Page C2 THE DAILY HERALD, Provo, Utah, Thursday, January rm Y' LMaettJ I Chris Tenney Kristin Heaiey ; Lj&i ' 18, 1W6 m V 11 If ,tmini ..'f jfe Vivy Casey Cook . Rebecca Brown .I'll mJt Iffi fi. ,,ri ir.1, Nate M. Pehrson Rachelie Coleman Heaiey, Tenney Brown, Cook Coleman, Pehrson Kristin Heaiey, daughter of David and Loraine Heaiey of Alpine, will marry Chris Tenney, son of Steve and Kittie Tenney of Rebecca Brown, daughter of Bruce and Susan Brown of Provo, will marry Casey Cook, son of Krehl Cook of Salt lake City and Rachelie Coleman, daughter of Samuel R. and Linda K. Coleman of Provo, will marry Nate M. Pehrson, son of Roy M. and Linda Pehrson of Alpine, on Saturday Jan. 20 in the Salt Lake LDS Temple. A reception will honor the couple that evening from 6:30-- 8 at the Village Way Church, 901 Village Way, Alpine. The bride-to-b- e graduated from Provo High School. She earned an accounting degree from Utah Valley State College and served in the Florida Tallahassee LDS Mission. She is an accounting student at the University of Utah. Her fiance graduated from American Fork High School and LDS Seminary. He served in the Florida Tallahassee LDS Mission and attended UVSC. Bridal attendants are Ronya Hepworth, Jill Pehrson and Donna Coleman. Attending the groom are Jeremy, Trent and Sam Pehrson. ; Highland, on Saturday Jan. 20 in the Salt Lake LDS Temple. will honor the cou; A reception at ple that evening from 6:30-8:3- 0 the Temple View LDS Church, 676 N. Eagle View Drive, Alpine. ' The bride-to-b- e graduated with honors from American Fork High School and LDS Seminary. She received an associate's degree from Utah Valley State College and1 is a speech and language pathology major at Brigham is She Yeung University. as a employed training specialist for.Sears. Her fiance is a graduate of American Fork High School and LDS, Seminary where he excelled in wrestling and was the state wrestling champion twice. He received a full scholarship to Ricks College where he competed in national wrestling competitions. He ;earned an associate degree in business from UVSC and served in the New Jersey Morristown LDS Mission. He is a production manager for Red Rhino Inc., and is a business major at UVSC. Bridal attendants are Amy and Laurie Clark. Attending the groom is Joe -- All-dred- ge Tenney. ; . : Calif., on Friday Jan. 12 in the Bountiful LDS Temple. . A reception will honor the couple Jan. 19 in Provo. The bride is a graduate of High School and LDS Seminary, She served an LDS mission to Padova, Italy, and is a junior at the University of Utah. The groom is a graduate of South High School in Bakersfield.-His an Eagle Scout and served in the Hungary Budapest LDS Mission. He is a senior in physics at the University of Utah and is a real estate agent in Salt Lake City. Bridal attendants are Heather Walters, Cathy Steinberg, Suzanne Hendrix, Jennifer Sneddon, Eve Brown, Barbara, Liz, Kristi, Annette and Michelle Brown. Attending the groom is John Vorwaller. Tim-pvie- w Greg Call Lisa Palmer 7-- Hob-blecre- ek usu. Bridal attendant is Kristi Pick-eijn- g. Attending the groom is David , , I,,,, Clint Montague Lisa Morrison Morrison, Montagus Lisa Morrison, daughter of Lynn and Ruby Morrison of Spanish 'Fork, will marry Clint Montague, son of Eldon and Jody Stubbs of Spanish Fork and Sid Montague of Evanston, Wyo., on Saturday Jan. 20 at the Bella Via Reception Center in Spanish Fork. ' A reception honoring the couwill follow from p.m. ple e The graduated from Orem High School and Bon Losce ', 6-- 8 bride-to-b- Hair Academy. Her fiance graduated from Spanish Fork High School and is employed by Stubbs Construction. t MA' kCk 'l F-- IASM MrraSg't t Li Landon Cowley Lindstrom Cheyann Oostveen - Lrrm The KSL Family Now Advisory Board has identified a list of five traits which may be helpful in developing healthy families. The second is "Discipline without Anger" and is basis for this month's quiz. In the following months, we will discuss the other traits. Answer true or false to the following questions: 1. It's appropriate to spank a child. False. Experts agree that you should never spank or hit a child. Physical punishment only modifies the behavior for the short run. 2. Behavior responds better tc positive rather than negative consequences. True. Children respond better to Dear Ann Landers: I am a man who has been on high blood pressure medication for several years. As a result, I now suffer from erectile dysfunction. My urologist put me on medication that helped some but not much. He then said I could use injections, which I refused. My wife never complained or made me feel guilty about not being able to perform. In spite of her generosity and cheerful attitude, I felt depressed about our sex life and kept praying for a miracle. A month ago. my wife heard on the radio about a vacuum pump device for impotent men. I phoned my urologist. He recommended it and ordered one. Ann, with this device, I feel like a man again, and our sex life is wonderful. Another unexpected dividend is that I am no longer depressed. ' My letter is to let other men know about this alternative to reinforcement and rebel against put downs or negative positive actions. 3. Children should not be allowed to express hate and anger at home. False. A truly loving, accepting home is one where kids can express hate and anger without fear of being hated or evoking even more anger. 4. Children's expressions of hate and anger (even love) carry the same meaning as do adults. False. .Children are still in the process of learning the meaning of things, including words. 5. You should question children about inappropriate behavior. False. Only if you need information to aid in problem solving. But with or without the insurance, it is well worth the money. Please tell your readers device. about it. A New Man in Ken- - Ann uusat&'ca 2v Melissa Avis Nebeker Scott Camara Nebeker, Lindstrom Oostveen, Camara Melissa Avis Nebeker, daughter of Mark E. Nebeker of Salt Lake City and Jane L. Murphy of Cheyann Oostveen, daughter of Howard and Evelyn Wolsey of Provo and Alex and April Oostveen of Orem, will marry Scott Camara, son of Stephen C. and Barbara Camara of Provo, on Sat- Wellesley, Mass., will marry Landon Cowley Lindstrom, son of Brent C. and Linnaea Lindstrom of Provo, on Friday Jan. 19 in the Salt lake LDS Temple. A reception will honor the couple that evening from 9 at the Historic Utah County Courthouse, 51 S. University Ave., Provo. The bride-to-b- e graduated from Framingham State College in Framingham, Mass. She served an LDS Mission to Corpus Christi, Texas. She is a first grade teacher at Westridge Elementary School in Provo. Her fiance is an Eagle Scout. He graduated from Timpview High School and is a senior at Brigham Young University majoring in business management. He served in the Japan Nagoya LDS Mission. 7-- urday Jan. 20 in the Sunset 9th Ward LDS Church, A reception will honor the couple that evening from 9 at the Sunset 9th Ward LDS Church, 1090 W. 1020 South, Provo. 7-- The graduated from Provo High School and attended Stevens Henager College. Her fiance graduated from Provo High School. They are employed at Alpine Health Industries. bride-to-b- e Bridal attendants are Ashley Oostveen, Amber Nelson, Amanda Krebs, Amy Jarvis, Jaynette Dodds and Lisa Camara. Attending the groom is Coss Peacock. Questioning encourages kids to lie, propriate behavior. cause emotions to flare and, 9. Parents should use empathy and understanding. strengthens inappropriate behavior. True. True, but don't allow mer6. You should never accuse, cy to rob justice. question or overreact to a child 10. Parents should set limits for lying. children. True. You should always True. True limits should be set acknowledge, model and teach in an unemotional, precise and appropriate behavior. direct way. Consequences for non7. Parents should accept their compliance should be understood. child no matter what kind of Always remember to smile, laugh, behavior they display. talk and touch a lot, even while ' True. Parents should practice setting limits. unconditional love. The quiz questions are formu8. Parents should protect chillated from The Power of Positive dren from taking responsibility for Parenting by Glenn Latham. For their inappropriate actions. more information on this subject, False. Parents should teach chiltune into the Dough Wright Show dren to take responsibility and Monday at 2 p.m. on KSL Radio accept the consequences of inap- - 1160. Advice Columnist tucky father-in-la- w Provstgaard to celebrate 85th Saturday Jan. 20 from 5 p.m. at his home, 685 E. 400 North, Pay son.. He was born on Jan. 19, 1911, g and has been a resident of Payson. He married Burl Frost. He was always been a hard worker and operated a farm until his retirement. He is the father of Robert, Murray; Dick, Payson; Peggy, Ogden; Mary Lou. Springville. He has 13 has both an X and a Y sex chromosome, while the mother has two X's. Both parents give one chromosome each to the fertilized egg. If the father's X chromosome is paired with one of the mother's X chromosomes, the child will be a girl. If the father's Y chromosome is paired with one of the mother's X chromosomes, the child will be a boy. It seems that Betty's father-in-laneeds to make that offer to his No Expert, Just a son. Sign me Reader Vho Remembered High School Biology Dear Reader: I was swamped Museums will be topic of meeting The January meeting of the Daughters of the American Revolution will be Jan. 23 at p.m. at the home of Mrs. Lorin Wheelwright, 1765 N. 1550 East, Provo. Museums will be the topic of the day with a slide presentation of the Imperial Tombs of China exhibition at Brigham Young University plus information on an upcom1 ing exhibit at the National DAR Museum about the women of the west. with letters from readers who also remembered THEIR high school biology. You all got an "A" today. I flunked. Dear Ann Landers: I'm hoping that you can address my problem in your column. My neighbor, "Ellen," leaves her children home alone for 20 to 30 minutes to run an errand. They are ages 7 months and 2 years. next-do- or Ellen says she does this only when the children are napping, but it still worries me. She's a good neighbor, devoted to her children and My husband doesn't want me to say anything to her for fear of ruining our friendship, but I feel I should risk it. No What is your advice, Ann? Name, Mass. well-educate- Dear N.N., Mass.: It takes only a few minutes for a fire to burn down a house. Speak up. If it ruins the friendship, it was pretty fragile. By JEANE DIXON For Jan. 19 ARIES (March 19): An unexpected message is a source of inspiration. Strike a balance between two extremes and your effectiveness will increase. Romance intensifies. y .TAURUS (April 20): Original ideas abound today, but you must be practical. Use greater diplomacy when dealing with an opinionated older person. A sparkling social life could prove quite expensive. GEMINI (May 20): With a little extra concentration and effort, your plans will work out even better than expected. CANCER (June 22): Curb a tendency to daydream today. Marital tics are strengthened when a couple works together as a team. LEO (July 22): Concentrate on your strengths and career goals w ill come into clearer focus. You need to know yourself before you can understand others. t. VIRGO (Aug. 22): An important researc h project should not be neglected. SABLE NAILS Valentine's Special! SOLAR NAILS $25 ( st till 12 price) 10 yra experience Mon - Sat 225-024- 5 and one 25 Marriage and UNtF Wy on Psrrt ft, Q ft SI Michael "Happy" Smith Tirzah Nielsen Nielson, Smith Tirzah Nielson, daughter'' of Gerry and Linda Nielson of Oiem, married Michael "Happy" Smith, n.'i son of Albert and Jan. 6. of Smith in Pat Orem, the Manti LDS Temple. ;tJ A reception honored the couple that evening at the 01d.Gre,e.n Church in Orem. ;ji The bride graduated from Pleasant Grove High School. She is an accounting and architectural design student at Utah Valley State , Z College.,, The groom graduated from Orem High School and served an LDS mission in Montana. Bridal auenuanis aic ivirsien and Kindrah Nielson; Holley, Laura, April and Hazel Smith; ChYdi Dawkins and Darlene Backus. ; Attending the groom are Clark and Gerry Nielson, Troy Backus m and Richard Dawkins. i j I j j i Perez, Hall to exchange vows Bereniss Perez, daughter of Guillermo Perez Huerta and Catalina Perez Gamino of Guadalajara, Mexico, will marry Alan Hall, son of A. Nardene and Patricia Hall of Houston, Texas, on Saturday Jan. 20 in the Manti LDS Temple. A reception will honor the couple that evening at the Provo LDS Stake Center, 1315 E. 900 South, Provo. The bride-to-b- e graduated from School. She is Timpview High majoring in fashion design and linguistics at Utah Valley Spate College., .,. ' Her fiance graduated from Dwight D. Eisenhower High School in Houston, Texas, and'ls pursuing a degi'ee from Texas A&M University. He served in the Minnesota Miniii neapolis LDS Mission. Bridal attendants are Berenice Jana afld Uluave, Ogden , Stephanie Gonzales. ,t Attending the groom are Chad Hall, David Hall, Michael Buster, Roger Belislse and Michael Clayton. - i al Hayes, exchange vows Sally Hayes, daughter of'.A-Kaand Marilyn Hayes of Provo and Dayanna Varney of Alamosa, Colo., married Chris Kaiser Dec. 30 in Manurewa, New Zealand. An open house will honor tne couple Saturday Jan. 20 from o 4 p.m. at 1946 W. 600 South, Provo. j 2-t- Common sense will help you reach the cor'"' rect financial decision. LIBRA (Sept. t. 22): Your personal charms win you important new clients or customers. Make a special effort to move ahtlad ' of the competition. SCORPIO (Oct. 21): A wonder ful day for romance lies ahead. Make the J most of it! The atmosphere is ideal for taking j uireci action. t.i SAGITTARIUS (Nov. .22-DcRefuse to be drawn into a conflict that docs not concern you. Play the role of mediator ' only if both parlies ask. CAPRICORN (Dec. Associ19): ates confirm something that you feared was loo g(Hid to be true. Do not crow! AQUARIUS (Jan. 18): Use your bead. Do not snap at your when under pressure. Heed a good friend's advice i regarding a private matter.' PISCES (Feb. 20): Friendship and romance dominate today. You gain a,new lease on life thanks to some exciting developments. Many successful people have followed the path you have outlined for yoursflf. Twice The Senke "Cari & Battia" ThsrnhiS! I 2-- life-lon- ; w Dear New Man: I'm pleased that the device works so well for you, but I would not tell my readers it is a sure bet for all males who suffer from impotence. A competent urologist who is on the latest will inform his The manufacturer up impotence. claims it helps about 95 percent of male patients about other the men who try it. It is easy to use approaches to impotence. The and can be a godsend. message from here is this: Men With a prescription from my who are impotent should not urologist, my insurance company accept the condition as a death helped pay for the cost of this knell to their sex lives. There is help for you. Investigate. Dear Ann Landers: I had to laugh when I read the letter from "Baltimore Betty," whose offered her $10,000 to produce a boy. (She had just delivered her fourth girl.) If I remember my high school celwill biology, it is the father's chromoDonald R. Provstgaard some that determines the sex of the ebrate his 85th birthday at an open house hosted by his children on child, not the mother's. The father grandchildren. J addresses disciplining without anger Quiz iisesioni ; 01 do have some options available Palmer, Call i i Men suffering from impotence J Lisa Palmer, daughter of Lee aild Susan Palmer of Mapleton, w jll marry Greg Call, son of David and Claire Call of Springville, on Fciday Jan. 19 in the Mapleton' 8th Vird LDS Church, An open house will honor the at ccjuple that evening from 9 E. 1229 Call residence, thy Dr., Springville. 5 The bride-to-b- e and her fiance from graduated Springville High School. Lisa was a psychology aild dance major at Utah State University. Greg is a student at 1 Mary Newton of Bakersfield, J CoIdwtU Hanker Wert Realty 439 4 hwkj Presto Are A Let Like Just because youVe had one patched up doesn't mean that have another in the future. 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