Show FT 4 0 BTU WOO C 3 ving wedding day kindly answer the foll following owing ques eions regarding the noonday wedding to take place on thanksgiving day at the church in what order should the maid of honor ring bearer and the best man enter the what should be served at a reception which will follow immediately after the ceremony Is it necessary to send an invitation to each member of a family or can I 1 say mr and mrs blank and thanking you most sincerely perplexed the best man with the groom en on the church from the vestry and with the minister awaits the coming of the bride mho ho Is first preceded by the ring bearer then the honored maid and last the bride on the arm of her father or whoever gives her away it if there Is no one to do this she may enter alone at that season of the year you could serve chicken or sweetbreads creamed in heart shaped pastry shells sandwiches of brown and white bread olives salted nuts a salad with wafers coffee ice fee cream and of course the traditional wedding cake slippers of white or pink or tiny white satin bags filled with candled candied puffed rice are pretty for souvenirs instead of wedding cake boxes good form requires a separate inal tation for each unmarried member of a household the and family Is strictly out of date economize in some other way but not on your inai nations duties of a bridesmaid please state the duties of a brides maid in just what way should she assist the bride I 1 expect to wear deep cream or buff please advise whether you think crepe meteor would be more appropriate than marquisette J L if there Is only one maid she imme precedes the bride to the al tar stands by her side holds her bouquet and throws back her veil it if she wears one it Is customary tor for her lier to stand by her side when re celsing but this Is not always done I 1 fancy the crepe meteor Is softer and prettier tor for your gown than marquisette qu isette i visiting cards for young girl I 1 am a young girl sixteen how soon will it be proper for me to have my own cards and should miss pre cede the name and should my name be written out in fulla schoolgirl you may have your own cards right now although until you make your debut your name Is supposed to be on your mothers card to use 1 in mak ing formal calls and for invitation purposes but there are so many occa alons where a girl needs her own card have miss and your name be it short or long engraved in full no abbreviation or prof prefixing axing initials before a name A high noon wedding will you kindly state at just what time high noon Is isa also suggest a men 4 or three courses for a wedding break ast at that hour to be served in buffet style as a flat prevents any other method of serving mrs J H B high noon Is exactly 12 0 clock and is the favorite hour for a wedding with our english bouins and even more so now since alice roosevelt selected that time for the first course serve iced feed cantaloupe filled with sliced pineapple and maraschino cher ries then chicken salad with plain sandwiches from a I 1 perplexed man sometimes a young woman Is very friendly in speaking when she enters the dining room again she does not recognize me since I 1 consider that it la is her place to speak first am I 1 not justified in not noticing her here after A perplexed man alan I 1 would be really sure that the per son in question was intentional in not noticing me andas and as it Is conceded that a woman has the privilege of being the first to show recognition it if she continued to ignore my presence I 1 should certainly give no evidence that I 1 knew she was on earth the proper thing to do will you kindly tell me it if it Is cor form for young men to call and leave their cards after they have been invited to a also the correct pronunciation of misses in the misses brown alice it Is indeed the correct form tor for young men to make party calls after having partaken ot of a persons person a hos pita vitality pit allty lity but few of them do it more a the pity misses is usually preceded by the word the and bounds sounds exactly aa as it if spelled mrs t |