Show don t live a self centered life nine times in ten when you find a person who isn t getting as much out of his life as he should who wants more friends than he has who isn t altogether happy with bis existence you U find if you probe deeply enough that that person Is too self centered although they don t know it ally this condition of being self centered starts in childhood As a child the person was babied by his parents he received so much notice that when he left home he f felt elt letdown neglected signed when the world didn dian t treat him as his parents had so he re tired in a shell in one office I 1 know there was a girl who didn dian t have a friend for three months she had worked there not one of the other girls had paid the slightest attention to her one day she came to me b broke roke down cried said she was miserable they don t pay any attention to met me she sobbed do you pay any attention to them I 1 asked no no I 1 don t then that s the trouble if you want to be friendly with these girls you have to show them that you are friendly with them it if you are living a self centered life now the best thing for you to do is is live more with other people and show shoy them that they are important to you |