v A . 1 teens are cats Mothers Day, May 11 4 ft- "fist kies by Design M-F 9-6 Sat 9-1 3224 North University Ave. Provo, Utah 84604 (801) 818-2177 or (888) 765-8398 ORDER ONLINE cookiesbydesign.com or cookiebouquet.com Btrduiiiui ujj Gifts 7 -n M J, A BKS'f CHAIRS, in;. Madame "Qn Alexander J lJ GUT CERTIFICATES AVAILABLE Ladies Hankies & Linens Fine Tea Sets & Giftware Furniture and Home Decor Special Mother's Day Favor with Purchase of Mother's Day Gift. While Supplies Last. FREE Gift Wrap. (y Author Unknown I just realized that while children are dogs ... loyal and affectionate ... teenagers are cats. It's so easy to be a dog owner. You feed it, train it, boss it around. It puts its head on your knee and gazes at you as if you were a Rembrandt painting. It bounds indoors with when you call it. Then around age 13, your adoring little puppy turns into a big old cat. When you tell it to come inside, it looks amazed, as wondering who died and made you emperor. Instead of dogging your doorstep, it disappears. dis-appears. You won't see it again until it gets hungry ... then it pauses on its sprint through the kitchen long enough to turn its nose up at whatever you're serving. When you reach out to ruffle its head, in that old affectionate gesture, it twists away from you then gives you a blank stare, as if trying to remember where it has seen you before. You, not realizing that the dog is now a cat, think something some-thing must be desperately wrong with it. It seems so anti- 6 i y social, so distant, sort of depressed. It won't go on family fami-ly outings. Since you're the one who raised it, taught it to fetch and stay and sit on command, you assume that you did something some-thing wrong. Flooded with guilt and fear, you redouble your efforts to make your pet behave. Only now you're dealing deal-ing with a ' cat so everything that worked before now produces the opposite of the desired result. Call it and it runs away. Tell it to sit and it jumps on the counter. The more you go toward it, wringing your hands, j the more it moves away. Instead of continuing continu-ing to act like a dog owner, you can learn to behave like a cat owner. Put a dish of food near the door and let it come to you. But remember that a cat needs your help and your affection too. Sit still and it will come, seeking that warm, comforting lap it has not entirely forgotten. Be there to open the door for it. One day your grown-up child will walk into the kitchen, give you a big kiss and say, "You've been on your feet all day. Let me get those dishes for you." Then you'll realize your cat is a dog again. "Being a full-time mother is one of the. highest salaried jobs ... since the payment is o o a 128 N. 100 E. Lehi 768-9201 pure love." Mildred B. Vermont