Show rudeness checked by display of courtesy the most effective weapon to be used in meeting rudeness la is courtesy I 1 say that dignity and calm and ami gowl temper will always check rudeness even in a person who can be checked by no other means the explanation la Is that it Is tin im possible to lie disagreeable without knowing that hat one Is being disagree able and to be met b by tiA agreeable meble manners when one knows that one IQ being disagreeable Is in itself a severe lesson the disagreeable person 1 Is quirk quick enough in wits to perceive the end of power he Is quick enough diniso also to make a comparison and feet eel a sense of inferiority to the self con COD trolled strolled agreeable person anger gives way to respect find and respect to lo emulation the disagreeable person conscious at last of an in fir nifty becomes apologetic I 1 have seen it happen tolerance kindness call the response by tiny any name you will are till all indications that the possessor has attal attained ned to self mastery the disagreeable person however cultured Is savage and the savage will always be controlled by that which Is elvill civilized zed kansas city times |