keep hoop their rooms in order onIer carry carrr the lb wood wash weak the supper dishes dV even IT the little YeaM helP helps to clear dear the table taLle and nd wipes the tile knives and aDd forks tOIka They all aU n have baY their little UWe duties and aud taM take them week about In turn tuna They TIley also darn their own stockings I 1 must confess all 11 their the little efforts dona donot do make mab the tile work easy tuy but it does do ig ten It It t and ad I know it is U forming their characters and sad is quite s a much a part of the education oa as what they get pt in school I 1 think there then is w I I where bere the mother has the th advantage There is III not DOt room in Is the tha kitchen for tor both a servant sad and children During vaca vacation Oa the two elder eider take turns turu getting our simple pie breakfast and nd are very vGO proud of their ability ab tty In that Une nue The eldest child is 18 Just jut 11 but ut they tIMy have been doing these theM things thin for tot several rat years y I 1 pay Day them I 5 cents cento a II week and that is s their pocket money There Then is III no teasing tearing for tor pennies and lid they know they the have hays to buy pencils note iota notebooks books boob and nd the small u school necessities put of this lucerne income Carelessness about Out their rooms and hanging up wraps Is fined ft ed one oue cent Now How one on word more let every enry mother her paste put this where she sin can see It ONE UNSELFISH it CAN CANA AND A D WILL RAISE A BROOD OF or CHILDREN TO 10 MAKE OTHER OIHER WOMEN WODEN MISERABLE l 1 I can caD scarcely I hops hope that all al th will get st into print but It is the result of ot years JelUs experience and may help belp some loses om OD to results met much earlier inthe struggle t Arid And remember that what is sheer eft Drudgery to the wife wit may be ho a pleasing dUmP change for the man sn of the tile Loans house it Is b worth w b trying anyway MO D O G GP A Ap AP p SoD LOn On reading read this over I find fad you may think thick I let my y husband do all u th the getting up tights nights hut but I d my snare share and nd ad 1 I let Jet him off of 0 when 1 I know DoW he is i tired I have hairs let our ear independent l with wife and maths u tell HU an en story atos fa to her ber herB own B way a without Muir acS ee or com comment e ment meat She be does don it at cs ro SU te s sone some one plain truths truth S SN She take u takes t ground around and It must be owns 11 It t reasonably well ell I am curious to what other mothers think of ot her plan Amusement blends bl with curiosity when J I speculate peculate as to what hat the average man a ef r toe he house bouse would nave have to say ay on Oft the if It be had bad 3 obese to free hM high mind J |