Standard-Examine- WOMEN ALONE r Sunday June 24 1973 Some Tours Tailored for Single People husband insists on picking up the i woman Even if you know her checks and tells you to “forget well and think you get along about it” you are in for trouble you invite conflict (The only The wife will resent your not worse arrangement is three or carrying your own part of the four women — there will always load even if you take htem for be one odd man out the others And pick on meals afterwards sometimes the husband I have two friends both in second doubts too their thirties who this year The best way is to have the went to Miami at the height of wife take care of the budget so the season February They took that you are sure to pay your a room at an inexpensive hotel (shared it for economy purproper share The one thing I don’t advise is poses) and tripped off each going on a trip with another night to a spot called the Poodle By ISABELLA TAVES A letter in hand from an enterprising woman who loves to ski complains that all the package skiing trips offered by groups are for couples not singles She has gone skiing alone in the United States but would love to take a junket to Europe and not alone This is a problem I once tried traveling alone to the Orient I worked hard getting names of people whom I could contact in various cities On the whole it was fine (to look back on) but there were some lonesome and a few scarey moments I just wouldn’t have the courage to do it again and I am not eager to travel alone in Europe even though I have some friends living there simply because I don’t want to impose Then what to do — stay home? 5s -- N J'" s 's'ss 55 s s Y' o - 5 SsV ' K V ' si s' much-publiciz- MRS y''’ to friendship But we will be part of such a large group that I hope to meet a few congenial w'omen who will X DAVID F KLOMP Temple in SL Chosen For June Wedding Rife Temple was the setting for the JoAnn of Miss marriage Stephenson to David F Klomp Thursday The new bride is the daughter of Mr and Mrs Melvin J Stephenson of 5179 S com-pansio- ) t j HOUSE For her wedding and the reception which followed that evening at the White House in South Ogden the bride chose a lovely floor length gown of silk The gown was organza an fashioned with empire bodice a lace accented by overlay Silk seed pearl with daisies organza centers trimmed the overlay the skirt and the train of the dress Attending the bride as matron of honor was Mrs Drew7 B Karen Nelson of Milton Bride of Early Summer SOtJt leStfUiS'Sf 80-ear- -o sunburn to show for the whole outing There is a singles country club being advertised now in upstate New York If it succeeds the idea might catch fire in other parts of the country But the singles cruises and tours which were once so widely advertised have died down I MRS DAVID M LOTT think the reason they were such flops was that there wrere always more women then men and most of the men who shelled out cash to go on them were looking for rich women So even if you were young witty and had a charming gorgeous figure unless your In a ceremony solemnized the neckline empire waist and bank roll wTas well upholstered Thursday in the Ogden LDS the ruffle of the floor length — forget it the former Miss skirt Temple AFTER THEIR MONEY Mrs Thomas Weir attended became the bride Jeanne Knight Of course if you have a well of David M Lott Elder LeRoy the bride as matron of honor padded bank account there are Oaks officiated expensive w’orld tours which Announcement of the with Miss Cheryl Jensen as maid of honor and Miss Karen last long enough so that you get is made by the bride’s Robinson as bridesmaid marriage on with everyone acquainted parents Mr and Mrs W John board SCOOP NECKLINES of 1256 Harrop I have a friend who did this Knight Their of son a The is matching ensembles of bridegroom soon after her husband died and 2805 N 450 pink dotted swiss had scoop of Mark Mrs Lott she has gathered to her as a E in North Ogden and the late necklines and high peasant three or four old 'Mr Lott result waists and completed with floor widowers I haven’t seen any of and the For her length skirts marriage them but from her reports at that later Serving best man duties was evening these old gentlemen arc so reception 40th LDS Ward the Ogden Randy Mathis with Tim Knight worried she is after their money Cultural Hall wore Dave Knight Jeff Lott and a bride the that they come and camp on of chiffon white Brent Gourley as ushers model her doorstep instead of taking lovely over After a wedding trip to Heber taffeta her riding in their Cadillacs wras styled with long puffed City the newlyweds will live in It The best solution I know of sleeves and lace trim accenting Salt Lake City was hit on by a newly divorced friend of mine who persuaded a bachelor in her building to take a trip to Africa on a working basis She would take pictures and he would write articles which they hoped to sell to travel magazines I was impressed when I heard what she had arranged for although the bachelor is far too cagey to be considered eligible he is attractive amusing and would make a fine companion and escort on a trip Everything j j went fine returned still good ready to do business But their merry friendship blew up when her films came back Not one of them had turned out They friends and he was fit to be tied THE RIGHT THING Focus Dinner's Spotlight on Yourself “enneed don’t By ELIZABETH L POST — DEAR MRS POST: I would tertainment” they’ll just like to know how you would want to know about you serve a dinner to two older MRS POST: I would married couples I am fifteen DEAR and I have never had any ex- like to know why the groom has perience serving a dinner like so little to do with a wedding? this The question is: How It seems like the groom and his would I entertain them? — family are on the side ines they i JV r 0 MRS H THOMAS WARNOCK NEWLYWEDS Vows Repeated In LDS Temple LAYTON — Announcement is Cindy DEAR CINDY: Your older friends (or relatives) will be interested in what you have been doing — in school or in the way of hobbies sports etc Plan a dinner that will let you spend your time with them not in the kitchen A casserole and a salad that can be made ahead of time would be perfect EXAMPLES OF WORK Then collect some things to show them — pictures of your last vacation or school friends have made you anything such as knitting Show painting or macrame them some examples of what you are doing in your school work These couples must be quite close to you since you are having them for dinner — so yourself being involved in nothing and feeling rejected Is this the way all formal weddings are conducted? — Lisa DEAR LISA: For hundreds of years brides’ families all over the world have made the arrangements for weddings Until recently the great majority of women did not work and they had the time to make the plans and carry them out Today however most girls do work and very often the men do (and should) share in the decisions plans and responsibilities But it is still true that the bride and her family are responsible for most of the However the groom’s family should never feel rejected They The bodice cuffs and collar Mr and Mrs Harold G of Stanley N C War-noc- k OTHERS i ATTENDING The matron of honor Mrs Richard Anderson and the maid of honor Miss Irma Tremelling TrMriE vows wore floor length lavender The young couple repeated gowns of floral dotted swiss marriage pledges on Friday in with empire waists trimmed a ceremony solemnized in the with lace Salt Lake LDS Temple with Attending matrons Mrs Mrs Elder Derek Metcaff officiating Wanda Webb Clyde Christensen Teresa Mrs the honored and a reception couple that evening at the Allen and Miss Diana Alldredge woe gowns similar to the maid Layton LDS Stake Center The bride was lovely in a and matron of honor’s in pink floor length gown with empire floral dotted swiss waist of chiffon over satin It Clyde Christensen served as had a standup collar and long best man with Dave Tremelling full sleeves with wide cuffs i and Steven Hadlock as ushers I f h r 11 up-to-da- te relieving pn C Lru Introducing - War-noc- of Korat Thailand DEAR MRS R: The answer really depends on the closeness of the relationship When a brother or sister or a niece or a nephew gets married you should send a gift no matter how long it may have been POST: Our since you have seen them DEAR MRS family moved out of state Beyond that however no fourteen years ago but we SEND ANNOUNCEMENTS continue to receive invitations More-dista- nt relatives for w'eddings engagements etc Although we are happy to know especially in large families about these different affairs we !need not be sent gifts unless are not financially in a position your relationship with their to send gifts for all of these parents has remained close occasions (they occur rather When “the shoe is on the other frequently) foot” the bride’s family should Please tell me if we are send distant and “long-lost- ” obligated to send a gift when we relatives announcements rather invitations receive an invitation and the than thereby cannot we knows them of any there family attend — Mrs L R obligation should be consulted and kept on all that is going on If a groom’s parents feel that they are being left out they should tell their son and through him ask that the bride’s family keep in touch with them wredding preparations CONSULT PARENTS trimmed with rose made by Mr and Mrs Lester were C Tremelling of 518 Kingston of patterned lace and the dress was the marriage of their daughter accented by a floor length k chiffon train Rosa Lee to H Thomas Parents cf the bridegroom are ed Ogden Miss N Ogden Man Say Temple Vows ns j Parents of the bridegroom are Mr and Mrs Spencer J Klomp of 2500 Fillmore Ogden f traveling ! 2050 W J pleasant Several years ago I took a similar junket (although this one was mixed male and female with the Overseas Press Club to South America Robins with Mrs Randy M and I made some interesting Lake and Mrs Linda Pales as friends In times past when my attending matrons Bridesmaids husband and I traveled we were Jo Anne Madsen and looked down our noses at the ill-- ! Kathy Klomp assorted little groups which They wore floor length gowns trouped en around eating of yellow dotted swiss White rooms in hotel masse dining eyelet trimmed the empire loading on and off buses waistline and puffed sleeves of But the longer I am alone the each gown while a white collar this is the way to think I eyelet and daisy appliques (more — a with group of strangers go trimmed the scoop neckline will be alone of whom MRS NORRIS G CALL many FLOWER GIRL too Little Joni Klomp served as The airlines and American flower girl She wore a yellow Express have such tours and I dotted swiss gown styled in the have two single friends — one a same design as the other at- man the other a woman — who !have enjoyed them enormously tendants 'Here I think it is better to go was as man best Serving with Ralph alone pay a little extra for a Spencer F Klomp 1 ar Bob single room so that you can Klomp Greg Klomp MILTON — Mr ' and Mrs! honor They wore floor length retire in privacy and take your Bell as ushers E- announce the gowns of deep blue polyester After a wedding trip to Lake chances on meeting a fewiCarl of their daughter styled with tucked bodices Tahoe the young couple will congenial people marriage make their home in Salt Lake In one case my woman friend Karen to Norris G Call son of button trim and short puffed struck up a friendship with the 'Mr and Mrs Grant A Call 0fisleeves- City ATTENDING MATRONS Rancho Ogden was psychology LDS Temple Mrs Robert Saunders and Th Salt moonlight ng My provided the setting for the Mrs John Murdock served as always has a few ladies a e marriage vows spoken Friday J attending matrons with Valerie such a top but his favorite is MFoIlowfng a Call and the ceremony Call as Roxy 7 0 far was an the Milton bridesmaids was at held wore They light who could outwalk any other reception blue polyester gowns styled in woman in the gro p For nuptial events the the same design as the other WITH A COUPLE? bride was lovely in a model of attendants If you know a couple well silk organza and lace over! Best man duties were per- enough and you are sure they taffeta Her gown was fashioned formed by Jay R Call with Lee (with accent on the wife) want with a stand up collar long full Nelson as head usher Gary John Murdock and you traveling with them can be sleeves which were gathered to Nelson w’ide Robert buttoned cuffs Saunders served as two IF’s with big great ushers First you must arrange in chapel length train advance about paying your Attending the bride as matron After a wedding trip to of honor was Mrs Lee Nelson Southern Calif the newlyweds share of everything including meals car rent etc When the with Renske Haslam as maid of will make their home in Ogden ROY — The Salt Lake LDS WHITE be ve attitude general laizzez-fair- e who returned with only a bad stick together — too dangerous N 's They managed to get along without serious trouble until one girl stayed out all night When she got in the friend had her bags packed and sent them down to the lobby she didn’t even let her get into the room NOT SPEAKING The result a predictable result is that they now aren’t speaking If you are an aggressive single a cruise or a weekend at which hotels of the one in singles might be specializes for you Frankly either one would scare the willies out of me And I have one friend who wrent on one of these glamorous “club” junkets with a beach for nude swimming and a super-aggressi- ON MY WAY now as you read this I Right will be in Israel at a meeting of the World Association of Women Journalists and Writers I only know one other woman who is attending and we don’t plan to t Bar at one of the big hotels where the men are The Louise OVER YOUR SELECTION Capless Wig by Eva Gabor Experience its Wonderful Soft Natural Feel It looks very natural feels very comfortable See it todayl 5 john's jewelry e o PHONE 393-900- 3 3480 WASH BLVD IN STOCK FOR have a sense of adventure? 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